# Women find male genitals replusive, and most men don't even know it **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [April 30, 2017, 11:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564 "2017-04-30T11:25:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 11
**Author:** ![dropzone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dropzone/32/7515_2.png) [@dropzone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dropzone)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 3:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/201 "2017-05-02T03:14:39Z")
> [@Silver\_lining](#): > > A crazy thread. Most women like sex, and for that you need a penis. > > The women who don’t like sex either feel bad about their bodies, or have physical issues the make it uncomfortable. Even I (see my recent history) am not dumb enough to fall for that. You’re kinda nuts. :eek: I am not into penii, as it is, but even I, a noted troll, have received compliments, and take them where I get them, because it’s too embarrassing to argue. ---
**Author:** ![Tranquilis](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tranquilis/32/3639_2.png) [@Tranquilis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tranquilis)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 3:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/202 "2017-05-02T03:54:02Z")
> [@Faylasouf](#): > > I’ll reiterate, a homeless man will NEVER have sex with any woman, regardless of whether she’s homeless or not. _snerk_ Bwahahahahahahaa! Wow, are YOU up the wrong tree - in the wrong patch of forest, too! :eek: So, I know better - Having had to, in my duties and responsibilities working with the homeless on killin-cold winter nights, break up quite a few love-fests in various supposedly anonymous corners. Dunno which planet _you_ come from, **Faylasouf** , but it’s an amusing one. > [@GrumpyBunny](#): > > Has anyone considered the (undoubtedly remote) possibility that the OP’s junk actually is disgusting, and that’s why he’s having problems? Stuck it in a hammer mill, or some such? Plausible… ---
**Author:** ![psychobunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/54ee81/32.png) [@psychobunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/psychobunny)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 3:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/203 "2017-05-02T03:55:44Z")
Just for fun (and to avoid work) I actually checked out one of the [messageboards](https://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts1979236.aspx) that the OP linked to. To be absolutely fair, he linked to a google search, and this was the second link and the one that I randomly chose, just to see what board it was that had 90% of the women saying that the male member is ugly. Now call me crazy, but it seems to be just a tad less than 90%, say closer to 10%, which makes me wonder if the OP actually looked at his own links. If not, I encourage him to go to this site because I know he will trust it as a random internet sampling that as noted above, he linked to to support his hypotheses. ---
**Author:** ![Tranquilis](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tranquilis/32/3639_2.png) [@Tranquilis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tranquilis)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/204 "2017-05-02T03:59:22Z")
> [@DSeid](#): > > Genitalia as an attractive body part? I doubt many of either gender see them as all that “attractive” per se out of context. Ask a thousand men what the most attractive body part on a woman is and you might get lots of answers of “breasts”, “ass”, “legs”, “eyes”, “mouth”, … or even “mind” … but “vulva”? … Show us the board! Bzzz. Going to have to contradict you here - I have indeed seen beautiful vulva - the kind of beauty that stands on its own merit. Not super common, I’ll grant, but in my experience, not unknown. ---
**Author:** ![eulalia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eulalia/32/457_2.png) [@eulalia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eulalia)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 4:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/205 "2017-05-02T04:01:58Z")
> [@Faylasouf](#): > > I’ll reiterate, a homeless man will NEVER have sex with any woman, regardless of whether she’s homeless or not. > On the other hand a homeless women can still choose the guy who can have sex with her; it’s likely if he buys her a McDonald’s and lets her stay at his pad for a few days then she’ll give him sex in return. > > I don’t hate wieners. I have one. I’m simply stating a biological fact that most men refuse to acknowledge cause it hurts their ego. > I noticed the guys still avoid mentioning the last part, the one about women laughing and cheering with jubilance when a man’s penis is cut off by a woman. I wonder why? The truth could be too uncomfortable for them to take in. Have you actually been homeless? Because I have and I can attest that you are flat out wrong. Homeless people are like other people, except poorer and possibly more likely to have mental illness and/or substance abuse problems; and lacking homes, so maybe unable to take a shower and wash their clothes when they’d like to. They still have relationships, and have sex just as often as anyone else, when they can find a safe place to do so. I have never seen a woman “put out” for a hamburger and a place to stay, though I have unfortunately seen a few of them do it for drugs. This has nothing whatsoever to do with how they feel about penises or men. ---
