# Why should I stay on the Dope?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 13, 2008, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018 "2008-12-13T17:05:14Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 17\
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**Author:** ![mauxlicious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bc8723/32.png) [@mauxlicious](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mauxlicious)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2008, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/41 "2008-12-13T23:05:03Z")

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> [@Fish](#):
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> On the internet, irony is when people don’t get _your_ jokes. Of course, everything everybody else says is in _deadly earnest._😉

\*GASP!\*You can have my first emoticon. :eek:

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**Author:** ![tr0psn4j](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/958977/32.png) [@tr0psn4j](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tr0psn4j)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2008, 11:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/42 "2008-12-13T23:15:15Z")

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People pun a lot more here then anywhere else I’ve been. I like puns.

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**Author:** ![mauxlicious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bc8723/32.png) [@mauxlicious](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mauxlicious)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2008, 11:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/43 "2008-12-13T23:17:12Z")

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> [@Illuminatiprimus](#):
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> You seem to think I’m being snide in my post when I was saying exactly what I meant. If you don’t see the value of being on a board like this (because to me its value and benefits are self evident) then I don’t think we can explain it. Also, if you’re the sort of person who needs other people to tell them what to think then I don’t see what kind of contribution you expect to make either.
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> Sorry if this is blunt but it’s what I think.

Don’t apologize. I won’t.

So what your saying to the question I am attempting to ask (what do you get out of the SDMB) is that for you it’s self evident and doesn’t require any explanation.

You might (and FTR I could care less) also be implying that my question is evidence that I don’t instantly get the wonderful nature of the SDMB. That’s your interpretation. Maybe I am interested in why people do the peculiar things they do and I don’t want to assume their reasons for it. If wanting to hear about someone’s experience makes me a sheep that needs herding then so be it.

And don’t be fooled, you can learn something from everyone. I learned how I don’t want to be today.

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**Author:** ![mauxlicious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bc8723/32.png) [@mauxlicious](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mauxlicious)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2008, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/44 "2008-12-13T23:19:00Z")

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> [@tr0psn4j](#):
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> People pun a lot more here then anywhere else I’ve been. I like puns.

I hear pun safety is slated for the next great debate.

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**Author:** ![Vox\_Imperatoris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Vox\_Imperatoris](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Vox_Imperatoris)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2008, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/45 "2008-12-13T23:19:17Z")

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**mauxlicious** , I think your question is quite reasonable. I don’t know what’s up **Illuminatiprimus** ’s butt.

Valete,  
Vox Imperatoris

ETA: Heh, that was an unintentionally funny comment to make about the poster in question.

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**Author:** ![Illuminatiprimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/illuminatiprimus/32/11520_2.png) [@Illuminatiprimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Illuminatiprimus)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2008, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/46 "2008-12-13T23:19:18Z")

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Uh huh. Don’t let the door hit you on the way out.

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**Author:** ![Heffalump\_and\_Roo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/heffalump_and_roo/32/7691_2.png) [@Heffalump\_and\_Roo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Heffalump_and_Roo)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2008, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/47 "2008-12-13T23:29:41Z")

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> [@mauxlicious](#):
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> Hello, learning curve. This was another attempt at my brand of humor. This is a new format for me. So I merely wanted to ask what you guys get out of it. That’s all.

I looked at your previous posts here. I didn’t see any learning curve going on. They seemed to be pretty much the same. . . just like this thread.

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**Author:** ![ToeJam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/dfb087/32.png) [@ToeJam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ToeJam)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2008, 11:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/48 "2008-12-13T23:46:21Z")

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> [@mauxlicious](#):
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> If wanting to hear about someone’s experience makes me a sheep that needs herding then so be it.

You don’t want to be a Sheep on these boards… Trust me. It’s just Baaaa-d for ewe.  
\<\_\<

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**Author:** ![Syntropy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/65b543/32.png) [@Syntropy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Syntropy)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 12:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/49 "2008-12-14T00:20:49Z")

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I tried out a few other message boards prior to settling here. One of the things I most appreciate about this board is the lack of one-sidedness. Opposing opinions are not only tolerated here they are expected. The moderators do not stifle posters who disagree with them. There is even a forum dedicated to flaming although I have not been brave enough to post there often.

Add that to wonderful humor and conversations on nearly every subject I care to discuss made the decision to stick around very easy.

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**Author:** ![Biggirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/biggirl/32/3294_2.png) [@Biggirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biggirl)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/50 "2008-12-14T00:52:43Z")

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It will finely hone your sense of superiority.

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**Author:** ![Lanzy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/74df32/32.png) [@Lanzy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lanzy)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 1:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/51 "2008-12-14T01:52:17Z")

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Oh I dunno,

There will come a moment. And you will be glad you’re here.

Or there won’t.

But you do have to hang around long enough to see.

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**Author:** ![EpicNonsense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/c37758/32.png) [@EpicNonsense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EpicNonsense)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/52 "2008-12-14T01:58:15Z")

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There are categories to place all of my stupid thoughts and questions.

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**Author:** ![chicken\_wire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a88e4f/32.png) [@chicken\_wire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chicken_wire)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/53 "2008-12-14T03:58:13Z")

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> [@mauxlicious](#):
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> I am not new to social networking sites but this is the first bulletin board type that I have ever tried.

That’s a bit like turning up to the Savoy and boasting about having stayed at the Motel 6. 😃

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**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/54 "2008-12-14T04:51:36Z")

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> [@mauxlicious](#):
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> Why do you dope?

Because an excessive amount of time at work would otherwise be spent staring off into space.

Also, this really is a place where just about anyone can find a topic to pedantically argue the minutea condescendingly.

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**Author:** ![LouisB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@LouisB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LouisB)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 5:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/55 "2008-12-14T05:48:26Z")

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> [@Biggirl](#):
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> It will finely hone your sense of superiority.

For me, it’s a daily lesson in humility.

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**Author:** ![Maastricht](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e57/32.png) [@Maastricht](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maastricht)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 8:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/56 "2008-12-14T08:32:33Z")

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> [@mauxlicious](#):
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> So the sense of humor and hospitality is what I should focus on?

Well, it seems to match yours just fine.

Also, do a search for SDMB in the title. There’s a thread like this every month.

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**Author:** ![FriarTed](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/friarted/32/1052_2.png) [@FriarTed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FriarTed)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2008, 1:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-should-i-stay-on-the-dope/477018/57 "2008-12-14T13:26:35Z")

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If you vaguely remember a book, movie or TV show & can give a few details about it, someone will come up with an identification & more details on it than you need within 24 hours.

And it’s a welcome relief from the illiterate idiocy that shows up in most places on the Net where people interact.

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