I’ve rebuilt a couple of engines, including one on 1 1948 Super A International Harvester tractor that had been run continuously up until the rebuild in 1998 or so. In this context Roland’s Toyota is still a youngster.
Changing your oil is cheap insurance, for a very expensive piece of equiptment. Your failure to do so at reasonable interviews is akin to making a bad bet.
What you have going on is probably several different effects.
First, and most importantly, you stopped changing your oil after the car had been very well broken in. Most of your engine parts had worn against each other and what filings etc. that would generally end up in the oil have long since been taken out of the engine, so your oil tends to stay more clear and free of debris than a knew engine would.
Secondly, your oil filter is surely doing nothing by now. The filter has been clogged completely and pressure has punched one or more holes in it so that your oil is completely unfiltered.
Third, is the gunk factor. All of the inoperative surfaces of your engine are surely coated in a thick coat of burned oil grime, the consistency of tar. When your car sits, debris naturally precipitates out and gets stuck in this grime and builds up. This is giving you some filter action, catching debris.
Fourth, I doubt you are and have always religiously added a quart every 1,500 miles. More likely the engine had gone very low on oil from time to time. What remains thickens into this gump until you add more oil.
Fifth, adding more oil isn’t as good as a change, but it is giving you a beneficial effect.
Sixth, you are lucky.
Seventh, you have surely significantly lowered the useful life, and power of your engine.
What is going to happen is that you are going to have a catastrophic failure at some point, likely in the near future. The gunk is going to clog the intake to your oil pump reducing or eliminating lubricant circulation and your engine is going to seize up. Alternately, some of the debris may break loose, get into a place it’s not supposed to be and kill your engine.
When I rebuilt the tractor, I had about two inches of gunk inside the block, and I changed the oil every season. You may have more.
I too, have to admit that I find your abusive of such a fine and reliable engine to be personally offensive. That’s my problem.
I honestly don’t know what advice to give you though. Your catastrophic failure is probably so imminent that the machine can’t be saved. In fact, if you do attempt to alter things at this point there is a significant chance you will precipitate the failure.
If it were my car, what I would do is empty the oil and replace the filter and fill your oil level up with kerosene when the engine was cold. I would run the car for five minutes or so, and then drain the kerosene and examine it for filings and what have you (it will probably close to tar consistency.) I would repeat this process several times (changing the filter each time and waiting till the car was cold) until either the kerosene came out more or less like I put it in, or your car started leaking kerosene from it’s various seals.
I would change out any leaky seals or gaskets and then run oil and a clean filter in it and change it religiously every 3,000 miles. I probably wouldn’t bother with this if significant amounts of metal showed up in the first kerosene change or I heard significant tapping from the valves.
I would also be checking my coolant for oil and my oil for coolant. Now that I think about it, it is probably likely that you have a blown head gasket.