# Women: how large should men's penises be?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 1, 2017, 2:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500 "2017-04-01T14:40:34Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2018, 3:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/81 "2018-01-29T03:44:13Z")

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> [@BobBitchin](#):
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> Probably because we spend more time lookin at it, than using it.🆒
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> You know who could change that? WOMEN!!!😃  
> If a single guy works all week for date money, he may get sex on the weekend. Once a week for a few minutes? Like a few hundred minutes a year.😕
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> I’m an average guitar player. Do you have any idea how many hours a day/week it took me to become just OK?:p:D

I thought guitar players got laid a lot. 😕

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2018, 4:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/82 "2018-01-29T04:31:16Z")

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He’s not plucking the right strings.

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**Author:** ![BobBitchin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ea924/32.png) [@BobBitchin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BobBitchin)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2018, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/83 "2018-01-29T06:04:42Z")

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> [@Siam\_Sam](#):
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> I thought guitar players got laid a lot. 😕

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> He’s not plucking the right strings.

Ouch!😃

Pickers make slicker lickers, but drummers just beat off.:eek:

Actually it helped alot…but you’re thinking of RICH or HANDSOME guitar players.🆒

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**Author:** ![Mavic\_Chen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e56c9b/32.png) [@Mavic\_Chen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mavic_Chen)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2018, 1:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/84 "2018-01-29T13:47:23Z")

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> [@Blue\_Blistering\_Barnacle](#):
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> more science:
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> describes mri of missionary and rear penetration
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> also discusses previous efforts
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> There is a common theme of the penis usually going into the vaginal fornices (arches), either anterior or posterior to the cervix, depending on methodology. The mri study had the penis in the anterior fornix for missionary and posterior fornix for rear-entry. I’m afraid I may be overquoting a bit here, so I only post the second (missionary) and third (rear) runs; the first run was a “dry run”, to demonstrate the undisturbed anatomy. They do show significant vaginal stretching to accommodate the penis.
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> [[PDF] Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) of Sexual Intercourse: Second Experience in Missionary Position and Initial Experience in Posterior Position | Semantic Scholar](https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/2047/9b249830ac30431a8176cdfed86f01caf339.pdf)

It amused me to see some of the pictures in the article are credited to a Dr Zwang.

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**Author:** ![Lumpy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lumpy/32/446_2.png) [@Lumpy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lumpy)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2018, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/85 "2018-01-29T18:33:06Z")

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> [@Ulfreida](#):
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> Here’s a slightly more interesting question: why are men so much more interested in what their dicks look like than how to use them properly?

Because men fantasize about being effortlessly attractive to women, one of those James Bond types who could get laid any night of the year. Since they picture this in terms of being the converse of the typical male attraction to females i.e., having a hot bod, they presume that a generously-sized penis would do it.

(Actually it’s not as much looks as having the right pheromones, but that’s another topic).

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**Author:** ![Doctor\_Jackson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doctor_jackson/32/32_2.png) [@Doctor\_Jackson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doctor_Jackson)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2018, 8:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/86 "2018-01-29T20:11:22Z")

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> [@BobBitchin](#):
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> If a single guy works all week for date money, he may get sex on the weekend. Once a week for a few minutes? Like a few hundred minutes a year.😕
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> I’m an average guitar player. Do you have any idea how many hours a day/week it took me to become just OK?:p:D

Tru dat. The rule of 10,000 says that in order to become “world class” at anything, one must accomplish 10,000 hours of deliberate practice. Given the average male, that would take, oh, 60,000 sexual experiences, or once a day for 164.4 years!

:eek:😃

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**Author:** ![madsircool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madsircool/32/3432_2.png) [@madsircool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madsircool)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2018, 10:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/87 "2018-01-29T22:22:44Z")

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If masturbation counts in already a sex expert. 😛

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**Author:** ![begbert2](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/begbert2/32/3357_2.png) [@begbert2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/begbert2)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2018, 11:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/88 "2018-01-29T23:54:00Z")

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> [@Ulfreida](#):
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> Here’s a slightly more interesting question: why are men so much more interested in what their dicks look like than how to use them properly?

Men fear getting a bad ‘review’ about their dick presentation prior to sex. After sex they’re too busy falling asleep/smoking a cigarette/avoiding cuddling to notice or care about reviews at that point.

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**Author:** ![Broomstick](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/broomstick/32/246_2.png) [@Broomstick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Broomstick)\
**Post date:** [January 30, 2018, 12:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/89 "2018-01-30T00:38:26Z")

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> [@Lumpy](#):
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> So what’s your opinion on how such a miracle of science be handled?

I see no need for it. Men’s penises do the job just fine as they are.

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**Author:** ![BobBitchin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ea924/32.png) [@BobBitchin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BobBitchin)\
**Post date:** [January 30, 2018, 4:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-how-large-should-mens-penises-be/783500/90 "2018-01-30T04:11:50Z")

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> [@Doctor\_Jackson](#):
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> Tru dat. The rule of 10,000 says that in order to become “world class” at anything, one must accomplish 10,000 hours of deliberate practice. Given the average male, that would take, oh, 60,000 sexual experiences, or once a day for 164.4 years!
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> :eek:😃

Yep, musicians have a 10 to 1 rule…  
10 hours of prep for every hour on stage.

> [@madsircool](#):
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> If masturbation counts in already a sex expert. 😛

Dude? I didn’t know you were a drummer:p:D

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