# Who here lost his/her virginity the latest? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [February 19, 2006, 10:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249 "2006-02-19T22:17:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Taran](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/edb3f5/32.png) [@Taran](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Taran)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 4:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/61 "2006-02-21T04:21:20Z")
21 1/2, and counting. Not even in the running. At first I had religious objections\*, now I mostly lack for opportunity. I’d support the Dopefest/orgy plan, but I’m probably moving back to Massachusetts, which isn’t exactly orgy country. - True story: I lost my high school sweetheart because I wasn’t willing to have sex with her. Yeah, I’m a guy. How backwards is _that_? ---
**Author:** ![HPL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/3da27b/32.png) [@HPL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HPL)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 4:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/62 "2006-02-21T04:40:13Z")
I doubt I’d ever make it to the Orgy. If I want meaningless sex, I can get it for free without leaving my room. I crave the companionship more then anything else. Getting laid, to me, is very much secondary to that. Sure, if I find the right person, sex will come soon, but it’s not the sole reason. ---
**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 7:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/63 "2006-02-21T07:21:18Z")
Umm, male 42, waited (sort of) till I was 37… Og this is one contest I really don’t want to win, but if I do, what do I win, what do I win? CMC ---
**Author:** ![Ranchoth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ranchoth/32/1066_2.png) [@Ranchoth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ranchoth)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 7:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/64 "2006-02-21T07:40:12Z")
Oh, sure, the orgy would be great…until afterwards, when the lonliness would be even worse, because for awhile I had hope. That, and I’d probably end up being Patient Zero of a hideous STD that evolved that very day. :smack: ---
**Author:** ![Roland\_Orzabal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c2a13f/32.png) [@Roland\_Orzabal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roland_Orzabal)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 7:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/65 "2006-02-21T07:50:38Z")
Hi. My name’s Roland (except it isn’t). I’m 22. Yep, you guessed it. Sad? Nah. Look at it this way: if it mattered, it’d be different, but it doesn’t, so it isn’t. At such time as I care, I may make an effort to do something about it. Until then, meh. I remain. ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 8:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/66 "2006-02-21T08:03:25Z")
> [@Ranchoth](#): > > That, and I’d probably end up being Patient Zero of a hideous STD that evolved that very day. :smack: Aw, come on! Look at this way. You’d get to make medical history. I’m not helping, am I? Sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Ranchoth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ranchoth/32/1066_2.png) [@Ranchoth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ranchoth)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 8:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/67 "2006-02-21T08:41:38Z")
> [@Telperien](#): > > Aw, come on! Look at this way. You’d get to make medical history. Well, there are worse fates than ending up in a glass case in a museum, I guess. If you’ll excuse me, I have to get back to sitting in the dark, listening to Mozart’s Lacrimosa. Over and over again. At high volume. ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 9:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/68 "2006-02-21T09:11:35Z")
> [@Ranchoth](#): > > Well, there are worse fates than ending up in a glass case in a museum, I guess. > > If you’ll excuse me, I have to get back to sitting in the dark, listening to Mozart’s Lacrimosa. Over and over again. At high volume. Now you’re thinking. ---
**Author:** ![PapSett](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecc23a/32.png) [@PapSett](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PapSett)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 12:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/69 "2006-02-21T12:30:28Z")
> [@crowmanyclouds](#): > > Umm, > male 42, waited (sort of) till I was 37… > > Og this is one contest I really don’t want to win, > but if I do, > > what do I win, what do I win? > > CMC Sorry, I’m still ‘winning’ at 45 and holding. But like you, I’d much prefer to NOT win this one, thank you. ---
**Author:** ![Electrical\_Storm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ac8455/32.png) [@Electrical\_Storm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Electrical_Storm)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/70 "2006-02-21T17:30:56Z")
(ahem). I’m female, I had just turned 15 when it happened. It was okay. Channeling Jim Carrey: “I’ve had better.” 😃 But seriously, as far as losing-virginity experiences go, it was okay. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/71 "2006-02-21T17:36:27Z")
