I always thought it meant your pimp…
From my understanding it’s a joke about having really nasty sex with a woman. You’re in total control of her and making her say you’re her daddy.
I’d guess it really became popular when the Greaseman was still on the airwaves. (He’s probably on somewhere… just not here in Atlanta anymore)
In 1970 we used it in a general sense, like after scoring a basket or winning a game for example. Sort of like ‘who’s better than you?’
Hello, my name is evilbeth (“Hi, evilbeth”) and I admit that I use this phrase way more often than is really necessary! (Not that it is ever necessary but you know what I mean) For some reason, I just think it’s funny. Incidentally, I use it in the sense labdude explained–a “who’s your sugar daddy” way.
My very submissive (in bed - the rest of the time he was a nagging, prying control freak) ex-boyfriend wanted me to call him son and let him call me daddy, which was weird because he is actually older than I am. That boy has issues.
funneefarmer sez:
Me too. I almost always use it as a taunt, or sometimes a light-hearted gloat among friends. Wouldn’t say this to a stranger or an acquaintance.
Oh, and don’t forget:
“Dont you love her madly…wanna be her daddy…”
Thanks, everybody. I think Labdude’s “Sgar Daddy” explanation covers it. Sometimes I can be extremely dense. But I still suspect that most people who use this phrase have no idea what it means.
I’ll bet Woody Allen knows.
Well now ::jumping in late here:: and issue I can relate to.
A few years ago a girl I kinda knew and I got together.
After a fun night out and a few cocktails, well, things got going rather nicely for me.
During the act, I blurted out ‘who’s your daddy, bitch’.
Before everyone and their mother comes after me one this, yes it was probably the most innappropriate thing I’ve ever said. Not PC in the slightest.
However, rather than slapping the shit out of me, it inspired her to even greater lengths!
“Talk dirty to me big boy!”
I was at a loss.
I don’t know about the others around here, but trying to come up with dirty things to say, at an awkward moment no less, is a bit difficult.
My roommate at the time had the same thing happen to him. The girl went nuts and wanted him to dominate her. He, being less of a voyeur than I, started saying things about his underwear. From the way he described it, it ruined the mood she was in rather quickly. It gave us all a laugh the following day, but not what I think she wanted.
As others have pointed out. I think it has little to do with the comment and more to do with the domination facter. I would never use this as a pick-up line. I think you’d get your ass handed to you pretty fast if you did.
Save it for the woman you love. I think you’d be surprised at how they react.
Man. I’ve been sitting here hesitating to submit this. But it did happen. She was never offended and we ended up having a few flings that both of us seemed to enjoy. Ended very friendly.
Please don’t remind me I’m a parent. . . for just 10 minutes in bed, let me be a person, *please. *