# Who the hell do you think you are ArchitectChore?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [September 10, 2002, 10:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854 "2002-09-10T22:09:54Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![japatlgt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df705f/32.png) [@japatlgt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/japatlgt)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2002, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/41 "2002-09-11T17:42:40Z")

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This place is starting to feel more like family everyday!😃

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**Author:** ![World\_Eater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f04885/32.png) [@World\_Eater](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/World_Eater)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2002, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/42 "2002-09-11T18:25:14Z")

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Pull that wolverine out of your ass PL. I would respect her slightly more if she stayed around and defended her fucked up POV. People who run away and stick their heads in the ground always bothered me.

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**Author:** ![dreamer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/6bbea6/32.png) [@dreamer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dreamer)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2002, 6:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/43 "2002-09-11T18:55:46Z")

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I’m sorry but **japatlgt** that was just too funny! I can’t say I disagree with you either.

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**Author:** ![CrazyCatLady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dfb087/32.png) [@CrazyCatLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrazyCatLady)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2002, 9:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/44 "2002-09-11T21:09:04Z")

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**World Eater** , PL’s got a point. You can’t celebrate her leaving and then criticize her for going. Pick one and stick with it. Besides, if she had stuck around and tried to defend herself, she’d have just been inviting a pile-on of the kind of insults she was already fed up with. And, no, it’s not bitchy to leave a place where you’re regularly insulted, ridiculed, and treated with little or no respect.

I thought a lot of her opinions were pretty assinine, but \*\*WV\_woman had as much right to post them as anyone else on here had to insult her.

Oh, and **ArchitectChore** , please don’t tell anyone else you’re going to UK. Your rudeness and lack of compassion are an embarrassment to my school, my city, and my state.

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**Author:** ![World\_Eater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f04885/32.png) [@World\_Eater](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/World_Eater)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2002, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/45 "2002-09-11T21:28:28Z")

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> \*Originally posted by CrazyCatLady \*  
> \*\ ***World Eater** , PL’s got a point. You can’t celebrate her leaving and then criticize her for going. Pick one and stick with it. Besides, if she had stuck around and tried to defend herself, she’d have just been inviting a pile-on of the kind of insults she was already fed up with. And, no, it’s not bitchy to leave a place where you’re regularly insulted, ridiculed, and treated with little or no respect. \*\*

And I celebrated her leaving where?

Bowing out of a thread to avoid a pile-on, and leaving the boards like a 3 year old who didn’t get their way, are two different things IMO.

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**Author:** ![ElwoodCuse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/edb3f5/32.png) [@ElwoodCuse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ElwoodCuse)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2002, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/46 "2002-09-11T23:42:20Z")

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Anyone see yesterday’s “Non Sequitur”? I think it fits pretty well for this thread…

What they really mean:  
“To hell with reality, to hell with my inability to refute the facts supporting your position and proving my dogma wrong, and to hell with you!”

What they say: (old lady holding a sign that reads "God says I’m right about everything) “I’ll pray for you”.

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**Author:** ![Sunglasses](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5fc32e/32.png) [@Sunglasses](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunglasses)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2002, 12:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/47 "2002-09-12T12:04:27Z")

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> \*Originally posted by CrazyCatLady \*  
> \*\*Oh, and **ArchitectChore** , please don’t tell anyone else you’re going to UK. Your rudeness and lack of compassion are an embarrassment to my school, my city, and my state. \*\*

What’s your problem? He apologized quite nicely.

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**Author:** ![Ins\_Outs\_What-have-yous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8797f3/32.png) [@Ins\_Outs\_What-have-yous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ins_Outs_What-have-yous)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2002, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/48 "2002-09-12T19:37:03Z")

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CrazyCatLady:

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> Oh, and \*\*ArchitectChore, please don’t tell anyone else you’re going to UK. Your rudeness and lack of compassion are an embarrassment to my school, my city, and my state.

What?!? I’m not an embarrassment to the human race?

In all seriousness, I’m an embarrassment to myself. Period.

Your wish for me to conceal my identity as a UK Wildcat will not be granted.

ZeGirl:

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> What’s your problem? He apologized quite nicely.

Mom, I know you were trying to be polite and funny when you defended me in [this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=126250&highlight=ethiopian), but please stop. You’ve never been an over-zealous parent (thank you)…so please don’t act like you are one.

AC, a University of Kentucky Wildcat.

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**Author:** ![Slainte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@Slainte](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slainte)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2002, 11:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/49 "2002-09-12T23:03:46Z")

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🙂 The Family that SDMBs together stays together!

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**Author:** ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2002, 11:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/50 "2002-09-12T23:30:53Z")

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All this thread needs now is dueling banjos.

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**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2002, 1:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/51 "2002-09-13T01:27:27Z")

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Y’know, if WV\_Woman had taken the Buzz Aldrin approach and simply decked Architect instead of dissing the board… she’d be a hero!

Well, no, she wouldn’t. And I didn’t like her either.

