Men die earlier for several reasons we know of, and probably many more we don’t.
First, male babies die more. This is true even before they’re born, and continues into childhood. They’re simply more “delicate”, biologically speaking, and we don’t know why. So go be outraged at Mother Nature. She’s a bitch. But that brings your gender divided life expectancy down for males.
Second, testosterone is hard on the heart and arteries. We think this is why men have greater rates of heart disease when you factor out job stress and smoking and other lifestyle factors. This is also why heart disease is something we’re seeing more of in older women. Now that women aren’t dying all willy nilly in childbirth, more of them are getting old enough to live years after menopause. Without all that estrogen, they start to feel the ill effects of testosterone on their heart and arteries. So, again, take it up with that bitch, Mother Nature.
Third, lifestyle factors, already mentioned. Men tend to be more risk takers and with risk taking often comes injury and death. Men are more likely to abuse alcohol and cigarettes. Outside of farms and factories, men are more likely to have sedentary desk jobs, and women jobs where they’re on their feet and moving during the day. Women, even those who work the same hours outside the home as their husbands, do more of the housework, which is exercise. Men tend to have crappier diets, and are less likely to cook healthy foods and home, more likely to use restaurants or prepared foods than women, and more likely to prepare and eat smoked, grilled and high fat meats than vegetables. So take it up with Men.
Fourth, avoidance. Men are more prone to avoiding going to the doctor, putting off or completely ignoring preventative care, and are better at denying failing health when it happens. This is believed to be one reason why married men live longer than unmarried men - their wives nag them into going to the doctor (as well as eating better and exercising more.) So, again, take it up with Men.
The one group of people who you really don’t have a leg to stand on playing the blame game is medical researchers. They’re all over men’s health issues, and have historically gone too far into assuming “people” means “men” and extrapolating research on men’s bodies to applying to women’s (and children’s) bodies when we now know you can’t do that.
But it is indeed true that the long standing gender bias against women in health care is not so much a thing now. In fact, even when we exclude pregnancy related health care, women receive more health care dollars, more tests, more care than men facing a similar health crisis. Why? Because they seek it out.
We’ve done a great job at raising awareness of “women’s” issues and “women’s health”. We can certainly do the same for men, and should. But it’s not about a lack of research or lack of trying to get men to get healthcare, it’s because we haven’t figured out a way to motivate men themselves to care for themselves, and seek care for themselves. So don’t blame me. Blame men. (And then let’s stop blaming and try to fix it, okay?)