Could we start again, please?
Can someone clear up for me term “draft” in the US? Are we talking “military boot camp training for xx months” or are we talking: “Say goodbye to job and home, the army commands you to go fight a war somewhere?”
Of course the two are connected in countries with a civilian army. But in the Netherlands, the cries of “no fair” from the boys in my class were directed at having to spend the months in boot camp. The likelihood of them having to fight in a Dutch war was only a theoretic possibility. I suppose this is different in the USA.
Military draft for women is a moot point in the Netherlands anyway. The obligatory military selection and training was officially abolished in 1997. (it started walking on its last legs in the eighties) Now the army is an normal employer, employing professionals, both women and men. It was even on the news last month we had our first female Dutch general.
I really don’t know if, if Holland is ever military invaded again, all the men who received military training in the 1960’s-80’s are called up again to fight. I highly doubt it.
Am I pro or against a military draft (training and the possibility of being called to go to war) for women? It certainly seems fair.
On the other hand, and here are my arguments from higher up this thread again, bearing children has one of the important disadvantages of a being a soldier, and that is a likely chance for the individual to get hurt or die. Whatever the risks are statistically, it takes courage to face them, individually. (IMHO, that risk is felt by men too; seeing your wife and child in the pains and risks of labour can’t be any easier on a guy, then for a soldier seeing his buddy get wounded!)
Another disadvantage I mentioned is losing career-years, and this holds for anyone, (fathers and mothers, but usually mothers) caring for small children.
These are real disadvantages, and I do feel strongly that they should be taken into consideration before a guy says flat out: “Boys get to do the dirty dangerous work while the girls sit safely at home eating chocolate and watching Oprah”.
Please note that I say: “taken into account”. I honestly don’t know if these disadvantages equal, or should equal, the burden of fighting in the military.
Apart from losing career years and physical risks, motherhood and military duty can be compared in many other ways, and the comparison makes as much or as little sense as the person comparing sees in it.
And that is my real opinion.
Damn Great Debates: I come in to volunteer an opinion I once heard that may be relevant to the OP and that might remind someone else, better equipped then myself, to debate it; and before I know it, I find myself defending it, without even supporting it fully. Damn you, Malacandra. 
By the way, what is the opinion of posters in this thread on social duty for men AND women? As in: every eighteen year old, male or female, spends a year either in military training or in performing some community service., their choice.
I’d be all for it!
Malacandra, actually, your usage of the word “liar” taught me something valuable. I have been accused of using too strong a language in the fire of a lively conversation myself quite often. For instance, I’d tell a friend : “That’'s just frustration speaking” My friend then would feel insulted and misunderstood. Then it owuld be my turn to feel indignant, thinking: “Oh stop being such an hypocritical sissy. Despite all the veiled language, that is what it amounts to, no? Let’s all just be straigtforward and call a spade a spade. Saves everybody a lot of time”.
It’s good to be on the other side of that argument for once. 