elfkin is right in that the schools have to share some of the blame.
When I was in school, we had regular weekly spelling tests.
You got a list of ten to fifteen words at the beginning of the week. You went over them and at the end of the week you took a quiz which was usually nothing more than the teacher reading aloud the word, using the word in a sentence and then repeating. As in: “conscience. The boy had a guilty conscience about pimp slapping his sister. conscience.” And we in the class dutifully spelled out the words and in the end, your answers were either right or wrong.
Did this method make the lot of us better spellers? Not very likely. But it did ingrain, on some subconscious level that Hey! Spelling counts and you need to try to get the word right.
This idea now seems hopelessly quaint.
Case in point.
As a teacher who worked summers scoring standardized tests featuring Brief and Extended Constructed Responses, kids today don’t even make the slightest attempt. Forget for the moment that large number of high school students -high school students, mind you- can’t demonstrate the proper spelling of basic words such as pencil and cousin (those are the two I always feature as examples) but I recall a writing prompt that directed students to respond to a brief biographical passage about Beethoven.
The other scorers and I lost track of how many creative spellings of ‘Beethoven’ that students used: “Baytoven, Beathooven, Betoven, Baytoeven, etc.” when getting the correct one would have involved nothing more than copying from one page to another.
Why couldn’t students be bothered with this? Because they have accepted and embraced the notion that getting the proper spelling for a word is irrelevant.
