# Women living in the United States, would you date an uncircumcised man?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [September 28, 2015, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783 "2015-09-28T01:34:53Z")\
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**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\
**Post date:** [September 29, 2015, 7:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/41 "2015-09-29T19:43:38Z")

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[Slight Hijack]

Ladies, if any one of you want to borrow my chainsaw… all I ask is that you clean and oil the chain afterwards and to bring it back with a full tank of gas.

You’re Welcome…! 😃

[/Slight Hijack]

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**Author:** ![GrumpyBunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bc8723/32.png) [@GrumpyBunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrumpyBunny)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 12:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/42 "2015-09-30T00:46:47Z")

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> [@Broomstick](#):
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> ^ Add me to this list. I really don’t give a damn.

^ Me, too. (Also the list of people too lazy to multi-quote. 🙂 )

I had a LTR with a British guy; he was not circumcised. Other than the visual difference, it works the same, so I don’t care.

ETA: said British guy was pretty cool about my “snake in a sweater” comment when I first saw his John Thomas.

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**Author:** ![MoonMoon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/moonmoon/32/2959_2.png) [@MoonMoon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MoonMoon)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 3:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/43 "2015-09-30T03:28:22Z")

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I’ve never seen one (yes, I’m sure). That said – size matters, I’m pretty sure foreskin doesn’t.

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/44 "2015-09-30T03:36:17Z")

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“No, had no face, no personality, very dull. It was like a martian. But hey, that’s me.”

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**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 5:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/45 "2015-09-30T05:01:02Z")

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I’m still not sure why mutilation should be the default standard in the US, and leaving the damned thing alone should be considered abnormal. Weird.

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**Author:** ![Broomstick](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/broomstick/32/246_2.png) [@Broomstick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Broomstick)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 10:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/46 "2015-09-30T10:40:30Z")

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Well, circumcision is no longer the _automatic_ default (rates have dropped from the high 90’s to nearly 50% in just one generation) we didn’t summarily execute older, grown men who had already had this done. As a result, something like 80% of American men are cut. Thus, in the context of American society being circumcised is the \*statistical \* norm and thus “normal”. Generations have grown up, lived, and died without ever seeing an unaltered penis in the flesh although thanks to the internet I think the “never seen an uncut dick, ever” is a thing of the past for most of us.

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**Author:** ![bienville](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4bbf92/32.png) [@bienville](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bienville)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 12:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/47 "2015-09-30T12:28:01Z")

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> [@Leaffan](#):
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> If this is a deal breaker for you then I don’t want to date you either, unless it was a religious imperative.

This makes no sense to me.

You’d dismissively write off someone because they have an aesthetic preference for an uncircumcised penis…  
but  
…you’d still have respect for someone who told you her preference for an uncircumcised penis was dictated by a cloud dwelling pink unicorn?  
We excuse way too much stupidity in this world just because the stupidity is preceded by “God told me…”.

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**Author:** ![apollonia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/2bfe46/32.png) [@apollonia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/apollonia)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 12:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/48 "2015-09-30T12:45:35Z")

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I’m married now, but I’m under thirty, grew up in North America, and have never seen a circumcised dick in real life. By luck I’ve dated only uncircumcised guys. This is not as unusual as some seem to think.

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**Author:** ![Maastricht](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e57/32.png) [@Maastricht](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maastricht)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 1:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/49 "2015-09-30T13:26:43Z")

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European woman here. I’ve got normal experience with uncirc’s, limited experience with circ’d. I couldn’t really tell the difference. Penises are already so different in size, color and shape, some are growers when erect, some not…circumsized or not, is really not that much of a difference.

When I see them on pictures, like here ([Warning, NSFW Wikipedia picture of two penises](https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Circumcised_and_uncircumcised_penis.jpg)) i think the circ’d one looks a bit more like a statue’s, but it also looks…more painful, less protected, in a way.

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**Author:** ![Maastricht](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e57/32.png) [@Maastricht](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maastricht)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/50 "2015-09-30T13:28:58Z")

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wait…is that why circumsized men need handlotion for jacking off? Uncut men don’t need to use lotion, the skin gives enough room.

…wait, is cutting men all an consipracy to sell more handlotion? :dubious:

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**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 1:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/51 "2015-09-30T13:53:43Z")

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> [@Maastricht](#):
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> European woman here. I’ve got normal experience with uncirc’s, limited experience with circ’d. I couldn’t really tell the difference. Penises are already so different in size, color and shape, some are growers when erect, some not…circumsized or not, is really not that much of a difference.
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> When I see them on pictures, like here ([Warning, NSFW Wikipedia picture of two penises](https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Circumcised_and_uncircumcised_penis.jpg)) i think the circ’d one looks a bit more like a statue’s, but it also looks…more painful, less protected, in a way.

Believe her when she says NSFW people! I clicked on it and my screen was filled with dick:p No worries here but if you have anyone anywhere near you it could attract attention. Tis a shame that once again a picture of the human anatomy, especially when it’s not being displayed in sexual context, should be taboo but there you go.

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 3:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/52 "2015-09-30T15:14:50Z")

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> [@Maastricht](#):
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> wait…is that why circumsized men need handlotion for jacking off? Uncut men don’t need to use lotion, the skin gives enough room.
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> …wait, is cutting men all an consipracy to sell more handlotion? :dubious:

I think it was partly a conspiracy to prevent men from masturbating.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/53 "2015-09-30T15:23:26Z")

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> [@puzzlegal](#):
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> I think it was partly a conspiracy to prevent men from masturbating.

Ha! Good luck with that!

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/54 "2015-09-30T16:09:59Z")

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> [@WOOKINPANUB](#):
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> Believe her when she says NSFW people! I clicked on it and my screen was filled with dick:p No worries here but if you have anyone anywhere near you it could attract attention. Tis a shame that once again a picture of the human anatomy, especially when it’s not being displayed in sexual context, should be taboo but there you go.

I wasn’t gonna click that link because, yanno, been there and done that. But that was such a fabulous description, it made it much more enticing to check it out. Thanks for the head’s (heh) up. 😛

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**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/55 "2015-09-30T21:15:04Z")

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I just want to know how it happened that the two guys have such well-matched nutsacks.

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**Author:** ![DigitalC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ebca7d/32.png) [@DigitalC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DigitalC)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/56 "2015-09-30T22:37:15Z")

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> [@Green\_Bean](#):
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> I just want to know how it happened that the two guys have such well-matched nutsacks.

Somehow that has to be the same guy.

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**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 10:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/57 "2015-09-30T22:52:00Z")

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I would not date any man.

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**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 11:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/58 "2015-09-30T23:16:27Z")

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I would and I have. I didn’t notice any real difference. I always hear about how circ’d are cleaner but my Mig had no problem keeping it all nice and fresh.

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**Author:** ![elfkin477](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a9a28c/32.png) [@elfkin477](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elfkin477)\
**Post date:** [September 30, 2015, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/59 "2015-09-30T23:26:41Z")

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> [@R3d\_Anonymous](#):
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> How can this above scenario be avoided? How can the man “weed out” this type of woman earlier on?

Well, first you ask her opinion of turtleneck shirts…

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**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-living-in-the-united-states-would-you-date-an-uncircumcised-man/732783/60 "2015-10-01T16:17:19Z")

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> [@Rushgeekgirl](#):
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> I would and I have. I didn’t notice any real difference. I always hear about how circ’d are cleaner but my Mig had no problem keeping it all nice and fresh.

Cleaner is not the right word, “easier to keep clean” is more accurate. That just means you put in a little extra effort, not that you have to be dirtier.

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