# Wife comatose? Fuck her when you visit again and again. **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [September 12, 2008, 3:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276 "2008-09-12T15:07:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Scumpup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Scumpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scumpup)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/41 "2008-09-12T16:56:25Z")
Meh, if one lasts long enough to actually insert Tab A into Slot B before ejaculation, that sounds like great sex to me. ---
**Author:** ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/42 "2008-09-12T16:59:54Z")
Would tittyfucking be okay? ---
**Author:** ![Malacandra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Malacandra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malacandra)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/43 "2008-09-12T17:02:52Z")
> [@myskepticsight](#): > > Wow, I hadn’t read that thread yet. While I don’t think a corpsefucker\* necessarily needs a ton of jail time, they probably need a good deal of therapy. That’s one sexual paraphilia that could be argued is harmful and needs to be treated. > > I’ve just always thought about it this way I suppose, and it’s seems to be a smart way to think about it: > if someone cannot give consent (passed out, comatose, unconscious, dead) then assume they are saying no. Lack of consent because it CAN’T be given just equals no to me. > > Oh, and **Malacandra** , I was half-joking there. Which is why I added that last bit about allowing any of you to deface my corpse - because I don’t believe such a contract to be in existence or valid anyway. > > \*I couldn’t help myself That’s OK, I’m something in the dry humour line myself. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/44 "2008-09-12T17:04:25Z")
> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#): > > Fuck off. Hey, you chose your username, not me… ---
**Author:** ![Yorikke](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yorikke/32/4335_2.png) [@Yorikke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yorikke)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 5:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/45 "2008-09-12T17:37:32Z")
I love my wife dearly, and I don’t think I could do what this man did. But I know that my wife would be OK with it, if a bit creeped out. Joe ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/46 "2008-09-12T18:04:21Z")
Well, this one is weird, and a tough call. I mean, kissing someone without their consent is also assault, right? But would anyone be creeped out by a husband \*kissing \*his comatose wife? Wouldn’t most of use think that’s sweet? But sex, that’s a step too far?😕 Yeah, it squinks me out a bit. But charging him with rape and putting him in prison for life also squinks me out. ---
**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/47 "2008-09-12T18:08:28Z")
> [@Tristan](#): > > “My wife and I had a loving relationship, with a healthy sex-life. She’s in a coma, but I still love her and only her, and she loves me. I know she would want me to be happy, and this will help. Also, if it’s true what they say, she may get some feeling of pleasure from this, which might help wake her up. If she were awake, she would want me to.” > > _zip_ Aw…when you put it like that, it’s really rather sweet. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![The\_Second\_Stone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bbe5ce/32.png) [@The\_Second\_Stone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Second_Stone)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/48 "2008-09-12T18:12:13Z")
Well at least he didn’t cheat on her. You gotta say that their marriage is strong if she is still able to satisfy him just lying there. Either that or he doesn’t know what a good lay is. But I kid. The staff turned him in because he was abusing staff privileges. They didn’t want sloppy seconds. ---
**Author:** ![NurseCarmen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5daacb/32.png) [@NurseCarmen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NurseCarmen)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/49 "2008-09-12T18:18:31Z")
Why is nobody shocked that this happened in Wisconsin? ---
**Author:** ![Starving\_Artist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aeb1de/32.png) [@Starving\_Artist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Starving_Artist)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/50 "2008-09-12T18:19:52Z")
> [@The\_Second\_Stone](#): > > Well at least he didn’t cheat on her. You gotta say that their marriage is strong if she is still able to satisfy him just lying there. Strong marriage according to **TSS** : Wife: “Honey, if I’m asleep when you’re done would you please pull down my nightie?” Husband: “Sure.” 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/51 "2008-09-12T18:25:15Z")
> [@DrDeth](#): > > But sex, that’s a step too far?😕 Yeah, it squinks me out a bit. But charging him with rape and putting him in prison for life also squinks me out. Why? Is having sex with a passed out drunk person any less rape? ---
**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/52 "2008-09-12T18:28:15Z")
I wonder how the Schindler’s would have reacted if they caught Michael Schivao in the act with Terri? ---
**Author:** ![Omegaman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e480ec/32.png) [@Omegaman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omegaman)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/53 "2008-09-12T18:28:18Z")
That’s an individual that needs to catch a beating. Fucking sad shit, that. Beyond sad, really. Fucking disgusting.☹ ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/54 "2008-09-12T18:29:58Z")
This is really weird to me. I mean, of course it’s wrong, what he did. But can you imagine how people would have come down on him if he left her? “Oh, look at him, he dumped her ass soon as she was sick!” It says he visited her every day, read the Bible to her, moved her legs and arms…She’s been in a coma for at least three years. I feel kind of sorry for him, in a way. What do you guys think he should have done? Visited a hooker is out. I just think we get all up in other people’s business way too much. Sad story from every angle. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Fight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Cat\_Fight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Fight)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/55 "2008-09-12T18:30:01Z")
> [@The\_Second\_Stone](#): > > Well at least he didn’t cheat on her. Hey, who knows? Maybe he did. Crass jokes aside, it boggles the mind that anyone could think this is okay. But perhaps they’re the types who still think it’s impossible for a husband to rape his wife, ever. ---
**Author:** ![Fear\_Itself](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fear_itself/32/19637_2.png) [@Fear\_Itself](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fear_Itself)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/56 "2008-09-12T18:33:59Z")
> [@Mississippienne](#): > > WTF y’all. Just because she married him doesn’t mean he owns her. Marital rape can and does happen, and I think having sex with your comatose wife would certainly fall into that category. I’m not so sure. Can marital rape occur if the woman never says “no”? Does marriage imply consent until it is withdrawn by one of the parties? ---
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/57 "2008-09-12T18:34:07Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > What do you guys think he should have done? Visited a hooker is out. > > I just think we get all up in other people’s business way too much. Sad story from every angle. In this case, I think it IS the business of other people, when you are abusing or assaulting or raping your spouse. If he’d left her or seen a hooker, okay, sure, maybe it’s not classy, but in that case, you’re right, not our business. When you break the law, it kind of is. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/58 "2008-09-12T18:38:40Z")
:dubious: It’s not _our_ business in anyway. The family, yes, the police, yes, but we are less than third-party gawkers. ---
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/59 "2008-09-12T18:41:09Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > :dubious: It’s not _our_ business in anyway. The family, yes, the police, yes, but we are less than third-party gawkers. Well, no, we don’t have the right go in and start making decisions, but I don’t think it’s really intruding to say that it’s wrong to rape people. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 6:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276/60 "2008-09-12T18:42:46Z")
I agree it’s wrong. See my post? See the second line? And I still feel sorry for him. And her. And the whole situation. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/wife-comatose-fuck-her-when-you-visit-again-and-again/463276.md?page=4)