**Author:** ![Great\_White\_Dope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/22d042/32.png) [@Great\_White\_Dope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Great_White_Dope)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/206 "2017-05-02T04:48:12Z")
I’ve had several women tell me my penis is handsome. Were those women lying to me? ---
**Author:** ![Budget\_Player\_Cadet](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/budget_player_cadet/32/205_2.png) [@Budget\_Player\_Cadet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Budget_Player_Cadet)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 4:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/207 "2017-05-02T04:50:16Z")
> [@Kamino\_Neko](#): > > Now that we’re not in GD, [I can post the obligatory link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ofl_UP3apM)… I really ought to watch Red Dwarf, that was freakin’ hilarious. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![anomalous1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e56c9b/32.png) [@anomalous1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anomalous1)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/208 "2017-05-02T04:54:36Z")
I am so glad this had gotten moved to The Pit, it should make some more entertainment for days to come. I don’t want know I kept arguing with OP, it was a fruitless endeavor. ---
**Author:** ![zoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zoid/32/336_2.png) [@zoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoid)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 5:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/209 "2017-05-02T05:03:06Z")
Oh Look! A sexually frustrated troll has found his way to the SDMB! What fresh Hell is THIS?! ---
**Author:** ![Superdude](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/superdude/32/13450_2.png) [@Superdude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Superdude)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 5:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/210 "2017-05-02T05:07:46Z")
> [@tomndebb](#): > > That is not how it works. There is a reason why NO serious researcher will rely on internet surveys to determine opinions. There are no controls. They rely on volunteer reporting without any way to determine how many people with valid opinions simply scroll past such surveys without every opening them, much less replying to them. > > There is not one instance of my opinion being recorded on an internet survey, despite the fact, (as demonstrated oten on the SDMB), that I have actual, serious opinions on multiple topics. (I do not even reply to surveys posted on the SDMB.) If a person sees a “survey” on the internet asking whether they like a particular phenomenon, they are not likely to respond unless they have a vested personal interest in the topic. So people who see questions about the enjoyment of sex or the beauty of genitalia who consider those question either silly, intrusive, or irrelevant are not going to respond and you will get only an opinion from people with their own axes to grind on the topic–and there is no way to know how much of the populations falls into the interested category o the uninterested category. > > You can provide no facts, just limited opinions from people with axes to grind. Let’s also remember that the YouTube woman is Grace Helbig, who is a comedian. > **[Grace Helbig](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grace_Helbig)** > > Grace Anne Helbig (born September 27, 1985) is an American comedian, actress, and internet personality. She is the co-creator and co-host of the podcast This Might Get Weird (2018–present) alongside frequent collaborator Mamrie Hart and is the voice of Cindy Bear in the Max animated series Jellystone! (2021–present). > Helbig created and hosted the My Damn Channel web series DailyGrace (2008–2013). She was a correspondent on the G4 network tech series Attack of the Show! (2011–2012), played Idol... ---
**Author:** ![Faylasouf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3be4f8/32.png) [@Faylasouf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Faylasouf)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 6:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/211 "2017-05-02T06:18:34Z")
> [@Velocity](#): > > I think much of **Faylasouf** ’s process is reasoning is wrong, but the \*points/observations \*that are made are valid, just poorly arrived at: > > 1. Women and men think differently; > 2. Violence by women against men is regarded differently than violence by men against women; > 3. Women have an easier time getting sex than men; > 4. Women and men are attracted to different things; > 5. Men often project their thinking onto women and think women think the same way they do. “Violence by women against men is regarded differently than violence by men against women” You’re incorrectly assuming that ALL violence against men by women is taken as a joke. I challenge you to find me a single case of female-on-male MAIMING other than cutting off his genitals where women worldwide erupt in cheers, laughter, and high-fives. You can’t explain that. Why is it specifically the mutilation of the penis that makes them jubilant? I provided multiple links. Everyone in this thread ignored them. Also I’m betting many of these supposedly “penis-loving” women in this thread chuckled a bit and said “you go girl!” when they read the stories. The only explanation for this phenomenon is simple and obvious, women find that part of the body so utterly repulsive that the act of its permanent mutilation brings them immense joy. I don’t know about this new place my thread was moved, but it seems the moderator considers any viewpoints different from theirs as incoherent babble. Fair enough. Whatever you want. If you want to prevent anyone from discussing this valid subject that’s your choice, you’re the mod. ---
