# Why BEheaded?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159>\
**Category:** Factual Questions\
**Created:** [June 19, 2004, 3:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159 "2004-06-19T03:50:18Z")\
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**Author:** ![pkbites](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pkbites/32/204_2.png) [@pkbites](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pkbites)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2004, 3:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159/1 "2004-06-19T03:50:18Z")

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If I give my friendship to someone, I’ve _ **be** friended_ them.  
If I give my love to someone, they are _ **be** loved_.  
If I take away someones lice, they are _ **de** loused_.

so why is it when ones head is chopped off, it’s called **be** headed?  
Compared to the other uses of the prefix, it sounds more like they were given head (no pun intended!:D)

Why isn’t the correct term _ **de** headed_?

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**Author:** ![friedo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/8edcca/32.png) [@friedo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/friedo)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2004, 4:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159/2 "2004-06-19T04:24:51Z")

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I’m still trying to figure out why you can’t be _capitated_, _combobulated_ or _fenestrated_.

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**Author:** ![j\_sum1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8baadc/32.png) [@j\_sum1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/j_sum1)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2004, 6:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159/3 "2004-06-19T06:47:26Z")

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If you are benighted, you are inconvenienced by night-fall.  
Maybe if you are beheaded, you are inconvenienced by head fall.

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**Author:** ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2004, 7:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159/4 "2004-06-19T07:06:27Z")

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From the [dictionary.com](http://dictionary.com) listing for “behead”:

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> Middle English biheden, from Old English behafdian: be-, away from; see be- + hafod, head; see head.

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**Author:** ![absoul](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/bc8723/32.png) [@absoul](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/absoul)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2004, 7:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159/5 "2004-06-19T07:49:03Z")

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beheaded

adj : having had the head cut off; “the beheaded prisoners”  
Describe?

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2004, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159/6 "2004-06-19T16:16:26Z")

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I’ve wondered about this denotation as well, but the connotation of **DE** headed seems somewhat clinical or surgical, sort of like deboning a fish.

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**Author:** ![Just\_Ed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e19b73/32.png) [@Just\_Ed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Just_Ed)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2004, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159/7 "2004-06-19T18:08:14Z")

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The operative usage of the prefix be- in this case relates to the _privation_ of the head. From the OED entry for _be-_:

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> Forming derivative verbs with privative meaning ‘off, away,’ as in _bedeal, benim, bereave_. A very common use of be- in OE. and ME., prob. originating in words like _be-shear_, ‘to cut all round,’ whence ‘to cut off or away’; but no longer in living use in forming new derivatives.

Words such as _befriend_ and _beloved_ are using the more common usage of the prefix, and are much more . . . er, _common_. 😉

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**Author:** ![moriah](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b2d939/32.png) [@moriah](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/moriah)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2004, 4:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-beheaded/251159/8 "2004-06-21T04:16:43Z")

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Beheaded = Beware: head begone; bereft of head; head befell in a bedpan!

Becalm.
