I don’t really consider it a “job”. I mean yes, it’s a lot of tasks and chores to take care of the kids and cook and clean and plan social events for the family. But it’s a different dynamic from having an actual “job” where there is the implied threat of losing your main source of income if you don’t do it well enough by someone else’s often arbitrary standards (assuming one’s partner isn’t a total a-hole).
I think in many cases that actually might be a much better family dynamic than both spouses working demanding jobs.
I know a number of people like that. I don’t think my cousin ever worked a real job in his life.
One of my friends who is now in her early 30s, I think all she does is vacation around the world with her rich boyfriend.
I have a cousin who is 50-ish and like your uncle; I met him only a couple times when we were kids, but in this case, I think he’s also mildly autistic.
Seasonally adjusted - reasonable, because no doubt many people run up debt 4Q, but adjusted for inflation? The increase tracking the late inflation makes me wonder.
Anyhow, increase in credit card debt in the past might just as well be attributed to salaries not keeping up with inflation. I don’t think many people can live for a couple of years on credit card debt only - their credit limits are not going to support it.
I don’t think my uncle is autistic. He’s more like Paul Rudd in Our Idiot Brother, if you’ve ever seen that movie. He’s actually smart and a very talented artist, but he just has zero drive or ambition or business sense. For awhile while I was growing up he ran a small business out of Grandma’s attic painting custom signs for local businesses out on Long Island. But he only sort of worked when he wanted to. He did work at a Lowes or some other big box hardware store for a bunch of years before he retired. But he never really went anywhere or did anything. Never got married. I think I remember him having a girlfriend at one point when I was very young.
I would say it’s sad except he seems content enough. He could do a lot more with his art, even if just as a side hustle or something. But he’s just one of these guys who doesn’t really want any sort of pressure or rejection or anything. So we tend to get tired of his “oh I might do-s” because at the end of the day he doesn’t do shit.
No, no need for that, I was just checking that I didn’t miss some obvious source where they were already compiled. Even though I’m retired I still go out to FRED a fair amount, so that’s my main source, but I’m always interested in new sources.