# Women find male genitals replusive, and most men don't even know it **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [April 30, 2017, 11:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564 "2017-04-30T11:25:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Not\_Carlson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/bc79bd/32.png) [@Not\_Carlson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Not_Carlson)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 4:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/61 "2017-04-30T16:54:40Z")
[My bolding.] > [@Faylasouf](#): > > First question you would ask is why then do women have sex with men? Well it’s a transaction. \*\*If a man gives her enough resources \*\*and emotional commitment, she will give him sex in return. **She’ll allow the penis to go inside her**. She doesn’t feel any attraction to it, she just knows it makes her man happy, and if he’s happy then she’s happy. > > Why is rape so horrible to women? It’s two-fold: > The first thing is that\*\* a woman expects to get something in return for sex\*\*, either an emotional bond or **something material**. During rape the man takes it for free, he gives her nothing. This is obviously very bad for her. > The second is the fact women find the penis repulsive. **In order to allow it inside her she first needs to psychologically cope with it** , she needs to think of it as a necessary part of an emotional bond no matter how disgusting she finds it. In rape there is no bond, **the penis going inside is as repulsive to her as a spider crawling around in your mouth**. Good grief. I can’t say what I want to say in this forum, but just, good grief. Good . . . grief! ---
**Author:** ![marshmallow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/df705f/32.png) [@marshmallow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/marshmallow)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/62 "2017-04-30T16:56:57Z")
The modern man doesn’t take below the belt beauty seriously enough. First you need to botox your balls [as smooth as eggs,](https://youtu.be/aUa6BhGRxNw) and then make sure [you can do a cock push up.](https://youtu.be/MSxJoPJFxOg) The penis is a muscle. Use it or lose it. More seriously, the OP’s red pill ideology aside, I think most would agree there’s a discrepancy between men’s and women’s sexual interest when it comes to genital imagery, and probably erotic imagery in general. One could come up with all sorts of evolutionary just so stories to explain why men need to be able to get aroused quickly, or point to socialization or threatening male behavior for why women wouldn’t be jumping at the chance to publicly share their admiration. I vaguely recall one study that directly measured physical arousal which showed that women are actually more perverted in the sense that most any visual pornography will physically arouse them, whether it’s straight, gay, lesbian, or even between animals (I think they used chimps or bonobos), whereas men tend to be non-responsive to media outside their preference. Does that sound familiar to anyone? I’m definitely not interested in searching for that one right now. Aside from his main point, the OP seems to deny female pleasure, which is odd given the $15+ billion dollar sex toy industry. ---
**Author:** ![Mijin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mijin/32/9369_2.png) [@Mijin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mijin)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 5:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/63 "2017-04-30T17:00:03Z")
Great OP > [@Faylasouf](#): > > First question you would ask is why then do women have sex with men? Well it’s a transaction. If a man gives her enough resources and emotional commitment, she will give him sex in return. She’ll allow the penis to go inside her. Do you think that the female orgasm is a real thing? ---
**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 5:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/64 "2017-04-30T17:08:24Z")
> [@JRDelirious](#): > > How do these people find this board? It’s as if ignorance were counterattacking. It’s taking longer than they thoughtless! ---
**Author:** ![E-DUB](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/e-dub/32/403_2.png) [@E-DUB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/E-DUB)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 5:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/65 "2017-04-30T17:09:12Z")
Let’s face it (so to speak). Neither the male nor the female reproductive parts were designed with aesthetics in mind. If the point of the OP is that men have adapted to this situation better than women, so be it. ---
**Author:** ![Kobal2](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kobal2/32/20_2.png) [@Kobal2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kobal2)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 5:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/66 "2017-04-30T17:16:54Z")
> [@Bill\_Door](#): > > **Faylasouf** , describe in single words. Only the good things that come to your mind. About your mother. What’s a tortoise ? ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Miskatonic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mr.miskatonic/32/310_2.png) [@Mr.Miskatonic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Miskatonic)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 5:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/67 "2017-04-30T17:29:21Z")
The OP is reading more and more like some redpiller production of Zardoz. ---
**Author:** ![jayjay](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jayjay/32/6765_2.png) [@jayjay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jayjay)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/68 "2017-04-30T17:59:18Z")
> [@PatriotGrrrl](#): > > Band name! Still doesn’t beat that Doper classic: Penis Ensues. ---
**Author:** ![Trinopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Trinopus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trinopus)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/69 "2017-04-30T18:08:57Z")
> [@E-DUB](#): > > Let’s face it (so to speak). Neither the male nor the female reproductive parts were designed with aesthetics in mind. If the point of the OP is that men have adapted to this situation better than women, so be it. That was my thought, too: genitals are kinda ugly, no matter whose! One of the whimsical euphemisms for sex is “rubbing uglies.” ---