**Author:** ![Mijin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mijin/32/9369_2.png) [@Mijin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mijin)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 6:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/212 "2017-05-02T06:38:53Z")
Wow, women really are monsters, huh? To mutilate men just because they don’t like how penises look. Presumably they also cheer when someone with a facial disfigurement gets stabbed in the face? Who knew women were so violent? BTW I’m still wondering the answer to my question: You’re saying women don’t enjoy sex…do you think that the female orgasm is a real thing? ---
**Author:** ![Faylasouf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3be4f8/32.png) [@Faylasouf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Faylasouf)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 6:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/213 "2017-05-02T06:48:05Z")
> [@Mijin](#): > > Wow, women really are monsters, huh? > To mutilate men just because they don’t like how penises look. No actually they mutilate men because of cheating, divorce, an argument, or his loss of a job. I’m talking about the reason all other women laugh and cheer, not the reason some mutilate. > [@Mijin](#): > > Presumably they also cheer when someone with a facial disfigurement gets stabbed in the face? Who knew women were so violent? My SPECIFIC point was that they only cheered and laughed when it was the penis mutilated. I don’t know what the hell’s your problem, you’re deliberately misreading what I wrote or you’re so hellbent on picking a fight and you’re in such a rage you didn’t take the time to read it properly. ---
**Author:** ![Crazyhorse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crazyhorse/32/31_2.png) [@Crazyhorse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Crazyhorse)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 7:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/214 "2017-05-02T07:01:33Z")
What you conveniently fail to mention is that in many of those cases the woman’s father or another close relative had been killed by a little fireman. ---
**Author:** ![anomalous1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e56c9b/32.png) [@anomalous1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anomalous1)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 7:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/215 "2017-05-02T07:03:29Z")
Hell, I can’t resist. Now that this is in The Pit, this may be the last non-inflammatory response you get, so please read it carefully. The point is, on a subject such as this, or any subject that would assume a behavior or trait of any particular group, requires strong evidence. You do not have strong evidence. If it were up to me, Internet based evidence would be weaker than anecdotal, but anyhow. You need strong evidence proving the contrary of what is normally accepted, for your own argument, and like I said, you do not have any. A few videos is not cutting it (pardon the pun). This is why you are getting flamed on here. You cannot attribute something to an entire group of people without considerable amounts of evidence. You refusing to provide any other evidence than those video links is why others are contemplating and trying to figure out if you have an angle or a bias or not, and if so, why you are using such weak evidence (if you can call it that) to substantiate your bias/claim. Sample sizes do not apply in this case, sample sizes need something concrete to base off of. If you went to any sort of College and passed, I am surprised you don’t know this. Find a free online course in statistics and methods of writing hypotheses and citations and you will get the same answer, you do not have enough evidence to prove your claim, therefore it is acceptable for everyone else to believe what they want/the contrary to yours. ---
**Author:** ![Faylasouf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3be4f8/32.png) [@Faylasouf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Faylasouf)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 7:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/216 "2017-05-02T07:14:52Z")
> [@anomalous1](#): > > Hell, I can’t resist. > > Now that this is in The Pit, this may be the last non-inflammatory response you get, so please read it carefully. > > The point is, on a subject such as this, or any subject that would assume a behavior or trait of any particular group, requires strong evidence. You do not have strong evidence. If it were up to me, Internet based evidence would be weaker than anecdotal, but anyhow. You need strong evidence proving the contrary of what is normally accepted, for your own argument, and like I said, you do not have any. A few videos is not cutting it (pardon the pun). This is why you are getting flamed on here. You cannot attribute something to an entire group of people without considerable amounts of evidence. You refusing to provide any other evidence than those video links is why others are contemplating and trying to figure out if you have an angle or a bias or not, and if so, why you are using such weak evidence (if you can call it that) to substantiate your bias/claim. > > Sample sizes do not apply in this case, sample sizes need something concrete to base off of. > If you went to any sort of College and passed, I am surprised you don’t know this. Find a free online course in statistics and methods