# Who were you in Junior High School?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [May 16, 2016, 5:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898 "2016-05-16T05:17:03Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 5:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/1 "2016-05-16T05:17:03Z")

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What role did you take?

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 5:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/2 "2016-05-16T05:21:48Z")

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In USA – Junior High – class clown. In Russia – elementary a little a clown a little a bully.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 5:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/3 "2016-05-16T05:25:12Z")

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Those are the only alternatives?

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 5:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/4 "2016-05-16T05:27:18Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> Those are the only alternatives?

WOW – forgot

–None of the above

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**Author:** ![Rhiannon8404](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rhiannon8404/32/17929_2.png) [@Rhiannon8404](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rhiannon8404)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 5:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/5 "2016-05-16T05:29:42Z")

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You’re missing a lot of categories.

I was in a group of popular girls, but we weren’t mean about it.

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 5:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/6 "2016-05-16T05:34:16Z")

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> [@Rhiannon8404](#):
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> I was in a group of popular girls, but we weren’t mean about it.

I am sorry I do not know about girls’ experiences.

In my own experience, I focused too much on conflict.

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**Author:** ![Johnny\_Ace](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/6bbea6/32.png) [@Johnny\_Ace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_Ace)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 6:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/7 "2016-05-16T06:24:19Z")

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Complete class clown. I only had one fight in junior high (because I’m a wiseass :)), early on, where this kid kept trying to kick me and I’d grab his leg and flip him. Basically I held him off for a couple of minutes until a P.E. teacher came running and broke it up. Nobody bothered me after that, though I really didn’t do all that much.

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**Author:** ![12mgdaily](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/1/f08c70/32.png) [@12mgdaily](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/12mgdaily)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 6:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/8 "2016-05-16T06:35:06Z")

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I was the art major who didn’t fit in with the group of popular girls. I had my own style, which was different from theirs.

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**Author:** ![Trinopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Trinopus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trinopus)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 6:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/9 "2016-05-16T06:59:21Z")

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Yuck. Victim of bullying. Nasty, nasty part of my life.

I love the “Its Gets Better” movement, trying to pass along encouragement to victims. A lot of suicides happen at that age, and it is well to try to offer them some hope, instead. In my case, the bullying stopped, cold, when I got to college. The entire environment was safer and saner. Out of hell, to a normal world, in one single step.

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**Author:** ![jz78817](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jz78817/32/1028_2.png) [@jz78817](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jz78817)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 7:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/10 "2016-05-16T07:20:04Z")

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I was the fat dumpy nerd nobody liked.

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**Author:** ![guizot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guizot/32/3636_2.png) [@guizot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/guizot)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 7:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/11 "2016-05-16T07:32:55Z")

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> [@CCitizen](#):
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> I am sorry I do not know about girls’ experiences.
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> In my own experience, I focused too much on conflict.

Things were probably just simpler back then. I would’ve included:

[ul]  
[li]outside agitator[/li][li]femme fatale[/li][li]contrarian[/li][li]master of ceremonies[/li][li]ombudsman[/li][li]entrepreneur[/li][li]shrew[/li][/ul]

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**Author:** ![JohnT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnt/32/15048_2.png) [@JohnT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnT)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 11:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/12 "2016-05-16T11:34:04Z")

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I fought bullies with such a joyous, wild abandon that I never got into a fight after the 7th grade despite my horned-rimmed glasses. I was renowned for my ability to \*completely and utterly lose my shit \*that there were, frankly, much easier targets (sorry Brian Hambrick!) even if you did outsize me.

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**Author:** ![JKellyMap](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jkellymap/32/15880_2.png) [@JKellyMap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JKellyMap)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 11:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/13 "2016-05-16T11:40:54Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> Those are the only alternatives?

I know, right? Only occasional, mild bullying occurred in my school, and what little there was wasn’t physical. I guess I was just lucky to live in an innocent, heavenly bubble.

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**Author:** ![saje](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saje/32/3631_2.png) [@saje](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saje)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 11:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/14 "2016-05-16T11:44:16Z")

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Shy, dorky, wallflower girl.

I wasn’t bullied, I wasn’t really noticed I guess.

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 12:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/15 "2016-05-16T12:07:50Z")

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None of the above. I was shy, almost to the point of being scared, except in French class where I was a star. I got good grades, had a few friends, and dreamed of being popular.

I figured things would change in senior high. They didn’t…

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**Author:** ![Machine\_Elf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 12:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/16 "2016-05-16T12:14:19Z")

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I was bullied through 7th grade, and significant part of 8th grade. The bullying faded away over the course of 8th grade. I don’t know whether it’s because the assholes were maturing a bit as they aged, or because I began punching the little fuckers; I suspect it was a little of both.

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**Author:** ![campp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@campp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/campp)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 12:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/17 "2016-05-16T12:17:32Z")

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Nerd.

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**Author:** ![Hari\_Seldon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hari_seldon/32/5173_2.png) [@Hari\_Seldon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hari_Seldon)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 12:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/18 "2016-05-16T12:45:30Z")

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My elementary school went to 8 grades and HS was 9-12. No bullies I was aware of in either school. When I finished 8th, all the remaining 8th graders, 7th graders, and the second half of 6th graders also left the school to attend the brand new JHS that just opened, so I was among the very last who skipped JHS.

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 12:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/19 "2016-05-16T12:50:50Z")

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Discrete class clown. I was the one who rolled “joints” using minced pencil shavings from the pencil sharpener, then surreptitiously left them where they could be discovered by an adult, leading to a massive “Drugs are infesting our school” freak out.

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**Author:** ![Telemark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/telemark/32/372_2.png) [@Telemark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telemark)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2016, 1:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-were-you-in-junior-high-school/754898/20 "2016-05-16T13:05:28Z")

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None of the above. Actually, very few of the above in my schools.

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