> [@NotWithoutRage](#): > > Female here. I was 18. Wasn’t worth it. :rolleyes: See, that’s the thing, often it’s not worth it anyway. I don’t wish I had waited, i wish I had chosen someone else. Within one month of being 20. I’m female. I had sworn to wait until 20, I almost made it. ---
**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/72 "2006-02-21T17:38:59Z")
> [@crowmanyclouds](#): > > Umm, > male 42, waited (sort of) till I was 37… > > Og this is one contest I really don’t want to win, > but if I do, > > what do I win, what do I win? > > CMC **PapSett** and I will meet you at a place and time of your choosing and give you such a wedgie you’ll be flossing elastic out from between your molars. ---
**Author:** ![sishoch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3e96dc/32.png) [@sishoch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sishoch)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 6:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/73 "2006-02-21T18:00:09Z")
Technically, I think I win, as Papsett has not actually done the deed yet. male, 44 years 98 days (just a few months ago) ---
**Author:** ![Quasimodal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/57b2e6/32.png) [@Quasimodal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quasimodal)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/74 "2006-02-21T19:54:29Z")
Male here. I’m 23, and so far nothings happened. No relationships or anything. I guess I’m fairly average looking, and I’ve almost fixed the weight problem. I’d rather have a relationship than sex though,as it can get really lonely sometimes. As well during those shitty weeks when everything is going against you, it would be nice to come home to someone for reassurance. Contrary to popular belief, musicians do not always get the girls. At least not jazz musicians. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 8:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/75 "2006-02-21T20:27:07Z")
> [@Quasimodal](#): > > Contrary to popular belief, musicians do not always get the girls. At least not jazz musicians. ☹ No shit. To echo **Sampiro** , it depends on how you define losing it. For me, I lost it from the ages of 13-22, with the help of no fewer than 6 girls. Sadly, not all at the same time, and not consistantly and constantly throughout that time. That woulda rocked! Honestly, does it happen for most people that you go from “hello” to “let’s fuck” all in one go? No oral-only relationships? No hand/finger play? ---
**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/76 "2006-02-21T20:34:23Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > … > Honestly, does it happen for most people that you go from “hello” to “let’s fuck” all in one go? No oral-only relationships? No hand/finger play? Nope, as one of the aforementioned “anything _but_” girls, that’s what sustained me and several relationships until I finally gave up the friggin’ key to Fort Knox. :rolleyes: So, to paraphrase Mae West, I might have been considered pure as the driven snow, but I drifted. A LOT. ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/77 "2006-02-21T20:46:03Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > See, that’s the thing, often it’s not worth it anyway. I don’t wish I had waited, i wish I had chosen someone else. > > Within one month of being 20. I’m female. I had sworn to wait until 20, I almost made it. See how alike we are? The only reason I waited until the day before my birthday was because he wasn’t in my vicinity till then. Stupid long-distance relationships. ---
**Author:** ![liberty3701](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3d9bf3/32.png) [@liberty3701](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/liberty3701)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 9:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/78 "2006-02-21T21:22:50Z")
> [@Ranchoth](#): > > That, and I’d probably end up being Patient Zero of a hideous STD that evolved that very day. :smack: Yeah, but the good news is that you’ll have a disease named after you! I (a female) lost mine a few days after my 21st birthday. It was a combination of obliviousness, shyness, and the opportunity not presenting itself in such a way that I took it as an opportunity. ---
**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/79 "2006-02-21T21:38:17Z")
> [@Sampiro](#): > > Whatever the case, for me it was when I was 12 with a lady who later went on to star in _The Golden Girls_. It was special and romantic, and I absolutely insisted my parents drop the charges and keep it out of the media. I won’t say which one, but let’s just say that to this day I hear the themesong to _Maude_ and have an embarassing reaction. :eek: :eek: Wowsers. I’m assuming that at the time, this lady wasn’t the grandmotherly type as all of the _Golden Girls_ were, but DAMN. That’s wild. Well, good for you. Oh - 19. ---
**Author:** ![Ensign\_Edison](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7ab992/32.png) [@Ensign\_Edison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ensign_Edison)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 9:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249/80 "2006-02-21T21:41:52Z")
> [@Sampiro](#): > > With me and with other gay boys it probably depends on how you define “lost” as well. Oral? Penetration- top? Penetration- bottom? etc… Well, if same sex oral counts, I lose this competition really a lot. Wait, that’s still true for everything else. Nevermind. Carry on! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249.md?page=3) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-lost-his-her-virginity-the-latest/345249.md?page=5)