# Women \*sigh\*

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [December 8, 2015, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771 "2015-12-08T02:21:57Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 18\
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**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2016, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/61 "2016-04-18T21:34:24Z")

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Do you have a namesake who is a nasty piece of work?

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**Author:** ![Lamar\_Mundane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85f322/32.png) [@Lamar\_Mundane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamar_Mundane)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2016, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/62 "2016-04-18T22:37:58Z")

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> [@Quartz](#):
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> Do you have a namesake who is a nasty piece of work?

There’s this dude in New Zealand. Also (Googling) a professor at the U of Washington. Don’t know of their personal predelictions. I have my doubts about the Kiwi though…

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**Author:** ![Try2B\_Comprehensive](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/try2b_comprehensive/32/65_2.png) [@Try2B\_Comprehensive](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Try2B_Comprehensive)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/63 "2016-04-19T03:58:47Z")

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What can you describe about “the biggest shitstorm in history?”

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**Author:** ![John\_DiFool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_difool/32/19543_2.png) [@John\_DiFool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_DiFool)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 11:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/64 "2016-04-19T11:42:14Z")

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Yes, post #60 appears to have been made after the imbibing of several containers of alcohol…

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 5:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/65 "2016-04-19T17:24:10Z")

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One line of advice: enjoy the process. Don’t make dating a means to an end.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/66 "2016-04-19T19:30:49Z")

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> [@John\_DiFool](#):
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> Yes, post #60 appears to have been made after the imbibing of several containers of alcohol…

Perhaps a glimpse of the underlying issue with OP’s dating troubles?

> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> One line of advice: enjoy the process. Don’t make dating a means to an end.

Isn’t that usually the point of dating?.. a means to an end.

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**Author:** ![Lamar\_Mundane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85f322/32.png) [@Lamar\_Mundane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamar_Mundane)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 8:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/67 "2016-04-19T20:18:33Z")

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> [@John\_DiFool](#):
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> Yes, post #60 appears to have been made after the imbibing of several containers of alcohol…

I’ve been around here for fifteen f’ing years. I don’t post too much, but you’d be hard pressed to find a long-termer who would say that I’m a liar or exaggerator or a drunk. OK, maybe the last one, but not the first two.

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 8:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/68 "2016-04-19T20:18:37Z")

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> Isn’t that usually the point of dating?.. a means to an end.

It is for some people, but that makes dating _itself_ into a chore. It should be its own reward. Consider it like going dancing. To some people, it’s a means to an end: they go dancing to meet potential dates. Other people enjoy dancing for its own sake, and that’s as it should be (IMHO).

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**Author:** ![Try2B\_Comprehensive](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/try2b_comprehensive/32/65_2.png) [@Try2B\_Comprehensive](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Try2B_Comprehensive)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 8:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/69 "2016-04-19T20:24:59Z")

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Hey, I’m not accusing you of anything, **Lamar** , except maybe providing insufficient information…

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**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 9:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/70 "2016-04-19T21:10:42Z")

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> [@Try2B\_Comprehensive](#):
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> Hey, I’m not accusing you of anything, **Lamar** , except maybe providing insufficient information…

As noted above, he doesn’t know what he’s supposed to have said or done.

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**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\
**Post date:** [April 19, 2016, 9:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/71 "2016-04-19T21:41:20Z")

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How would the person he hasn’t talked to in a decade have even heard of it?

I’m kind of dying to know what happened.

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**Author:** ![China\_Guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/779978/32.png) [@China\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/China_Guy)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2016, 5:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/72 "2016-04-20T05:33:37Z")

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Yep, me too. Lamar Mundane, you have us hooked on the soap opera that is now your life. Please share the gory details. If you don’t know the why, at least the WTF happened. 😉

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**Author:** ![Cabin\_Fever\_1](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cabin_fever_1/32/2908_2.png) [@Cabin\_Fever\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cabin_Fever_1)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2016, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/73 "2016-04-20T06:23:08Z")

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> [@Lamar\_Mundane](#):
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> This may not have been a good idea…

I got to this post. And I laughed out loud. Probably not a good idea either on my part. Don’t mess with the ladies as they will cut you for chopped liver. 😃

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**Author:** ![Cabin\_Fever\_1](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cabin_fever_1/32/2908_2.png) [@Cabin\_Fever\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cabin_Fever_1)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2016, 6:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/74 "2016-04-20T06:39:44Z")

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> [@John\_DiFool](#):
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> Yes, post #60 appears to have been made after the imbibing of several containers of alcohol…

Oh yes. Been there. Wimmen, love  
em.  
Recently. As in yesterday.  
I can show you numerous examples of myself and drowning my sorrows here. But cut him some slack … it is only Tuesday after all.  
Or is it Wednesday already?  
It is why they invented the blues…

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**Author:** ![Cabin\_Fever\_1](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cabin_fever_1/32/2908_2.png) [@Cabin\_Fever\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cabin_Fever_1)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2016, 6:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/75 "2016-04-20T06:57:52Z")

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Maybe this will help.

[![](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/0rHKdaLfIew/maxresdefault.jpg?sqp=-oaymwEmCIAKENAF8quKqQMa8AEB-AH-CYAC0AWKAgwIABABGGUgUihBMA8=&rs=AOn4CLB4c7lt1c-tfirOqcNHbvJ2HPftIw "Hugh Laurie - Louisiana Blues") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rHKdaLfIew)

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**Author:** ![bucketybuck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/898d66/32.png) [@bucketybuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bucketybuck)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2016, 7:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/76 "2016-04-20T07:23:05Z")

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> [@Quartz](#):
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> As noted above, he doesn’t know what he’s supposed to have said or done.

His post could have come direct from one of those needy Facebook status’ though, you know the type…

“omg I can’t believe this has happened”  
“U ok hun?”  
“Aww you wee angle stay strong luv”  
“So what actually happened?”  
“I can’t say…”

Even if he doesn’t know what he is supposed to have specifically done a little bit of context would have gone a long way.

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**Author:** ![Cabin\_Fever\_1](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cabin_fever_1/32/2908_2.png) [@Cabin\_Fever\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cabin_Fever_1)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2016, 10:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/77 "2016-04-20T10:01:58Z")

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It suddenly presented itself that this was a year-old OP. My apologies.:smack:

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**Author:** ![Belowjob2.0](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Belowjob2.0](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Belowjob2.0)\
**Post date:** [April 21, 2016, 2:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-sigh/739771/78 "2016-04-21T02:54:31Z")

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> [@Cabin\_Fever](#):
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> Oh yes. Been there. Wimmen, love  
> em.  
> Recently. As in yesterday.  
> I can show you numerous examples of myself and drowning my sorrows here. But cut him some slack … it is only Tuesday after all.  
> Or is it Wednesday already?  
> It is why they invented the blues…

[https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/phi/1755781713.html?lang=en&cc=us](https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/phi/1755781713.html?lang=en&cc=us)

> [@](#):
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> P.S. - And I’ve gotten with hot chicks as recently as just now.

😃

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