# Wife caught sexting lover while at Atlanta Braves game with clueless husband. **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [July 25, 2015, 8:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142 "2015-07-25T08:18:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![aceplace57](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aceplace57/32/3500_2.png) [@aceplace57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aceplace57)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 8:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/1 "2015-07-25T08:18:49Z")
Normally I’d mind my own business if I saw something. But this is just so brazen. Cuddling and affectionate with hubby and sexting your secret lover? This lady had it figured out. Alias for lover boy in her phone. delete texts right after sending. she appears quite slick and well practiced at making a travesty of her marriage. kudos for these sisters fast thinking. Taking a couple over the shoulder photos to document what was going on inches from clueless hubby. At least now hubby knows whats happening. He can decide what to do next. This would be like seeing a friend’s wife sitting in another guys lap at the park. Its so in your face that it can’t be ignored. > **[Sisters allegedly expose cheating woman to husband after catching her sexting...](https://www.nydailynews.com/2015/07/28/sisters-allegedly-expose-cheating-woman-to-husband-after-catching-her-sexting-someone-at-ball-game/)** > > Swing and a missus. Two sisters attending a baseball game claim that they exposed a man’s cheating wife after catching her running the bases with another man on her cellphone. Photos taken ov… > [@](#): > > Photos taken over the woman’s shoulder during Wednesday night’s Atlanta Braves game showed the unidentified woman appearing to sext someone in between cuddling with her man. > > Delana and Brynn Hinson posted photos of her texts on Twitter, Brynn writing: “These hoes ain’t loyal so we expose em.” > > In the shots, the woman’s alleged secret lover is listed as “Nancy” in her phone, but in at least one text she appears to refer to him as “Mark Allen.” > > “My love … Mark Allen I lov … much…” one text, partially hidden by the woman’s hand, reads. > > “I will be the naked … laying on the ground,” another reads. ---
**Author:** ![aceplace57](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aceplace57/32/3500_2.png) [@aceplace57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aceplace57)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 8:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/2 "2015-07-25T08:38:10Z")
Cuckold is the word. Poor guy. Married for 29 years and he had no clue. I’ve been married 25 years. Trust is everything. The very foundation of our marriage. I’ve never looked at her phone or been the jealous type. Trust makes any insecurity and jealousy a waste of my time. Either I trust her implicitly or I don’t trust her at all. It’s understood between us that to break that trust and the marriage is over. I’ve had a few room numbers slipped (maybe six in 25 years) to me at conferences. Threw them straight into the trash after the woman was out of sight. I’m quite happy with the lady that I married. I’m not messing up the best thing that ever happened to me. She’s the only person that knows \*everything \*about me. ---
**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 10:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/3 "2015-07-25T10:22:21Z")
I don’t see how this is any of those girls’ business. ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 10:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/4 "2015-07-25T10:57:56Z")
> [@aceplace57](#): > > kudos for these sisters fast thinking. Why the fuck were they reading her texts? It was none of their business who or why or what she was texting. They deserve kudos for nothing. They need to learn to keep their noses out of other people’s business. ---
**Author:** ![aceplace57](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aceplace57/32/3500_2.png) [@aceplace57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aceplace57)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 11:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/5 "2015-07-25T11:03:19Z")
If you were at the game and took a restroom break. You see a guy stumble into somebody and its clear the clueless mark just got his wallet lifted. None of your business? Say nothing? Or would you let the victim know? The cuckold husband is a victim much like a pickpocket’s mark. A scam involving his wife and her lover was going on right under his nose. I would find a way to discreetly let him know. Much like the sisters did. ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 11:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/6 "2015-07-25T11:04:53Z")
> [@aceplace57](#): > > I would find a way to discreetly let him know. Much like the sisters did. Why would you be reading her texts in the first place? ---
**Author:** ![sparky\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/77aa72/32.png) [@sparky\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sparky_1)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 11:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/7 "2015-07-25T11:22:58Z")
Amazing the influence the Puritans still have on us. ---
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 11:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/8 "2015-07-25T11:32:52Z")
That they were staring so intently at her phone is pretty creepy, as is the fact that this now qualifies as news. ---
**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 12:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/9 "2015-07-25T12:12:30Z")
> [@Freudian\_Slit](#): > > That they were staring so intently at her phone is pretty creepy, as is the fact that this now qualifies as news. It was a Braves game. Nobody there was watching the game. Not hubby, not cheating wife, and not the two nosy chicks in the next row back. Braves suck. ---
**Author:** ![cwthree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9de0a6/32.png) [@cwthree](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cwthree)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 12:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/10 "2015-07-25T12:58:38Z")
> [@aceplace57](#): > > If you were at the game and took a restroom break. You see a guy stumble into somebody and its clear the clueless mark just got his wallet lifted. > > None of your business? Say nothing? Or would you let the victim know? > > The cuckold husband is a victim much like a pickpocket’s mark. A scam involving his wife and her lover was going on right under his nose. I would find a way to discreetly let him know. Much like the sisters did. Theft is a crime. Cheating is not. ---
