# Why is retentive rather than expulsive the popular "anal" personality?

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**Created:** [August 24, 2005, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-retentive-rather-than-expulsive-the-popular-anal-personality/318475 "2005-08-24T19:39:37Z")\
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**Author:** ![Corporate\_Hippie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/65b543/32.png) [@Corporate\_Hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Corporate_Hippie)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2005, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-retentive-rather-than-expulsive-the-popular-anal-personality/318475/1 "2005-08-24T19:39:37Z")

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I wonder why Freud’s “anal-retentive” came into mainstream use to describe an uptight, “neat-freak” personality rather than “anal-expulsive” to describe a sloppy, unorganized personality (Felix Ungar vs. Oscar Madison).

Perhaps there was a greater demand for a derogatory word for describing an uptight person than a sloppy person. Maybe “anal-expulsive” conjured images of the wrong kind of sloppiness.

It seems too late to try and bring “anal-expulsive” into vogue since “anal-retentive” has been shortened to just “anal” which is far too ambiguous if both terms are in circulation.

It’s too bad, it seems like calling someone “anal-expulsive” would be a formidable insult, at least in grade school.

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**Author:** ![Sal\_Ammoniac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8dc957/32.png) [@Sal\_Ammoniac](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sal_Ammoniac)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2005, 7:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-retentive-rather-than-expulsive-the-popular-anal-personality/318475/2 "2005-08-24T19:47:56Z")

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I’ve wondered about this myself. And I wonder even more about people who go around saying, “I’m so anal.”

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2005, 7:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-retentive-rather-than-expulsive-the-popular-anal-personality/318475/3 "2005-08-24T19:50:42Z")

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Perhaps because “anal” conjures up the image of someone with a stick up their ass?

Or because “anal expulsive” creates a really disgusting image?

I dunno, those are my guesses.

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**Author:** ![samclem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a9a28c/32.png) [@samclem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/samclem)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2005, 1:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-retentive-rather-than-expulsive-the-popular-anal-personality/318475/4 "2005-08-25T01:08:54Z")

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> [@Corporate Hippie](#):
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> I wonder why Freud’s “anal-retentive” came into mainstream use to describe an uptight, “neat-freak” personality rather than “anal-expulsive” to describe a sloppy, unorganized personality (Felix Ungar vs. Oscar Madison).
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> l.

since Freud never used the term, let’s find out where and when it appears.

[The Mavens’ Word of The Day](http://www.randomhouse.com/wotd/index.pperl?date=19970718) says it first appears in the 1950’s. That’s a good place to start searching.

I think the answer is actually on that website. I didn’t check, as my daughter is telling me it’s her turn on the computer. Chat, you know.

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**Author:** ![beergeek279](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ea924/32.png) [@beergeek279](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/beergeek279)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2005, 5:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-retentive-rather-than-expulsive-the-popular-anal-personality/318475/5 "2005-08-25T05:48:57Z")

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Well, I’d think it would be because a neat freak would absolutely insist on a pristine and quiet/private place to drop the Browns off at the pool, and they’d hold it in until this perfect place would be found, need to crap or no need to crap.

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**Author:** ![xbuckeye](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/9e8a1a/32.png) [@xbuckeye](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xbuckeye)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2005, 1:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-retentive-rather-than-expulsive-the-popular-anal-personality/318475/6 "2005-08-25T13:48:01Z")

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Or maybe because Phil Hartman never had an SNL character named the Anal-Expulsive Chef.  
[Link Enclosed](http://www.goodeatsfanpage.com/Humor/SNL/Anal.htm)

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**Author:** ![NurseCarmen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5daacb/32.png) [@NurseCarmen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NurseCarmen)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2005, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-is-retentive-rather-than-expulsive-the-popular-anal-personality/318475/7 "2005-08-25T14:08:58Z")

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Wouldn’t it be repulsive?