**Author:** ![CarnalK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnalk/32/486_2.png) [@CarnalK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarnalK)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/70 "2017-04-30T18:18:51Z")
Faylasouf, you are only referring to uncircumcised genitalia being repulsive, right? ---
**Author:** ![Tee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@Tee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tee)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 6:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/71 "2017-04-30T18:45:03Z")
Had to stop by and voice my dissent that women find male genitals repulsive. Also to whoever organizes Penis Week on the SDMB, I feel like too many of us were not prepared. ---
**Author:** ![raventhief](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/raventhief/32/4_2.png) [@raventhief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/raventhief)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 6:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/72 "2017-04-30T18:52:02Z")
> [@Tee](#): > > Had to stop by and voice my dissent that women find male genitals repulsive. > > Also to whoever organizes Penis Week on the SDMB, I feel like too many of us were not prepared. I think it’s supposed to be Unexpected Penis Week. ---
**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/73 "2017-04-30T19:33:38Z")
> [@Faylasouf](#): > > I think men greatly underestimate the amount of disgust women feel towards this part of the male anatomy. > > First question you would ask is why then do women have sex with men? Well it’s a transaction. If a man gives her enough resources and emotional commitment, she will give him sex in return. She’ll allow the penis to go inside her. She doesn’t feel any attraction to it, she just knows it makes her man happy, and if he’s happy then she’s happy. > > Why is rape so horrible to women? It’s two-fold: > The first thing is that a woman expects to get something in return for sex, either an emotional bond or something material. During rape the man takes it for free, he gives her nothing. This is obviously very bad for her. > The second is the fact women find the penis repulsive. In order to allow it inside her she first needs to psychologically cope with it, she needs to think of it as a necessary part of an emotional bond no matter how disgusting she finds it. In rape there is no bond, the penis going inside is as repulsive to her as a spider crawling around in your mouth. > > But without a doubt, the most obvious example is when we hear of those high-profile cases of women cutting off a man’s penis. The vast majority of women erupt in ecstatic cheers and happiness regardless of their political stances. If a woman had maimed a man in any other way, like chopped off his fingers or bit off his lip, most women would either condemn it or they wouldn’t care. But when it’s this particular part of the male she maims, women around the world love it and call her a heroine. “Good on her! That’s so awesome! More women should do it!”. If this doesn’t show the real amount of disgust and revulsion women have towards the male genitals then nothing does. > > The problem is most men don’t want to believe this. They don’t want to believe the object of their desires has such a lowly view of them, that their immense attraction to women is not reciprocated. So they’ll deny it, or they don’t want to think about it. They’ll give replies like “You don’t know women”, or “It’s just your penis that’s ugly. Women love mine”, no matter how much evidence you show them. The sad part is there are men who think that this is why women won’t have sex with them, when it’s because they think like this that women won’t have sex with them. ---
**Author:** ![voltaire](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/voltaire/32/313_2.png) [@voltaire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/voltaire)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 7:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/74 "2017-04-30T19:42:05Z")
> [@raventhief](#): > > I think it’s supposed to be Unexpected Penis Week. Nobody expects the Penis Inquisition! ---
**Author:** ![Weisshund](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba8739/32.png) [@Weisshund](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weisshund)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 7:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/75 "2017-04-30T19:43:28Z")
If this is true, then why are so many female “toys” modeled after the real thing? Some strange sickness where they cant help but spending their money to buy the ugly and repulsive forever cast in plastic and silicone? Somehow i do not think you would find a world majority of anyone that finds the human anatomy all that repulsive in general. ---
**Author:** ![JackieLikesVariety](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackielikesvariety/32/296_2.png) [@JackieLikesVariety](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JackieLikesVariety)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/76 "2017-04-30T19:53:20Z")
> [@Acsenray](#): > > Clearly, we are supposed to hate women for being whores and thus feel free to manipulate them and take advantage of them and disregard their concerns. this seems to be the OP’s point, near as I can tell ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 8:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/77 "2017-04-30T20:04:07Z")
I’ve been reading this and wondering how to respond, but I just can’t. The OP is just so ridiculous that it’s not even worthy of a response. Like ladies don’t enjoy sex or something? That’s certainly news to me! Sent from my XT1635-02 using Tapatalk ---
**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/78 "2017-04-30T20:08:09Z")
Thankfully, I’ve been lucky enough to have many women “psychologically cope” over the course of a first date. Or maybe it’s just a pretty one? ---
**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 8:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/79 "2017-04-30T20:09:17Z")
> [@Kobal2](#): > > What’s a tortoise ? Clit, he’s the bald guy in the canoe. ---
**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2017, 8:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564/80 "2017-04-30T20:15:33Z")
> [@Kobal2](#): > > What’s a tortoise ? It’s like a turtle. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G930A using Tapatalk [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564.md?page=3) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-find-male-genitals-replusive-and-most-men-dont-even-know-it/785564.md?page=5)