# Why do Men Like Women's Breasts?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754>\
**Category:** Factual Questions\
**Created:** [November 26, 2004, 3:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754 "2004-11-26T15:59:20Z")\
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**Author:** ![afton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@afton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/afton)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 3:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/1 "2004-11-26T15:59:20Z")

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Hi all,

I know this seems to be an age-old questions and has been discussed  
over and over again. I searched through google and some old archive  
of Straight Dope newsgroups but I still haven’t found the sure answer.

The question is:  
Why do men like women’s breasts?

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**Author:** ![Reeder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Reeder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reeder)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/2 "2004-11-26T16:24:52Z")

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What’s NOT to like about bresteses?

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**Author:** ![ultrafilter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/3d9bf3/32.png) [@ultrafilter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ultrafilter)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/3 "2004-11-26T17:19:48Z")

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We discussed this recently, and you can read about it [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=281864).

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**Author:** ![cmkeller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmkeller/32/118_2.png) [@cmkeller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmkeller)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/4 "2004-11-26T17:20:40Z")

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They’re soft to the touch, and they add to the overall esthetic curviness of the feminine figure.

As **Reeder** said, what’s not to like?

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**Author:** ![gotpasswords](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c57346/32.png) [@gotpasswords](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gotpasswords)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/5 "2004-11-26T17:20:55Z")

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Well, from just about Day One, it’s where the food comes from. What’s not to like about that?

“Liking” breasts seems to be an innate trait - critters like calves, kittens and puppies pop out of the womb, programmed to find a teat and start sucking.

Some male humans just take it a step or two farther.

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**Author:** ![ultrafilter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/3d9bf3/32.png) [@ultrafilter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ultrafilter)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/6 "2004-11-26T17:24:34Z")

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> [@gotpasswords](#):
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> “Liking” breasts seems to be an innate trait - critters like calves, kittens and puppies pop out of the womb, programmed to find a teat and start sucking.

You do realize that cows, cats and dogs don’t have breasts, right?

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**Author:** ![don\_t\_ask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@don\_t\_ask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/don_t_ask)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/7 "2004-11-26T17:29:59Z")

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i can’t speak for other men but I am yet to discover any part of women that I **don’t** like. You can slowly run your fingertips over any bit of them while you drift off into a reverie.

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**Author:** ![butler1850](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/779978/32.png) [@butler1850](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/butler1850)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/8 "2004-11-26T17:36:22Z")

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> [@ultrafilter](#):
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> You do realize that cows, cats and dogs don’t have breasts, right?

Perhaps not permanent breasts, but if you’ve ever seen a lactating cow/cat/dog, you can certainly see the resemblance… granted cats and dogs have something like 8 of them, and it looks a bit freaky, but the concept remains.

I also submit my support for the standard answer, “What’s not to like???” 😃😃😃

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**Author:** ![BrotherCadfael](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@BrotherCadfael](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrotherCadfael)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/9 "2004-11-26T17:36:25Z")

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My theory is that men like to have sex because it gives you a pretty good chance of seeing a woman naked…

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**Author:** ![ouryL](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ouryl/32/6067_2.png) [@ouryL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ouryL)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/10 "2004-11-26T17:47:56Z")

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> [@afton](#):
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> Hi all,
> 
> I know this seems to be an age-old questions and has been discussed  
> over and over again. I searched through google and some old archive  
> of Straight Dope newsgroups but I still haven’t found the sure answer.
> 
> The question is:  
> Why do men like women’s breasts?

🆒 Mother fixation. :rolleyes: Breasts is associated with nourishment and confort.  
:dubious: More dubious is a male’s desire to return to the womb.

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**Author:** ![Spectre\_of\_Pithecanthropus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spectre_of_pithecanthropus/32/12343_2.png) [@Spectre\_of\_Pithecanthropus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spectre_of_Pithecanthropus)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/11 "2004-11-26T17:58:22Z")

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Mother fixation? Food? Hogwash.

I think those of us who are attracted to women like breasts because they are a prominent part of the package of femininity. They’re part of what makes women women. At least for most straight men I think it’s so; I don’t know about lesbians.

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**Author:** ![Zahava424](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/76d3ee/32.png) [@Zahava424](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zahava424)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/12 "2004-11-26T17:59:03Z")

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What’s TO like? They’re just bumpy lumps of vein-filled fat.

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**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 6:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/13 "2004-11-26T18:30:41Z")

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> [@Zahava424](#):
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> What’s TO like? They’re just bumpy lumps of vein-filled fat.

Been awhile has it? 😃

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**Author:** ![danceswithcats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9e8a1a/32.png) [@danceswithcats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/danceswithcats)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 6:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/14 "2004-11-26T18:43:23Z")

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> [@don't ask](#):
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> i can’t speak for other men but I am yet to discover any part of women that I **don’t** like. You can slowly run your fingertips over any bit of them while you drift off into a reverie.

I’m with you, brother. Anything else better, Og kept for hisself. 😉

When you’re done the fingertip trip, take the same journey with your tongue.

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**Author:** ![emekthian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ecae2f/32.png) [@emekthian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/emekthian)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 6:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/15 "2004-11-26T18:45:45Z")

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I don’t.

There’s nothing wrong with breasts, they’re just not particularly sexually attractive.

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**Author:** ![chinbender](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c77e96/32.png) [@chinbender](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chinbender)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/16 "2004-11-26T18:47:43Z")

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Certainly evolution may have given us the idea that nice/big breasts lead to healthier children. I first saw this idea in _A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man_…

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> One is this hypothesis: that every physical quality admired by men in women is in direct connexion with the manifold functions of women for the propagation of the species…you admired the great flanks of Venus because you felt that she would bear you burly offspring and admired her great breasts because you felt that she would give good milk to her children and yours.

[Chapter 5 in its entirety, search for “great breasts”](http://www.online-literature.com/james_joyce/portrait_artist_young_man/5/)

Stephen and Lynch do not particularly enjoy this hypothesis, and Stephen presents his own ideas about innate aesthetic appreciation, using St Thomas Moore as a source. Hilarity ensues.

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**Author:** ![chinbender](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c77e96/32.png) [@chinbender](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chinbender)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 6:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/17 "2004-11-26T18:49:35Z")

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and of course they’re really cool.

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**Author:** ![RickJay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bb73d2/32.png) [@RickJay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RickJay)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/18 "2004-11-26T18:53:31Z")

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huh huh huh

boobies  
Huh? What?

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**Author:** ![shijinn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cc9497/32.png) [@shijinn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shijinn)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/19 "2004-11-26T18:53:39Z")

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\<cheery patient voice\>  
🙂 supply and demand. a man do not have a woman’s breast or the opening between a woman’s legs. 🙂  
\</cpv\>

\<insert general disclaimer here for using a huge big general totally wrong paintbrush\>

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**Author:** ![Tranquilis](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tranquilis/32/3639_2.png) [@Tranquilis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tranquilis)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2004, 7:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-men-like-womens-breasts/276754/20 "2004-11-26T19:28:14Z")

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> [@Zahava424](#):
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> What’s TO like? They’re just bumpy lumps of vein-filled fat.

They’re also filled with sensitive nerve endings that when stimulated properly produce an interesting and gratifying reaction in their owner. And that’s _greatly_ interesting to the person doing the stimulation…  
More seriously, though: Breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic that 1) tells men that they’re looking at a woman, and 2) indicates that a woman is close to or at sexual maturity. In other words, they’re a sign that says "Potential Sexual Partner,’ and _that_ message is _always_ attractive.

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