**Author:** ![chappachula](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d2c977/32.png) [@chappachula](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chappachula)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/11 "2015-07-25T13:03:04Z")
> [@aceplace57](#): > > The cuckold husband is a victim much like a pickpocket’s mark. A scam involving his wife and her lover was going on right under his nose. I would find a way to discreetly let him know… Bad analogy—Pickpocketing is a criminal offence. And you can be absolutely sure that you know the victim’s attitude—he will thank you for your assistance. Cheating is not a crime. And you can be absolutely sure that you know nothing about the vicitim’s attitude. He may not thank you at all–he may prefer to be cheated on _and never know about it_. Maybe your “assistance” will ruin his life–lead to public embarrassment, divorce, financial ruin, losing contact with his children, etc. You have no business interfering with the intimate private life of a total stranger. ---
**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 1:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/12 "2015-07-25T13:09:04Z")
> [@aceplace57](#): > > If you were at the game and took a restroom break. You see a guy stumble into somebody and its clear the clueless mark just got his wallet lifted. > > None of your business? Say nothing? Or would you let the victim know? > > The cuckold husband is a victim much like a pickpocket’s mark. A scam involving his wife and her lover was going on right under his nose. I would find a way to discreetly let him know. Much like the sisters did. That’s not the equivalent of what happened. This was more like _“I was peeking through the window into my neighbor’s bathroom when she slipped and fell in the shower. So I called an ambulance for her. And now I’m posting the pictures I took online.”_ ---
**Author:** ![AK84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85e7bf/32.png) [@AK84](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AK84)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 1:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/13 "2015-07-25T13:18:20Z")
Whats is the world coming to that a person cannot sext safely at sport events anymore? ---
**Author:** ![Joey\_P](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/919ad9/32.png) [@Joey\_P](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joey_P)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 1:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/14 "2015-07-25T13:20:34Z")
> [@aceplace57](#): > > This would be like seeing a friend’s wife sitting in another guys lap at the park. Its so in your face that it can’t be ignored. I’m not sure how I feel about it, but it’s not like that at all. How is a full grown woman sitting on a guy’s lap at a baseball game even remotely the same or as ‘in your face’ as a women typing on her phone? They ONLY reason it can’t be ignored is because it’s getting tweeted and posted all over the internet and on message boards. If you didn’t post the link here (_any why did you post the link here?_), it certainly wouldn’t have been anywhere near my face, I wouldn’t have even known about it. It’s not on my facebook/twitter feed. ---
**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/15 "2015-07-25T13:28:23Z")
> [@aceplace57](#): > > I’ve been married 25 years. Trust is everything. The very foundation of our marriage. I’ve never looked at her phone or been the jealous type. Trust makes any insecurity and jealousy a waste of my time. Either I trust her implicitly or I don’t trust her at all. It’s understood between us that to break that trust and the marriage is over. I’ve had a few room numbers slipped (maybe six in 25 years) to me at conferences. Threw them straight into the trash after the woman was out of sight. I’m quite happy with the lady that I married. I’m not messing up the best thing that ever happened to me. She’s the only person that knows \*everything \*about me. For all we know, the guy in the OP could have said the same thing last week. ---
**Author:** ![Inna\_Minnit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/5f8ce5/32.png) [@Inna\_Minnit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inna_Minnit)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 1:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/16 "2015-07-25T13:32:45Z")
Maybe the dude was her lover and she was sexting her husband? ---
**Author:** ![Flyer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/flyer/32/7298_2.png) [@Flyer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flyer)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/17 "2015-07-25T14:08:33Z")
> [@Little\_Nemo](#): > > That’s not the equivalent of what happened. This was more like _“I was peeking through the window into my neighbor’s bathroom when she slipped and fell in the shower. So I called an ambulance for her. And now I’m posting the pictures I took online.”_ In my opinion, one of the very strangest things in life is this attitude or mindset of somehow being unable to tell the difference between “being in public” and “being in private.” You’re not the only person who seems to think that people carry an inviolable bubble of privacy no matter where they are. Tip #1–if an action is deliberately done in full view of surrounding people, then there is no shame, disgrace, or dishonor in taking note of that action. Tip #2–Consequences cannot be controlled. We cannot choose to have only pleasant consequences of our actions, no matter how much we might wish to do so. ---
**Author:** ![DigitalC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ebca7d/32.png) [@DigitalC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DigitalC)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 2:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/18 "2015-07-25T14:26:27Z")
> [@Frank](#): > > Why the fuck were they reading her texts? It was none of their business who or why or what she was texting. > > They deserve kudos for nothing. They need to learn to keep their noses out of other people’s business. What the hell? they were doing a good deed. ---
**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/19 "2015-07-25T14:27:53Z")
Far from doing something noble, these women may have caused irreparable damage to lives they know nothing about. I remember a guy in the Navy who, after returning from deployment, went to other men’s homes and told their wives about what the husbands were up to overseas. Divorces, alienation of children, hurt feelings, domestic violence and other fallout was the result. It’s easy to say “Well, if he hadn’t done such-and-such, there wouldn’t have been a problem”, but the bottom line is that it’s nobody else’s business. Self appointed moralists are just self righteous assholes. ---
**Author:** ![Tom\_Tildrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e95f7d/32.png) [@Tom\_Tildrum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tom_Tildrum)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2015, 2:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142/20 "2015-07-25T14:29:30Z")
This just a small-scale version of the Ashley Madison matter – a possible cheater got hacked. Cheating is often creepy, and so is hacking. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-caught-sexting-lover-while-at-atlanta-braves-game-with-clueless-husband/726142.md?page=2)