# Women who hate having their breast fondled
**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [April 2, 2004, 12:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890 "2004-04-02T12:38:37Z")
**Posts on this page:** 11
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### Author:  [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)
#### Post date: [July 9, 2012, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/62 "2012-07-09T21:11:23Z")
> [@Ellen\_Cherry](#):
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> **dukduk** , welcome to the Straight Dope. While frank conversation is frequent and welcomed, we do strive for some level of decorum.
And hearing stories about zombie breasts - well, that just crosses a line.
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### Author:  [@Dogzilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dogzilla)
#### Post date: [July 9, 2012, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/63 "2012-07-09T21:15:30Z")
I’ll just check in to represent for the small boobs. I can almost barely fill out my A-cups. I attract leg men and butt men. Boob men do not even look at me.
This does not mean I don’t like a bit of boob stimulation. In fact, I like it quite a lot. But I never get it. Because guys see my little pancakes and probably think, “meh, why bother?”
BECAUSE IT TURNS ME ON, THAT’S WHY!
Might I recommend the following: When you’re with someone new for the first time, I dunno, try _asking_. “Do you like boob stimulation or not so much?” Please do not assume, just because they are not quite a mouthful, that they aren’t sensitive. (And, yes, I usually have to ask, “Um, could you suck on the nips a sec please?” I have one inverted nipple, so I invite boob play by challenging my partner to see if he can get the innie to turn outie. ;))
I have a theory that we all have the same number of nerve endings in our boobs, only in bigger boobs, those nerve endings are spread out. In smaller boobs, they are closer together. Therefore, small boobs = sensitive and large boobs = not quite as sensitive. YMMV given the time of the month etc. This thread mostly kind of supports my theory, although I believe I’m the first to own up to being an A-cup.
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### Author:  [@manila](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/manila)
#### Post date: [July 10, 2012, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/64 "2012-07-10T02:10:18Z")
Who’s breasts did the OP fondle to get banned?
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### Author:  [@kanicbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kanicbird)
#### Post date: [July 10, 2012, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/65 "2012-07-10T02:46:58Z")
> [@Dogzilla](#):
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> I’ll just check in to represent for the small boobs. I can almost barely fill out my A-cups. I attract leg men and butt men. Boob men do not even look at me.
>
> This does not mean I don’t like a bit of boob stimulation. In fact, I like it quite a lot. But I never get it. Because guys see my little pancakes and probably think, “meh, why bother?”
>
> BECAUSE IT TURNS ME ON, THAT’S WHY!
>
> Might I recommend the following: When you’re with someone new for the first time, I dunno, try _asking_. “Do you like boob stimulation or not so much?” Please do not assume, just because they are not quite a mouthful, that they aren’t sensitive. (And, yes, I usually have to ask, “Um, could you suck on the nips a sec please?” I have one inverted nipple, so I invite boob play by challenging my partner to see if he can get the innie to turn outie. ;))
>
> I have a theory that we all have the same number of nerve endings in our boobs, only in bigger boobs, those nerve endings are spread out. In smaller boobs, they are closer together. Therefore, small boobs = sensitive and large boobs = not quite as sensitive. YMMV given the time of the month etc. This thread mostly kind of supports my theory, although I believe I’m the first to own up to being an A-cup.
Just to add to this I was with a g/f with such small boobs and yes she loved them being played with and sucked on. It was me that initiated it, I don’t think she would have pointed out her desire on her own, but she (and I) was very glad I went there.
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### Author:  [@Rick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rick)
#### Post date: [July 10, 2012, 3:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/66 "2012-07-10T03:02:45Z")
> [@Dogzilla](#):
>
> I’ll just check in to represent for the small boobs. I can almost barely fill out my A-cups. I attract leg men and butt men. Boob men do not even look at me.
>
> This does not mean I don’t like a bit of boob stimulation. In fact, I like it quite a lot. But I never get it. Because guys see my little pancakes and probably think, “meh, why bother?”
>
> BECAUSE IT TURNS ME ON, THAT’S WHY!
