I am near the end of my career, 5+ years to go. When I started out of university, I took a job with an international firm, that required 80-100 hours a week, especially in the first 4-5 years. The money wasn’t that great but it was at market, and I wasn’t in one of the top 5 metropolitan cities in the US. It was considered paying your dues, and the experience I received was top notch. After my promotion into management after 5 years, the hours reduced to about 50-60 per week, and my pay was commensurate with market for my position. I left the firm after about 9 years and took a corporate management position, with the hours still about 50-60 per week, while my base pay was commensurate with market, my bonuses began to become outsized, and based upon my individual and group performance. For the last 15 years, I have been in a C-suite position, and my hours are still in the 50+ range. I have very little stress in my job, and the majority of my time is spent on developing the strategic direction for our company and mentoring people on my teams to become better leaders. I work for a large privately held family owned company and my goal is to ensure that our shareholders continue to earn a better return by investing in all of us as employees than by selling the company and passively investing in the equity markets.
My family life is great. Am able to spend quality time with my kids and spouse. Also, am able to focus time on several charity boards that I serve on.
The investment early on I made in becoming good at what I do, has paid off for me and my life goals I set out. YMMV.