To elaborate further - the fact that gas molecules can “communicate” with each other in this way is why physicists often ignore what is happening on the level of the individual molecules, and simply refer to what is happening to the entire volume of gas.
When physicists say “a rocket produces thrust by accelerating gas out the nozzle”, they simply mean that the geometry of the rocket is designed to extract energy from gas molecules that are moving in the forward direction, leaving the gas molecules with an average velocity that is biased in the backward direction, and leaving momentum conserved.
However, again, because the gas molecules are colliding and changing directions billions of times every billionth of a second, the rocket ends up extracting some energy from every gas molecule, since every gas molecule will spend some fraction of it’s time randomly bounced in the forward direction, regardless of where it is in the combustion chamber, and what the average motion of the surrounding molecules is.
When you consider all these effects together, you find that the thrust produced by the rocket is equal to the product of the velocity of the exhaust gas, and the mass of the exhaust gas. That is the total mass of all the exhaust gas, without regard to which averaged direction the gas was originally moving inside the combustion chamber (again, because in reality, all the molecules are moving in random directions anyway, with just a slight bias towards whatever the macroscopic flow direction is).
Now, the math for that statement I cannot explain in layman’s terms. You will just have to take my word for it. But I hope you understand, in terms of molecular motion, what I am saying. A rocket/jet engine/etc. does not get thrust from the initial expansion wave moving in the forward direction hitting the wall and bouncing off. It gets thrust by extracting the forward motion from the totally random motion of the molecules.
Note that these effects only occur in a gas which is sufficiently dense, meaning there are enough molecules that collisions occur sufficiently frequently. A rocket driven by a very expanded (not dense) gas at very high temperature would begin to approach the behavior you are imagining - many of the molecules would free stream straight out the nozzle without colliding and transferring energy at all. But rockets/jet engines/etc. are designed so that the propellant is dense enough for there to be enough molecular collisions for it to extract energy from all the propellant molecules, and this free streaming effect occurs only at the very outside edge of the gas, and is so small as to be negligible.