I drive from Michigan (Kalamazoo) to Texas (Austin) twice a year. Here’s what I’ve noticed on those trips (may not apply to any other parts of the country).
I drive 94 - 80/90 - 80 - 55 - 57 - 40 -30 -35, in case anyone wants to know.
In big cities, no one gives a damn about which lane they should be in. Pass on the right, drive 10-15mph over the speed limit, exits on the left (which always confuses me), will exit from the center lane (what my mother referrs to as a “California exit” - merging directly from center or left lane to the exit without pause in any lanes), tailgating, etc.
Then I get out in the country, and folks are polite. Everyone stays in the right lane unless they need to pass, folks generally cruise about 5-10 over the speed limit (except in S. Illinois - I take that to mean there are a lot of cops, and I watch my speed), don’t tailgate. The only time I ever need to pass anyone is to go around semis (65 regular, 55 for trucks seems to happen a lot).
There are still assholes out there, tho. I remember when I was coming back up north last Nov, and I was passing a line of 4 semis, going around 75 (My car doesn’t like to go 80+, so I don’t go over 75). A truck or SUV (something with headlights that were high enough to blind me as they tailgated) started riding my ass and flashing his brights. Fick. pause. Flick flick flick. WTF? Where am I supposed to go, buddy?
One flash is more polite than the finger. Multiple are considerable more rude. I think.
I love driving out in East Texas. If you get behind someone who’s not going the speed limit, they go onto the shoulder. It’s like they design the roads for this - the shoulders are easily wide enough for cars and paved.
Anyway, I see considerably fewer accidents in the country than the city - but that’s probably due to the amount of cars. I do occasionally see cars on fire or broken down on the side of the road, which is fun. When they’re on my side, I stop if it looks like they have a flat tire, since I can help with those. Not busted engines, tho.
Where am I going with this? I’ve no idea. There was a point when I started, but it got lost along the way.