# Women of the Dope: Have You (at Least) Made Out with Another Woman? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [April 9, 2012, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265 "2012-04-09T16:01:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Musicat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/musicat/32/20189_2.png) [@Musicat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Musicat)\ **Post date:** [August 28, 2013, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/41 "2013-08-28T23:58:00Z")
I once asked a gf of mine, who had roomed with girls for years during college and after, if she ever had an affair (of any kind) with any of her roommates. She was appalled that I would ever suggest that, so appalled that she mentioned my question to her psychology professor. He came to the glorious conclusion that the real reason I had asked that question was I was exhibiting latent homosexual tenancies of my own. Extremely wrong, as shown by 40 years of purely heterosexual relationships since. I wonder what other bullshit that professor fed her? ---
**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/42 "2013-08-29T02:29:50Z")
> [@Musicat](#): > > I once asked a gf of mine, who had roomed with girls for years during college and after, if she ever had an affair (of any kind) with any of her roommates. She was appalled that I would ever suggest that, so appalled that she mentioned my question to her psychology professor. He came to the glorious conclusion that the real reason I had asked that question was I was exhibiting latent homosexual tenancies of my own. > > Extremely wrong, as shown by 40 years of purely heterosexual relationships since. I wonder what other bullshit that professor fed her? I’m a straight guy, and 11 out of 12 of the women I’ve been with have been bisexual. So I suppose I just assume that most women are. ---
**Author:** ![Musicat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/musicat/32/20189_2.png) [@Musicat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Musicat)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 2:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/43 "2013-08-29T02:35:23Z")
> [@gaffa](#): > > I’m a straight guy, and 11 out of 12 of the women I’ve been with have been bisexual. So I suppose I just assume that most women are. While that may or may not be true, that thought seems to reinforce a typical male stereotype. ---
**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/44 "2013-08-29T05:31:04Z")
> [@Musicat](#): > > While that may or may not be true, that thought seems to reinforce a typical male stereotype. Huh? I am not lying about this. 11 of the 12 women I’ve had relationships with have told me about previous relationships with women. I’ve no idea that it is some sort of stereotype. ---
**Author:** ![one\_red\_shoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/54ee81/32.png) [@one\_red\_shoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/one_red_shoe)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 12:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/45 "2013-08-29T12:40:20Z")
Born before 1980. I enjoy the occasional woman / woman escapade. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/46 "2013-08-29T13:46:37Z")
> [@gaffa](#): > > Huh? I am not lying about this. 11 of the 12 women I’ve had relationships with have told me about previous relationships with women. I’ve no idea that it is some sort of stereotype. No the stereotype comes in this part, not in the first part: “So I suppose I just assume that most women are.” We believe that 11 out of 12 of the women in your past have told you that. We just think the extrapolation is a bit of a stereotype, though. As I said earlier, I’m almost 40 now and have never been in a relationship with a woman. I have been very fond of women, and even loved some of them, but whenever I think of the details of a sexual relationship, it’s a turn-off. ---
**Author:** ![Musicat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/musicat/32/20189_2.png) [@Musicat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Musicat)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/47 "2013-08-29T14:05:50Z")
> [@gaffa](#): > > Huh? I am not lying about this. 11 of the 12 women I’ve had relationships with have told me about previous relationships with women. I’ve no idea that it is some sort of stereotype. The stereotype I was referring to was the common male fantasy of girl-on-girl action. Two for the price of one! ---
**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/48 "2013-08-29T15:34:48Z")
> [@Musicat](#): > > The stereotype I was referring to was the common male fantasy of girl-on-girl action. Two for the price of one! The weird part is that I have never been with two women at the same time. My only 3-way was with another man and his girlfriend. And I’m honest enough to know that is the only type that makes much sense, given the relative capabilities of men and women. ---
**Author:** ![Uber\_the\_Goober](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/58956e/32.png) [@Uber\_the\_Goober](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Uber_the_Goober)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/49 "2013-08-29T16:46:41Z")
Whores. 😃 J/K ---
**Author:** ![StusBlues](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@StusBlues](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StusBlues)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/50 "2013-08-29T19:38:33Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > As I said earlier, I’m almost 40 now and have never been in a relationship with a woman. I have been very fond of women, and even loved some of them, but whenever I think of the details of a sexual relationship, it’s a turn-off. Perhaps you’re over-thinking? ---
**Author:** ![Penny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8baadc/32.png) [@Penny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Penny)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2013, 11:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265/51 "2013-08-29T23:48:30Z")
I was born before 1980 and have had a few hot sexual encounters with women both with men and without. Good times! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-of-the-dope-have-you-at-least-made-out-with-another-woman/618265.md?page=2)