# Why do they call them blow jobs when it is really sucking

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**Category:** Factual Questions\
**Created:** [August 24, 2003, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407 "2003-08-24T23:29:30Z")\
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**Author:** ![Texas\_Hooligan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/838e76/32.png) [@Texas\_Hooligan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Texas_Hooligan)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2003, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/1 "2003-08-24T23:29:30Z")

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A mixed group of friends were vacationing in New Orleans, having a few drinks, when a curious question arose. If a person is sucking, why do they call it a “blow job”?

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**Author:** ![kanicbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f8ce5/32.png) [@kanicbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kanicbird)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 12:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/2 "2003-08-25T00:18:39Z")

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The end product - blow your load

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**Author:** ![Agback](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/977dab/32.png) [@Agback](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Agback)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 12:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/3 "2003-08-25T00:53:18Z")

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G’day

One person is sucking, the other is blowing. And act of fellatio in which the recipient of the favour does not blow his wad into somebody’s mouth is not a a blow job, merely a head job.

Regards,  
Agback

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**Author:** ![commasense](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/commasense/32/3017_2.png) [@commasense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/commasense)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 1:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/4 "2003-08-25T01:05:34Z")

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Or could it possibly because of the way it looks…

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**Author:** ![wolf\_meister](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolf_meister/32/15202_2.png) [@wolf\_meister](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolf_meister)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/5 "2003-08-25T02:53:02Z")

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I’d agree with **commasense**  
It reminds me of a cartoon I saw in Playboy many years ago.  
A kid at the beach is looking over a sand dune and saying “Hey Mom, when you are finished inflating Uncle Phil, could you inflate my raft?”

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**Author:** ![samclem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a9a28c/32.png) [@samclem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/samclem)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 3:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/6 "2003-08-25T03:06:08Z")

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I thought we did this one before. At [http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=154887&highlight=blow](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=154887&highlight=blow)

Part of my reply in that thread showed that the verb “blow” was used in the 18th century to mean “to smoke tobacco.” Although you were sucking on a pipe, you were “blowing tobacco.” The verb was still in use in the 20th century to mean “to smoke maijuana.” I think this is as good an answer as any. But no one truly knows.

Blow job is a US term-- first cite in print(so far) was 1942.

Referring to fallatio as “to blow someone” is cited from 1930.

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**Author:** ![Balthisar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/balthisar/32/2825_2.png) [@Balthisar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Balthisar)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/7 "2003-08-25T13:28:53Z")

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(if it’s only sucking and nothing else, then someone’s doing something not 100% right).

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**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/8 "2003-08-25T13:43:01Z")

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**samclem** - I like your speculation. Furthermore, the smoking/blowing connection exists also in at least the Czech Republic and Slovakia, where the slang word for giving a blow job is “smoking.”

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**Author:** ![BwanaBob](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bwanabob/32/2985_2.png) [@BwanaBob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BwanaBob)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/9 "2003-08-25T14:23:30Z")

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According to a former colleague (who is of Chinese extraction). the  
Mandarin idiomatic expression for blowjob translates to something  
like “blow the trumpet”

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**Author:** ![Sad\_Waters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/898d66/32.png) [@Sad\_Waters](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sad_Waters)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 4:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/10 "2003-08-25T16:04:24Z")

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I prefer the term “Lick my Love Pump”

[http://www.spinalpap.com/images/general/media/mgm/mgm\_007.jpg](http://www.spinalpap.com/images/general/media/mgm/mgm_007.jpg)

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**Author:** ![Sad\_Waters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/898d66/32.png) [@Sad\_Waters](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sad_Waters)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/11 "2003-08-25T16:10:21Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Sad Waters \*  
> I prefer the term “Lick my Love Pump”

[http://www.spinalpap.com/images/general/media/mgm/mgm\_007.jpg](http://www.spinalpap.com/images/general/media/mgm/mgm_007.jpg)

What is the deal with the no edits? mmmph!!

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**Author:** ![postcards](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8e8cbc/32.png) [@postcards](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/postcards)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 6:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/12 "2003-08-25T18:00:53Z")

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The Playboy cartoon I remember is a bellhop walking a couple down a hallway. The door they’re passing has rays of sound lines coming from it, and the caption, “Suck, Mary Beth, suck! Blow is just a figure of speech!”

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**Author:** ![teemingONE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b4bc9f/32.png) [@teemingONE](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/teemingONE)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 6:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/13 "2003-08-25T18:58:03Z")

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I don’t know how much this has to do with it but didn’t an Egyptian god have to blow the breath of life back into someone and thats where she blew from?

I think **samclem** ’s answer is as right as its gonna get though.

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**Author:** ![Insecta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/3da27b/32.png) [@Insecta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Insecta)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 7:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/14 "2003-08-25T19:06:42Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by pulykamell \*  
> \*\ ***samclem** - I like your speculation. Furthermore, the smoking/blowing connection exists also in at least the Czech Republic and Slovakia, where the slang word for giving a blow job is “smoking.” \*\*

Last I heard, the expression “smoking pole” was also in circulation amongst English speakers.

And to quote Dr. Who… “What can suck, can blow.” (or something to that effect).

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**Author:** ![Rashak\_Mani](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ea666f/32.png) [@Rashak\_Mani](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rashak_Mani)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2003, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/15 "2003-08-25T20:12:10Z")

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So if you dont come its not a blow job !

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**Author:** ![Balthisar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/balthisar/32/2825_2.png) [@Balthisar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Balthisar)\
**Post date:** [August 26, 2003, 10:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-do-they-call-them-blow-jobs-when-it-is-really-sucking/197407/16 "2003-08-26T10:16:32Z")

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I know that in Spanish you’d be talking about a “mamada,” from “mamar” meaning to suckle (you know, “mama”) or suck.
