# Why don't you idiots calm down?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [April 27, 2004, 2:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208 "2004-04-27T02:38:24Z")\
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**Author:** ![calm\_kiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9fc348/32.png) [@calm\_kiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/calm_kiwi)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/141 "2004-04-28T14:17:51Z")

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> [@vanilla](#):
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> people seem to forget and want to forget that, although God is a God of love, He is also a God of Judgment.  
> Sin must be judged, sorry, no getting around that.
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> You want I should not warn people?  
> Great, then when they decide wrong and end up in Hell, I will think, Why didn’t I tell them?  
> Nope.

Yet when you are just dead and can’t tell us anything do you want us to remember you as judgemental?

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**Author:** ![badbadrubberpiggy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/57b2e6/32.png) [@badbadrubberpiggy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/badbadrubberpiggy)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/142 "2004-04-28T14:19:00Z")

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> [@vanilla](#):
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> people seem to forget and want to forget that, although God is a God of love, He is also a God of Judgment.  
> Sin must be judged, sorry, no getting around that.
> 
> You want I should not warn people?  
> Great, then when they decide wrong and end up in Hell, I will think, Why didn’t I tell them?  
> Nope.

yes, tell us whatever you want, but remember that if somebody doesn’t beleive in your god, then what they are choosing is not wrong. If there is a god, I do not beleive he would send somebody like you, someone so judgemental, someone who sounds so self-involved.

Based on your posts in this thread, I do not beleive that you care wether or not any of us go to hell, only yourself. You seem to only the credit for being the one to tell us what is right and wrong.

If there is a god, they and only they can tell me what is right and wrong. You are not that deity. You are a person and as a person, you have no more authority than I do to decide what is morally right and wrong.

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**Author:** ![badbadrubberpiggy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/57b2e6/32.png) [@badbadrubberpiggy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/badbadrubberpiggy)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/143 "2004-04-28T14:23:17Z")

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[QUOTE=Aries28]  
Can I please implore people who don’t believe to not think all Christians are like this? I understand being frustrated. I understand wanting to lash back out at people but when you insult the beliefs of those of us who are sincere, those of us who are trying to live the Golden Rule, those of us who don’t treat our religion and faith as a way to elevate ourselves to some higher plane and look down on everyone else it is just as hateful and harmful.  
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As I said to **Vanilla** , it is people like her that make people turn away from the church, and to look down on religion in general. It is people like you who cause people who had no faith to join a church, or even just be a nicer person.

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**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/144 "2004-04-28T14:25:08Z")

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> [@vanilla](#):
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> Kalhoun,
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> thanks for proving my point… 🆒

What are you talking about? If everything is forgiven, nothing is wrong. Nothing is bad. There is no judgement. Maybe it’s OK for YOU to do things that you consider wrong (even MURDER), but the rest of us operate with our own conscience, which doesn’t let us off the hook for hideous infractions.

I, like others, am seriously questioning your mental faculties right now.

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**Author:** ![jlzania](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/67e7ee/32.png) [@jlzania](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jlzania)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/145 "2004-04-28T14:25:11Z")

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And it is for God to judge **vanilla** , not you.  
You seem to be forgetting that you are a weak imperfect sinner.  
I’ve never had an abortion.  
Does that give me the right to look down on you and condemn you?  
I’ve been married to the same man for over 20 years now.  
You are not married at this timeand yet you have a child.  
Does that make me better than you?  
You seem to be forgetting the following and that can be dangerous for any Christian:

> [@](#):
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> "Judge not, that you be not judged.  
> For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get.  
> Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?  
> Or how can you say to your brother, `Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye?  
> You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.

And as important:

> [@](#):
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> Not every one who says to me, `Lord, Lord,' shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, `Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’  
> And then will I declare to them, `I never knew you; depart from me, you evildoers.

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**Author:** ![gobear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8dc957/32.png) [@gobear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gobear)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/146 "2004-04-28T14:25:56Z")

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> [@vanilla](#):
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> people seem to forget and want to forget that, although God is a God of love, He is also a God of Judgment.  
> Sin must be judged, sorry, no getting around that.
> 
> You want I should not warn people?  
> Great, then when they decide wrong and end up in Hell, I will think, Why didn’t I tell them?  
> Nope.

\*\*Vanilla[/b, your fundie porn daydreams that “yeah, someday Jesus will come back and THEN they’ll be sorry” are really unconvincing to anyone with two neurons to rub together. Every other religion has the same eschatological fantasies of judgment when the sinners will be punuahed and the righteous exalted–I don’t believe the Muslims either when they talk about the Day of Judgement, and their book is newer than yours.

What’s sad is that this new crowd has so thoroughly brainwashed you, just like when you were soooo convinced that the Mormons were following the True Path.

What I find so baffling about fundies like you is your solid confidence that you, and only you, have the inside skinny on the true interpretation of the Bible, yet you ignore virtually everything Jesus ever said or did, instead you slavishly follow weird, cultish beliefs derived from 19th-century British wackos that have no Biblical justification.

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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/147 "2004-04-28T14:30:51Z")

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Maybe I missed something, but a link to Cybill Shepherd’s actual remarks at the pro-abortion rights rally would be nice, so we could decide if she actually was calling opponents “idiots” (as **vanilla** has been doing, with apparently no sense of irony).

Would **vanilla** include [Randall Terry](http://releases.usnewswire.com/GetRelease.asp?id=172-04152004) as an “idiot who needs to calm down”?

“The March for Women’s Lives is a ‘Death March,’” said Operation Rescue Founder, Randall Terry, “and we will be there to confront them with the truth.”…

To the entertainment ‘celebrities’ who have voiced support for this Death March, Operation Witness says:

“You support the brutal murder of innocent children and exploitation of women.”