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**Author:** ![Anahita](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9a28c/32.png) [@Anahita](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anahita)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2002, 10:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/52 "2002-09-13T10:17:59Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Jack Batty \*  
> \*\*All this thread needs now is dueling banjos. \*\*

Bwahahaaaaa…

“Devil went down to Georgia…”

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**Author:** ![Sunglasses](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5fc32e/32.png) [@Sunglasses](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunglasses)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2002, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/53 "2002-09-13T16:09:58Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Slainte \*  
> \*\*🙂 The Family that SDMBs together stays together! \*\*

😃

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**Author:** ![Slainte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@Slainte](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slainte)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2002, 4:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/54 "2002-09-13T16:44:58Z")

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**ZeGirl** I really do think it is cool that you are both on here. I couldn’t imagine my Mom lasting too long at the Dope, she just got a computer last year. I had to tell her (numerous times) that typing in all caps is greatly frowned upon.

**ArchitectChore** I tip my hat to you. I was no **WV\_Woman** fan at all, I’ll be nice and leave it at that.

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**Author:** ![World\_Eater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f04885/32.png) [@World\_Eater](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/World_Eater)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2002, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/55 "2002-09-13T16:48:50Z")

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At least **Crazycat** rightly shut up, so I’m happy.

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**Author:** ![fireman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/71c47a/32.png) [@fireman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fireman)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2002, 3:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/56 "2002-09-14T03:14:13Z")

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**CrazyCatLady** said

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> I thought a lot of her opinions were pretty assinine, but WV\_woman had as much right to post them as anyone else on here had to insult her.

I agree with this statement completely. Quite a few posts on this board are the poster’s opinion. ArchitectChore has his about WV\_Woman, and I have mine, and everybody else that posted in this thread has theirs.

I will admit that I was a little harsh with my opinion, but I am a little sensitive about comments of this type. One was made about my mother, a West Virginian, by a relative by marriage, who is a displaced WV resident. As soon as I see him face to face, I intend to give him my opinion. Fully. And loudly.

ArchitectChore, I don’t know you, but from the content of your posts you seem to be an intellegent person. I don’t agree with your opinion of WV\_Woman, but I will respect your right to state it. Seeing as she is not currently a member, I guess the point is probably moot, but there it is.

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**Author:** ![CrazyCatLady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dfb087/32.png) [@CrazyCatLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrazyCatLady)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2002, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/57 "2002-09-14T03:27:28Z")

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> \*Originally posted by World Eater \*  
> \*\*At least **Crazycat** rightly shut up, so I’m happy. \*\*

Wassamatta darlin’, somebody piss in your Cheerios this morning?

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**Author:** ![Una\_Persson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/una_persson/32/346_2.png) [@Una\_Persson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Una_Persson)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2002, 12:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/58 "2002-09-14T12:03:27Z")

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Here was my only and sole problem with **WV\_Woman** - when she made her opinions known as was her “right” to (the Moderators would strongly disagree that anyone has a “right” to make any and all opinions known here), she very often did it in the form of popping into a thread, making a statement that _demanded_ discussion, debate, or controversy, then left. Never to return, except possibly to make another off-the-cuff statement.

This was my only exposure to her in the threads where I noticed her, and it is very rude and obnoxious behavior - regardless of whatever the actual view or opinion was.

She could have had a lot more defenders, and a lot less critics, if she would not have done things like this.

You know, I got a couple of e-mails from people exclaiming “Anth - why the hell were you defending **WV\_Woman** in that birthday thread? Don’t you know she hates lesbians like yourself?”

Well, no, I didn’t know that, but it wouldn’t have changed me posting in the thread, nor defending the birthday thread.

Birthdays should be one special day when anyone who is not a criminal or monster should be given one chance. One chance to receive well-wishes without being attacked or having snide remarks made towards them. More than a year ago someone attacked my birthday thread as a joke (for which they honestly and forthrightly apologized), but at the same time several people also attacked me in the Pit over it (who are filthy scum and would never apologize over it).

It was a cowardly, disgusting, and bullying thing to do, and it made me very angry. And I saw a repeat of that happening again, so I decided to step in and try to derail it.

Not that **WV\_Woman** herself gave a shit about my defense, or my well-wishes. :rolleyes: But then, for more than two years here now people have jokingly called me “Saint Una of the Lost Causes”. 😉

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**Author:** ![wring](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2002, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/59 "2002-09-14T13:03:19Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Anthracite \*  
> \*\* But then, for more than two years here now people have jokingly called me “Saint Una of the Lost Causes”. 😉 \*\*

careful -titles like that will get you an honorary seat in the “Liberal but not a fucking lunatic” section 😉 Hope you like white wine & Brie 😃

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**Author:** ![Fenris](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fenris/32/498_2.png) [@Fenris](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fenris)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2002, 1:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-the-hell-do-you-think-you-are-architectchore/127854/60 "2002-09-14T13:57:38Z")

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Forget that, **Wring** : She’s already got a seat reserved for her in the “Conservative-but not a raving psycho” section. She’s pro-Second Amendment, so we got first dibbies. And our food is better: none of that sissy “white wine and Brie” stuff. We got meat. Big, drippy slabs of steak, corn-on-th’-cob slathered in butter, hell, for **Anth** , we’ll even barbeque a spotted owl for her!

😉

Fenris

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