# Will I get kidnapped this Saturday? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [July 16, 2003, 7:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832 "2003-07-16T07:34:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2003, 2:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/41 "2003-07-21T14:57:50Z")
My questions How did the club feel about you two just observing? Or did you do more than that? Were the participants attractive to you and Pricegal? You said you were going back, are you planning to participate then? ---
**Author:** ![Sue\_Duhnym](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@Sue\_Duhnym](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sue_Duhnym)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2003, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/42 "2003-07-21T16:57:06Z")
For future reference, go [here.](http://nasca.com/) ---
**Author:** ![Contrary](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/db5fbb/32.png) [@Contrary](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Contrary)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2003, 5:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/43 "2003-07-21T17:12:47Z")
Yeah, I can understand that, Priceguy. I’m very curious about groups like what you observed Saturday, but as I said earlier, I’m a bit of a chicken and also I’ve noticed that not all fantasies translate well to real life. Sue, I won’t be clicking that link, at least not from work 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2003, 9:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/44 "2003-07-21T21:13:40Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Zebra \* > **How did the club feel about you two just observing?** No problem at all. Lots of couples kept to themselves. This particular evening, most did. > [@](#): > > **Were the participants attractive to you and Pricegal?** Some were, some weren’t. Quite a lot of couples were older. There was one young, hot couple that we spent some time with, though. According to them (they were relative newcomers too, having spent a handful of nights there) this was a very “bad” night in terms of the attractiveness of the other patrons. I didn’t mind much. > [@](#): > > \*\*You said you were going back, are you planning to participate then? \*\* Undecided thus far. ---
**Author:** ![badmana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@badmana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/badmana)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2003, 10:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/45 "2003-07-21T22:21:07Z")
Sheesh, not even a Canadian listing. Although I doubt my GF would be up to this sort of thing 😃 Was it located in a house like the one in the news article **malaka** listed or an actually business? Did it have a sleezy attitude? Or more of a clubing atmostphere? ---
**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2003, 8:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/46 "2003-07-22T08:07:52Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by badmana \* > \*\*Did it have a sleezy attitude? Or more of a clubing atmostphere? \*\* Not really sure what you mean by “clubbing atmosphere”. It was like a gentleman’s club, pretty much, except that there was a bunch of naked people everywhere and porn films running constantly. There was nothing sleazy about it. ---
**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2003, 1:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/47 "2003-07-22T13:38:20Z")
So was it like that place in Eyes Wide Shut? ---
**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2003, 1:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/48 "2003-07-22T13:51:01Z")
Not really. Nothing near as big, ritualised, or formal. No masks either. ---
**Author:** ![liirogue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dbc845/32.png) [@liirogue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/liirogue)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2003, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/49 "2003-07-22T15:02:36Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Priceguy \* > \*\*Not really sure what you mean by “clubbing atmosphere”. It was like a gentleman’s club, pretty much, except that there was a bunch of naked people everywhere and porn films running constantly. \*There was nothing sleazy about it. \*\*\* Sorry I just find this amusing 😃 (italics mine) _d_ ---
**Author:** ![DirkGntly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d9b06d/32.png) [@DirkGntly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DirkGntly)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2003, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/50 "2003-07-22T17:42:42Z")
**Priceguy** , I can empathize, to a point…my swing club experience can be found [here.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=172725&highlight=swingers+club) Anyway, you must be in a different state than I am. Here, on-premise sex in a commercial location would be illegal. Now, on private property, like someone’s home, that’s another story entirely… ---
**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\ **Post date:** [July 23, 2003, 5:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/51 "2003-07-23T05:55:47Z")
**DirkGntly** , as I mentioned in the original post I’m Swedish. Sex in public isn’t even punishable here. ---
**Author:** ![WhatMeCare2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/cdc98d/32.png) [@WhatMeCare2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhatMeCare2)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 3:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832/52 "2003-08-30T15:05:33Z")
So you made it out with your asshole in tact… GOOD FOR YOU! > [@](#): > > I haven’t seen this guy around in a while… [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/will-i-get-kidnapped-this-saturday/188832.md?page=2)