# Women: Do you enjoy the thought/sight of men having sex with men? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 8, 2003, 12:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807 "2003-08-08T12:27:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Priam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/77aa72/32.png) [@Priam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Priam)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 5:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/41 "2003-08-09T17:12:59Z")
Of course a lot of yaoi makes the men look very very very androgynous, to the point that gender is almost a coin-toss. ---
**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/42 "2003-08-09T17:32:23Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by jsgoddess \* > \*\*I find men kissing each other or dancing with each other to be very attractive. My imagination doesn’t tend to go further. > > And a lesbian friend of mine said this was demeaning to gay guys in exactly the same way that straight men fantasizing about lesbians is demeaning to lesbians. > > Which made me realize that I’m probably a hypocrite for appreciating two men kissing/hugging/dancing. > > Julie \*\* Your lesbian friend… she sounds like a rigid thinker. To appreciate and have fantasies is fine, IMHO. To go trolling in gay bars to be the cream filling in a homo sammidge is probably not. There is a big difference between those two things. ---
**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/43 "2003-08-09T17:44:08Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Mockingbird \* > **Your lesbian friend… she sounds like a rigid thinker.** Perhaps. On this issue. But I understand where she’s coming from. I’ve heard straight guys say that (paraphrased) “homosexuality is eeevil” and then turn around and say “lesbians are so hot.” It’s as if they think lesbians aren’t _really_ gay, just indulging in some cute hobby. And it reinforces the idea in my head that people aren’t anti-gay because of any religion or moral issue, but because they find male-male sex squicky. If lots of straight women were saying the same things about gay guys, do you think that would bother you, or would you just be able to ignore it? Julie ---
**Author:** ![LauraLittlePony](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e19adc/32.png) [@LauraLittlePony](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LauraLittlePony)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/44 "2003-08-09T17:49:28Z")
Kind of. Better than straight porn, IMO. For the record, I’m bi. ---
**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/45 "2003-08-09T17:49:57Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by pepperlandgirl \* > \*\*I’m trying to convince my husband that he really, really wants to have sex wiht a man and let me watch…so far, he’s not buying it. 😉 😃 > > So I content myself with fanfic about Spike fucking everybody, men and women alike… \*\* So, that three way between Spike, Clem, and Ethan Rayne is a thumbs for you? ---
**Author:** ![jeanster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/9fc348/32.png) [@jeanster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jeanster)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/46 "2003-08-09T17:50:32Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by DebiJ \* > \*\*Guinastasia: What the hell is slash fiction??? \*\* Allow me to answer for **Guinastasia**. [Here is an example of slash.](http://home.arcor.de/noxwise/fiction/fics/potc_slashers.html) It’s called slash because two males are paired : m/m. When it’s a story about two females paired, then it’s f/f. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 7:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/47 "2003-08-09T19:58:32Z")
Actually, slash is any with same sex characters-“slash” refers to the / in between the names. It can be anywhere from G-rated to NC17, and/or X. My favorite is _Star Wars_ slash fiction. ---
**Author:** ![Jaade](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/dfb087/32.png) [@Jaade](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jaade)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 8:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/48 "2003-08-09T20:00:42Z")
Hetero female… I don’t think I would be turned on by male/male porn… As some other girls stated, female/female is actually hot for me too ~J ---
**Author:** ![Tanaqui](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3bc359/32.png) [@Tanaqui](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tanaqui)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/49 "2003-08-09T20:17:18Z")
Me too, me too. I don’t really like your basic hardcore visual porn of any variety, gay or straight, but I dig slash and some yaoi-style stuff. ---
**Author:** ![Queen\_Tonya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/4491bb/32.png) [@Queen\_Tonya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Queen_Tonya)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/50 "2003-08-09T21:18:06Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Gravity \* > \*\*Me, too - exactly. But I feel that way about all sex. I’d rather read it so I can imagine it. \*\* Me three! ---
**Author:** ![superstar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f4b2a3/32.png) [@superstar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/superstar)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2003, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/51 "2003-08-09T23:04:46Z")
> [@](#): > > \*\* > But I understand where she’s coming from. I’ve heard straight guys say that (paraphrased) “homosexuality is eeevil” and then turn around and say “lesbians are so hot.” > > It’s as if they think lesbians aren’t _really_ gay, just indulging in some cute hobby. \*\* Yeh, like were sleeping with each other until the right guy comes along. Just killin time till and amusing ourselves! :o Yeh, just goofin about, not a deep loving committed relationship til the end of time, just some fun!!!:dubious: ---
**Author:** ![Shemem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9de053/32.png) [@Shemem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shemem)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2003, 2:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/52 "2003-08-10T02:16:28Z")
None for me, thanks. I like to be able to identify with at least one of the participants in my porn. That, and given that I seem to have a knack for falling for guys who turn out to be gay, just kind of hits a sore spot for me, y’know? ---
**Author:** ![Krisfer\_the\_Cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Krisfer\_the\_Cat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Krisfer_the_Cat)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2003, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/53 "2003-08-10T04:43:22Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Mockingbird \* > \*\*So, that three way between Spike, Clem, and Ethan Rayne is a thumbs for you? \*\* HOLY CRAP! I read that as a three way between Spike, Clem and ETHEL Rayne!:eek: :eek: Forgive me! _grovel grovel_ ---
**Author:** ![Porpoise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Porpoise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Porpoise)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2003, 10:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/54 "2003-08-10T10:44:24Z")
Count me in too. While I can’t say that I find hardcore porn of any kind exciting, reading about it or fantasizing about it certainly turns me on. ---
**Author:** ![jeanster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/9fc348/32.png) [@jeanster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jeanster)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2003, 7:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/55 "2003-08-10T19:57:15Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Tanaqui \* > \*\*Me too, me too. I don’t really like your basic hardcore visual porn of any variety, gay or straight, but I dig slash and some yaoi-style stuff. \*\* You might enjoy [this very short sweet Pirates of the Caribbean slash fanfic](http://www.fanfiction.net/read.php?storyid=1469445) that I read this morning. It’s rated PG, so it’s not hardcore. 251 words, so it’s very short. ---
**Author:** ![Inna\_Minnit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/5f8ce5/32.png) [@Inna\_Minnit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inna_Minnit)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 4:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-do-you-enjoy-the-thought-sight-of-men-having-sex-with-men/193807/57 "2015-07-28T04:36:30Z")
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