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/148 "2004-04-28T14:35:25Z")

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I’m still waiting for an answer to my question about why Christians have cornered the market on morals.

Add to this another question – where in the Bible does it say that abortion is a sin?

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**Author:** ![calm\_kiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9fc348/32.png) [@calm\_kiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/calm_kiwi)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/149 "2004-04-28T14:36:25Z")

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> [@tamaraqueenofgoths](#):
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> As I said to **Vanilla** , it is people like her that make people turn away from the church, and to look down on religion in general. It is people like you who cause people who had no faith to join a church, or even just be a nicer person.

You say this like turning away from the church is a bad thing? Since JC died more have died "unsaved; then “saved”. If he is that fussy I don’t want a bar of him.

Of course I’m just teasing. I’m all athiest so I’m sure he isn’t about to “save” me.

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**Author:** ![yojimbo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yojimbo/32/232_2.png) [@yojimbo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yojimbo)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/150 "2004-04-28T14:38:22Z")

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> [@gobear](#):
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> What’s sad is that this new crowd has so thoroughly brainwashed you, just like when you were soooo convinced that the Mormons were following the True Path.

Hey I can remember when she was really convinced that David _I’m fucking mad I am_ Icke had serious points to make about 9/11

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**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/151 "2004-04-28T14:38:44Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> I’m still waiting for an answer to my question about why Christians have cornered the market on morals.
> 
> Add to this another question – where in the Bible does it say that abortion is a sin?

And better yet, why is it OK for Vanilla, but not for everyone else? After all, we only need to say “Oops! Sorry!” and everything’s Jake. Just like she did.

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**Author:** ![calm\_kiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9fc348/32.png) [@calm\_kiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/calm_kiwi)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/152 "2004-04-28T14:44:12Z")

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> [@Kalhoun](#):
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> And better yet, why is it OK for Vanilla, but not for everyone else? After all, we only need to say “Oops! Sorry!” and everything’s Jake. Just like she did.

Does Rue know you say things are jake in such serious places?

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**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/153 "2004-04-28T14:50:54Z")

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> [@calm kiwi](#):
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> Does Rue know you say things are jake in such serious places?

Does Rue have a “ruel” on inserting lighthearted words in such serious places? 🙂 Anyhow, how serious can it be if it’s so easily forgiven?

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**Author:** ![badbadrubberpiggy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/57b2e6/32.png) [@badbadrubberpiggy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/badbadrubberpiggy)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/154 "2004-04-28T14:52:56Z")

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> [@calm kiwi](#):
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> You say this like turning away from the church is a bad thing? Since JC died more have died "unsaved; then “saved”. If he is that fussy I don’t want a bar of him.
> 
> Of course I’m just teasing. I’m all athiest so I’m sure he isn’t about to “save” me.

hehe…I’m actually agnostic, so I’m a member of no church. Just making a point to **Vanilla** about her poor tactics at trying to “save” people. A point that I’m sure you got, but she did not 🙂

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**Author:** ![calm\_kiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9fc348/32.png) [@calm\_kiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/calm_kiwi)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/155 "2004-04-28T14:53:01Z")

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> [@Kalhoun](#):
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> Does Rue have a “ruel” on inserting lighthearted words in such serious places? 🙂 Anyhow, how serious can it be if it’s so easily forgiven?

I’m sure he would be proud.

And I’m going to heaven just for that 😃

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**Author:** ![calm\_kiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9fc348/32.png) [@calm\_kiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/calm_kiwi)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/156 "2004-04-28T14:55:13Z")

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> [@tamaraqueenofgoths](#):
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> hehe…I’m actually agnostic, so I’m a member of no church. Just making a point to **Vanilla** about her poor tactics at trying to “save” people. A point that I’m sure you got, but she did not 🙂

God save me from those who want to save me 😉

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**Author:** ![Inoshiro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a9adbd/32.png) [@Inoshiro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inoshiro)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/157 "2004-04-28T15:02:00Z")

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Sometimes I wish the Bible really were true. Well at least the part about the rapture taking people like **vanilla** away and leaving all of us godless types behind. In my part of the country the traffic would get a lot better too. Housing prices would fall though, slackening demand don’t ya know.

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**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/158 "2004-04-28T15:02:45Z")

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Back to our regularly scheduled rant:

Vanilla, you still haven’t explained how abortion is a bad thing, yet it is a pardonable offense. Is it wrong or isn’t it? If it’s wrong, how are you going to get on the “up” esacalator, so to speak?

And, by the way…the “Junior Mod for God” thing is obnoxious. If he’s around, I’m sure he can do his own chastising without help from a big sinner like you.

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**Author:** ![Eve](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Eve](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eve)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 3:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/159 "2004-04-28T15:13:18Z")

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> [@Kalhoun](#):
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> Back to our regularly scheduled rant:
> 
> Vanilla, you still haven’t explained how abortion is a bad thing, yet it is a pardonable offense. . .

She also hasn’t explained her sudden change of heart, or mind, or whatever. I always thought she was one of the more reasonable, open-minded religious people on the Board; all of a sudden she’s The Church Lady. Has she been lying to us for the past couple of years, humoring us; yanking our chains?

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 3:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-dont-you-idiots-calm-down/242208/160 "2004-04-28T15:19:32Z")

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> [@Eve](#):
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> She also hasn’t explained her sudden change of heart, or mind, or whatever.

Or loss thereof. Many of us are slamming her, but deep down I’m worried. People usually don’t do turnabouts like that unless there is a very real problem.

**Vanilla** , if you need to talk, you know we’re all here for you.

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