>
> Might I recommend the following: When you’re with someone new for the first time, I dunno, try _asking_. “Do you like boob stimulation or not so much?” Please do not assume, just because they are not quite a mouthful, that they aren’t sensitive. (And, yes, I usually have to ask, “Um, could you suck on the nips a sec please?” I have one inverted nipple, so I invite boob play by challenging my partner to see if he can get the innie to turn outie. ;))
>
> I have a theory that we all have the same number of nerve endings in our boobs, only in bigger boobs, those nerve endings are spread out. In smaller boobs, they are closer together. Therefore, small boobs = sensitive and large boobs = not quite as sensitive. YMMV given the time of the month etc. This thread mostly kind of supports my theory, although I believe I’m the first to own up to being an A-cup.
I would like to point out that the owner of the most perfect breasts in the world is what ever lady I happen to be in bed with. I will worship those breasts anyway the lady in question likes, and as much as she likes.
So, ah how you doin? 😉
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### Author:  [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)
#### Post date: [July 10, 2012, 3:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/67 "2012-07-10T03:33:35Z")
> [@Ellen\_Cherry](#):
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> **dukduk** , welcome to the Straight Dope. While frank conversation is frequent and welcomed, we do strive for some level of decorum. Therefore, you may wish to adopt a less Penthouse-ian tone to your posts. In reading our rules and etiquette guidelines, you’ll note that [it’s frowned upon](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=7696990&postcount=5):
> [@](#):
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> Sex: The medical approach is OK, the Penthouse approach is not. If you’re not sure, err on the side of caution and/or **contact a staff member** before you post.
Heh, heh, heh.
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### Author:  [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)
#### Post date: [July 10, 2012, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/68 "2012-07-10T04:26:02Z")
At certain times of the month my breasts can be more sensitive than others. Sometimes even too sensitive. When the latter happens, don’t show yourself within 10 feet of them. However, at the other sensitive stage, fondling is a very good thing. At other times, fondling just gets boring.
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### Author:  [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)
#### Post date: [July 10, 2012, 4:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/69 "2012-07-10T04:33:48Z")
> [@manila](#):
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> Who’s breasts did the OP fondle to get banned?
Modfondling.
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### Author:  [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)
#### Post date: [July 10, 2012, 5:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/70 "2012-07-10T17:52:24Z")
> [@Dogzilla](#):
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> I have a theory that we all have the same number of nerve endings in our boobs, only in bigger boobs, those nerve endings are spread out. In smaller boobs, they are closer together. Therefore, small boobs = sensitive and large boobs = not quite as sensitive. YMMV given the time of the month etc. This thread mostly kind of supports my theory, although I believe I’m the first to own up to being an A-cup.
This is consistent with my empirical research. However, my wife went from a 34B to her current, post-breastfeeding size of 36C with no apparent reduction in sensation. She’s still occasionally able to get off from having me fondle and suck them. Which is nice. 😉
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### Author:  [@YogSothoth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/YogSothoth)
#### Post date: [July 10, 2012, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/71 "2012-07-10T20:21:37Z")
> [@dukduk](#):
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> let me share my story I wS 32 B when I got married. we Muslim don’t indulge in any kind of sex touching or showing our curves of our veiled body to anyone other than our husband after marriage . I was slim and had a delicate figure. the first night when my hubby undressed me and startrd exploring my body I realised he was nuts after my boobs . and I didn’t stop him though I felt a bit uneasy . he would take my entire boob in his mouth . he said he wants them big. I becam a bit nervous . but he smiled and told me not to worry as he would work himself with them to grow them yo his desired size. after a few weeks naturally I even startrd lactating which made him wild with pleasure and wanted more of them all the time.
> I now am 40 D with perpetually erect nipples and a huge circular pink area around nipples. I’m greatly addicted to his breastfeeding …can’t sleep unless he’s scuckled to his fill… . no matter how rough he handles my boobs I love it. never want him to stop him. all men love boobs and we must serve them. he wants them still bigger . works on them daily .
> let me add that all this is not needed for his easier entry as I get ready and wet the moment he touches my naked boobs. all the above is done while he’s very much inside me. ohhhhh I’m getting wet and having erect nipples
I’ll be in my bunk
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### Author:  [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)
#### Post date: [July 11, 2012, 12:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/women-who-hate-having-their-breast-fondled/237890/72 "2012-07-11T00:29:22Z")
> [@grude](#):
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> Dear Penthouse…
…I never thought paragraphs would happen to _me_, but…
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