# Why is "happy" the only emotion that can be "un"?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [September 7, 2018, 1:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943 "2018-09-07T13:59:12Z")\
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**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 1:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/1 "2018-09-07T13:59:12Z")

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There is no such thing as being “unsad” or “unangry.” So how come “unhappy” is a word?

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**Author:** ![am77494](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/d2c977/32.png) [@am77494](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/am77494)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/2 "2018-09-07T14:16:42Z")

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What about Unexcited or unfazed ?

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**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/3 "2018-09-07T14:22:38Z")

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… unafraid, unashamed…

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**Author:** ![Mijin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mijin/32/9369_2.png) [@Mijin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mijin)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/4 "2018-09-07T14:25:08Z")

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Well this is uncomfortable…

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**Author:** ![Lucas\_Jackson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lucas_jackson/32/303_2.png) [@Lucas\_Jackson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucas_Jackson)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/5 "2018-09-07T14:25:24Z")

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Uncaring, unfeeling.

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**Author:** ![Gedd](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gedd/32/4938_2.png) [@Gedd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gedd)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 2:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/6 "2018-09-07T14:47:57Z")

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They may have been unprepared

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**Author:** ![Colophon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f05b48/32.png) [@Colophon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colophon)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 2:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/7 "2018-09-07T14:49:26Z")

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On the other hand, have you ever heard of anybody being derwhelmed?

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**Author:** ![Exapno\_Mapcase](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/exapno_mapcase/32/1051_2.png) [@Exapno\_Mapcase](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Exapno_Mapcase)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 2:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/8 "2018-09-07T14:59:08Z")

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From [etymonline.com](http://etymonline.com)

> [@](#):
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> happy (adj.)
> 
> late 14c., “lucky, favored by fortune, being in advantageous circumstances, prosperous;” of events, “turning out well,” from hap (n.) “chance, fortune” + -y (2). … From Greek to Irish, a great majority of the European words for “happy” at first meant “lucky.” An exception is Welsh, where the word used first meant “wise.”
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> unhappy (adj.)
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> c. 1300, “causing misfortune or trouble (to oneself or others),” from un- (1) “not” + happy. Meaning “ **unfortunate** , **unlucky** ” is recorded from late 14c.; sense of “miserable, wretched” is recorded from late 14c. (originally via misfortune or mishap).

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**Author:** ![Ashtura](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ashtura/32/2963_2.png) [@Ashtura](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ashtura)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 2:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/9 "2018-09-07T14:59:14Z")

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How come you never hear about gruntled employees? Only the disgruntled ones?

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**Author:** ![DavidwithanR](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3bc359/32.png) [@DavidwithanR](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DavidwithanR)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/10 "2018-09-07T15:01:29Z")

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I think the concept of polar opposites might be what you’re thinking of. We can (if we want to be a bit silly about it) give a happiness rating from minus 100 up to plus 100. But I don’t automatically think of anger as even having a polar opposite. (Does it have one after all, and I’m just missing it?) Anyway, I can only rate anger from zero to plus 100 - the negative values don’t make sense to me.

Now… ARE there really polar opposite emotions that we name “happy” and “unhappy”? Or is that just a convenient way of talking, but with no factual basis in the study of emotion? I don’t know.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/11 "2018-09-07T15:03:12Z")

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> [@](#):
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> The question is under what conditions does negation allow such contrary  
> readings? The facts are complicated, but part of the answer seems to be that they  
> occur with evaluatively positive (e-positive) predicates the denial of which may  
> indirectly express an evaluatively negative (e-negative) judgement. Thus, for  
> example, we find contrary readings available with (weakly) e-positive predicates, as  
> in (8), but not with e-negative or strongly e-positive predicates, as in (9).
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> (8) a. He’s not nice. (= ‘he’s mean’)  
> b. She’s not happy. (= ‘she’s sad’)
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> (9) a. He’s not mean. (≠ ‘he’s nice’)  
> b. She’s not sad. (≠ ‘she’s happy’)  
> c. She’s not ecstatic. (≠ ‘she’s miserable’)
> 
> Similarly, with affixal negation, the English _un-_ prefix in (10) yields contrary  
> meanings in combination with e-positive roots, but tends not to combine at all with  
> the contrary e-negative roots (Zimmer 1964).
> 
> (10) happy unhappy sad \*unsad  
> kind unkind cruel \*uncruel  
> wise unwise foolish \*unfoolish
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> A form like _unhappy_ provides an oblique way of delivering the loaded content of  
> sad; but _unsad_ can serve no similar purpose, as one is normally happy to express the content of _happy_.
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> The pragmatics of contrary negation is clearest perhaps in the phenomenon of  
> neg(ative)-raising, as in (11), where a matrix negation is interpreted as applying to an embedded constituent.
> 
> (11) a. I don’t think you should do that. (= ‘I think you should not …’)  
> b. I don’t suppose you’d like to dance. (= ‘I suppose you wouldn’t…’)

[https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/590a/c3fc3befa20d527a60e5be1c40243bf0f576.pdf](https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/590a/c3fc3befa20d527a60e5be1c40243bf0f576.pdf)

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/12 "2018-09-07T15:04:35Z")

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> [@Annie-Xmas](#):
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> There is no such thing as being “unsad” or “unangry.” So how come “unhappy” is a word?

I hope my answer doesn’t leave you unsatisfied.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/13 "2018-09-07T15:16:27Z")

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There’s the dead and the undead.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/14 "2018-09-07T15:17:11Z")

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There’s the enthusiastic and the unenthusiastic.

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/15 "2018-09-07T15:27:13Z")

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I, for one, am unabashed.

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/16 "2018-09-07T15:42:23Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> I, for one, am unabashed.

I’m undeserving

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**Author:** ![Enola\_Gay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/3ab097/32.png) [@Enola\_Gay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Enola_Gay)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/17 "2018-09-07T15:43:19Z")

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I’m combobulated

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/18 "2018-09-07T15:50:25Z")

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> [@Enola\_Gay](#):
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> I’m combobulated

But are you _hinged?_

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/19 "2018-09-07T15:55:47Z")

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Is this an unserious question?

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**Post date:** [September 7, 2018, 3:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-happy-the-only-emotion-that-can-be-un/820943/20 "2018-09-07T15:58:45Z")

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I’m unsure.

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