It is is Illinois, where the Criminal Code distinguishes domestic battery from battery and aggravated domestic battery from aggravated battery by the fact that the victim is “any family or household member” where
(Emphasis added by me.) Interestingly enough, the original 1986 law included roommates and ex-roommates right along with more “traditional” categories (spouses, former spouses, parents, children, stepchildren and other persons related by blood or marriage), while people with a child in common, people dating or engaged, and disabled persons/assistants weren’t added until the '90s.
Similarly, in my jurisdiction (South Africa) the domestic violence law includes people who “share or recently shared the same residence”, alongside spouses, unmarried partners, the parents of a child, family members in general, and people who are dating or engaged. And to address a different point, there aren’t special criminal charges for domestic violence, just special police procedures and civil provisions for protective orders.