# Who'll admit to masterbating with a friends husband or wife in mind? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 28, 2002, 11:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009 "2002-09-28T11:26:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Omnipresent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8c91f0/32.png) [@Omnipresent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omnipresent)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2002, 11:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/1 "2002-09-28T11:26:54Z")
I have to think that this is very normal. I know that the feeling afterward is a little guilty, especially when being face to face with that person shortly thereafter but, just curious, anybody besides me done this? ---
**Author:** ![white-tigeress](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f475e1/32.png) [@white-tigeress](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/white-tigeress)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2002, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/2 "2002-09-28T14:35:43Z")
Not me !!! ---
**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2002, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/3 "2002-09-28T23:42:14Z")
Of course, yes. I’m surprised you even asked. ---
**Author:** ![AndrewL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@AndrewL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AndrewL)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2002, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/4 "2002-09-28T23:58:21Z")
I have. Never felt any guilt about it afterwards, either. ---
**Author:** ![I\_can\_t\_believe\_that\_s\_butter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@I\_can\_t\_believe\_that\_s\_butter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/I_can_t_believe_that_s_butter)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2002, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/5 "2002-09-29T06:23:00Z")
Me ---
**Author:** ![Badtz\_Maru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e36b37/32.png) [@Badtz\_Maru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badtz_Maru)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2002, 6:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/6 "2002-09-29T06:32:58Z")
I’ve masturbated with a friend’s wife. Screw thinking about it. ---
**Author:** ![misstee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/958977/32.png) [@misstee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/misstee)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2002, 6:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/7 "2002-09-29T06:51:23Z")
me too ---
**Author:** ![Ssarl\_the\_happy\_Martian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Ssarl\_the\_happy\_Martian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ssarl_the_happy_Martian)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2002, 10:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/8 "2002-09-29T10:32:48Z")
I would never do this. It’s truly digusting in every way. So the issue will not come up. ---
**Author:** ![iamthewalrus\_3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/258eb7/32.png) [@iamthewalrus\_3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iamthewalrus_3)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2002, 10:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/9 "2002-09-29T10:40:12Z")
Yep. My friend’s wife is hot. ---
**Author:** ![Mr\_Salads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@Mr\_Salads](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr_Salads)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2002, 4:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/10 "2002-09-30T04:17:11Z")
Yeah, my friend’s mom— er. Hehe. Nevermind. ---
**Author:** ![baltotop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f19dbf/32.png) [@baltotop](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/baltotop)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2002, 6:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/11 "2002-09-30T06:20:20Z")
Yep me 2, I love thinking about my friends Husbands doing me instead of them …😃 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Ashtar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9fc29f/32.png) [@Ashtar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ashtar)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2002, 9:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/12 "2002-09-30T09:59:22Z")
Ayup. I even had the balls big enough to tell her that I had a crush on her. Both he and she are good friends, though. So it was all good. ---
**Author:** ![Sublight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/439d5e/32.png) [@Sublight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sublight)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2002, 8:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/13 "2002-10-01T08:12:42Z")
I’d raise my hand, but it’s occupied at the moment. ---
**Author:** ![NurseCarmen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5daacb/32.png) [@NurseCarmen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NurseCarmen)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2002, 3:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/14 "2002-10-01T15:10:19Z")
I be willing to bet big money that my buddy has boxed the clown while thinking about my wife, and I certainly have done the same with his wife in mind. I guess we’re buddies because we have like tastes (women) and interests (women). ---
**Author:** ![welby1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@welby1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/welby1)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2002, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/15 "2002-10-01T15:20:26Z")
More than once, more than one friend. ---
**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2002, 6:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/16 "2002-10-01T18:32:27Z")
pffft yeah. Of course! Now who will admit to to thinking about some of your in-laws? Not my siblings spouses but my spouses siblings (ok and her mom too) ---
**Author:** ![Omnipresent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8c91f0/32.png) [@Omnipresent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omnipresent)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2002, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/17 "2002-10-01T18:41:46Z")
pfffffffffffffffftttttttttttttttttttttt ohhhh pleeeeassse. I’ve had my wife’s sister in more degusting ways than you could possible imagine. That’s the beauty of taking matters into one’s own hands. ---
**Author:** ![Purd\_Werfect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e47c2d/32.png) [@Purd\_Werfect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Purd_Werfect)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2002, 8:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/18 "2002-10-01T20:31:14Z")
Hell yes. All my sister-in-laws as well. And I told my wife. She laughed. ---
**Author:** ![Harvest\_78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b19c9b/32.png) [@Harvest\_78](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Harvest_78)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2018, 4:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/19 "2018-11-04T16:07:25Z")
I’ve masterbated to pretty much every single female I know. All of my wife’s friends, and almost every female family member. I’ve even masterbated with my mother in law’s underwear. I’m terrible. My favorite fantasy is my cousin Sarah…I’ve jerked it to her daily since I was 13…I’m now 39. ---
**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2018, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wholl-admit-to-masterbating-with-a-friends-husband-or-wife-in-mind/130009/20 "2018-11-04T18:22:22Z")
I think we’ll shut this one down.