But, like I say, we do a similar thing with deliberate death: Self-sacrifice, martyrdom, “giving your life”.
If I go into a nuclear power plant to shut it down, knowing I will receive a fatal dose of radiation in the process, no-one would call that “suicide”. Because saving lives is considered a legit reason to kill yourself.
One thing I forgot to say regarding culture is also the extent to which this is specific to American culture.
In US culture prison is still largely considered to be about punishment. The bad guys need to have bad experiences, and maybe that will make them feel sorry or change their ways.
It feels wrong to punish someone for a mental issue they may not be responsible for, so to many Americans they like to put evil in a special “free will” bracket, separate from the brain, and therefore there’s no issue with punishing evil.
Other countries might consider prison as just serving the other three purposes: reforming (which may involve treating the prisoner well), deterrence and keeping the public safe.
In such countries they are often more willing to consider crimes like murder as being the result of mental illness, even if that illness is not something we have the neuro smarts right now to actually pinpoint.
It’s only in the last 5 years (???) that countries like Singapore and India have decriminalized attempted suicide. The USA did so much earlier. A significant part of the argument was the observation that decriminalization did not increase the rate of attempted suicide.
That same argument applies to murder, but in the USA, most people are convinced that the criminalization of murder decreases the number of murders that would be committed.
The difference in the treatment of suicide and murder is not simply a cultural norm about what constitutes a mental illness. It is mostly a cultural norm about what constitutes sin and crime.
But if a person is incapable of feeling empathy for others, isn’t it fair to say something is wrong with them? If their brain was wired to feel empathy, it would actually make the act of murder worse morally IMO. I think psychopathy in a sense is sort of an “excuse”. Not that those people shouldn’t be locked up, but it’s hard to deny that if they weren’t psychopaths they probably would make better choices.