of writing hypotheses and citations and you will get the same answer, you do not have enough evidence to prove your claim, therefore it is acceptable for everyone else to believe what they want/the contrary to yours. Most men who’ve researched this topic perfectly agree with me, on women’s reactions to this crime I mean. You deny the fact, even when there’s endless videos upon videos of female audiences, crowds, news anchors, and show hosts doing the same exact thing, while there’s little to no women reacting in the opposite way. And you can go on any facebook page, on any twitter page, on any website, the women can be right-wing or liberal, it doesn’t matter. You’ll find the exact same thing all over. The fact is you’re demanding some peer-reviewed questionnaire about this topic, which you know is never gonna happen, and you think anything other than that cannot be discussed. That’s not how it works. People have the ability to see a pattern, and this case we see something that applies to most if not all women. ---
**Author:** ![Budget\_Player\_Cadet](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/budget_player_cadet/32/205_2.png) [@Budget\_Player\_Cadet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Budget_Player_Cadet)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 7:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/217 "2017-05-02T07:19:14Z")
Here, another less-inflammatory-than-you-can-expect response: you’re a sad tosser who may find that he’s going to end up pretty damn unhappy later in life if he keeps up this stupid bullshit. ---
**Author:** ![Kamino\_Neko](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kamino_neko/32/34_2.png) [@Kamino\_Neko](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kamino_Neko)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 7:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/218 "2017-05-02T07:25:21Z")
Later in life? This seems like the behaviour of someone who’s already seriously less than happy. ---
**Author:** ![Superdude](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/superdude/32/13450_2.png) [@Superdude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Superdude)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 7:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/219 "2017-05-02T07:49:24Z")
> [@Faylasouf](#): > > “Violence by women against men is regarded differently than violence by men against women” > You’re incorrectly assuming that ALL violence against men by women is taken as a joke. I challenge you to find me a single case of female-on-male MAIMING other than cutting off his genitals where women worldwide erupt in cheers, laughter, and high-fives. You can’t explain that. Why is it specifically the mutilation of the penis that makes them jubilant? I provided multiple links. Everyone in this thread ignored them. Also I’m betting many of these supposedly “penis-loving” women in this thread chuckled a bit and said “you go girl!” when they read the stories. The only explanation for this phenomenon is simple and obvious, women find that part of the body so utterly repulsive that the act of its permanent mutilation brings them immense joy. > > I don’t know about this new place my thread was moved, but it seems the moderator considers any viewpoints different from theirs as incoherent babble. Fair enough. Whatever you want. If you want to prevent anyone from discussing this valid subject that’s your choice, you’re the mod. First, the person to which you’re replying in this post never said that “all violence against men by women is taken as a joke,” just that it’s taken differently. That’s an important distinction. Second, regarding your challenge about maiming without cutting off genitals, I submit [Francine Hughes](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Francine_Hughes). You may not recognize the name. That’s okay; I had to look it up, too. But I knew the title of her book, and the movie telling her story. You might, also: _The Burning Bed._ After 13 years of spousal abuse, Francine killed her live-in ex-husband (he moved in to recover from a serious car accident, and never left) by dousing the bed with gasoline, and igniting it. She then drove straight to the police station with her children, and confessed. No genital mutilation. Aileen Wuornos was a female serial killer who supported herself by working as a prostitute. She killed 7 men. None had their genitals mutilated. ---
**Author:** ![Mijin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mijin/32/9369_2.png) [@Mijin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mijin)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2017, 7:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/220 "2017-05-02T07:57:34Z")
> [@Faylasouf](#): > > My SPECIFIC point was that they only cheered and laughed when it was the penis mutilated. I don’t know what the hell’s your problem, you’re deliberately misreading what I wrote or you’re so hellbent on picking a fight and you’re in such a rage you didn’t take the time to read it properly. Well my point was that if women are violent towards penises because they don’t like how they look, then why are they not violent about other body parts? Also, still no comment about orgasms? How can it be that women don’t enjoy sex when it’s a physiological fact that they do? BTW: Yes I am hellbent on picking a fight with a random person on the internet. See you in the car park of Shanghai Science Museum, 7pm on May 10th. Can’t make it? Then I guess you’re just chicken. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564.md?page=10) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564.md?page=12)