# Words you hate people using

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [January 28, 2012, 2:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990 "2012-01-28T14:29:27Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 8:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/181 "2012-02-02T20:58:05Z")

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> [@Omg\_a\_Black\_Conservative](#):
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> “bro”
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> I hate that word so much.

I dislike ‘bro’ but ‘bra’ (in the same context) is even worse!

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**Author:** ![Labrador\_Deceiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@Labrador\_Deceiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Labrador_Deceiver)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/182 "2012-02-02T21:11:04Z")

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Anytime someone uses the word “dump” in a recipe.

Oh yeah, that’s fucking appetizing.

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/183 "2012-02-02T21:14:35Z")

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> [@Labrador\_Deceiver](#):
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> Anytime someone uses the word “dump” in a recipe.
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> Oh yeah, that’s fucking appetizing.

What. Like, “take a dump into the stew”? I’ve never seen “dump” in a recipe.

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**Author:** ![Bosstone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/22d042/32.png) [@Bosstone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosstone)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/184 "2012-02-02T21:34:58Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> What. Like, “take a dump into the stew”? I’ve never seen “dump” in a recipe.

[Dump cake.](http://www.cooks.com/rec/search/0,1-0,dump_cake,FF.html)

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**Author:** ![Stately\_Greek\_Automaton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aca169/32.png) [@Stately\_Greek\_Automaton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stately_Greek_Automaton)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 9:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/185 "2012-02-02T21:40:11Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> What. Like, “take a dump into the stew”? I’ve never seen “dump” in a recipe.

Damn, that does sound pretty unappetizing.

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**Author:** ![Labrador\_Deceiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@Labrador\_Deceiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Labrador_Deceiver)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/186 "2012-02-02T21:52:02Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> What. Like, “take a dump into the stew”? I’ve never seen “dump” in a recipe.

Really? You’ve never seen the word “dump” in a recipe?

“Dump X into Y.” As in, “Dump the beans into the pot.” Yuuummmmm.

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 10:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/187 "2012-02-02T22:09:43Z")

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> [@Labrador\_Deceiver](#):
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> Really? You’ve never seen the word “dump” in a recipe?
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> “Dump X into Y.” As in, “Dump the beans into the pot.” Yuuummmmm.

I think we use very different cookbooks.😃

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**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 10:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/188 "2012-02-02T22:45:46Z")

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> [@etv78](#):
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> Is hung vs. hanged a similiar mistake?

Bart! Bart! They told us you were hung!  
And they was right.

> [@Orionizer](#):
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> As I’ve said before, I can’t stand the word ‘trifecta’. I’ve noticed a lot of commercials have been using this recently to make their product sound cool or something… I can’t stand it!

I hit a trifecta in Vegas for $1800 last year. That would probably make you feel better about the word

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**Author:** ![Labrador\_Deceiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@Labrador\_Deceiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Labrador_Deceiver)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 11:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/189 "2012-02-02T23:03:42Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> I think we use very different cookbooks.😃

Oh, good god no. I hope I never see that line in an actual cookbook. It’s usually on message boards, emails, that sort of thing.

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**Author:** ![Ulfreida](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ulfreida/32/8014_2.png) [@Ulfreida](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ulfreida)\
**Post date:** [February 3, 2012, 3:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/190 "2012-02-03T03:10:27Z")

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> [@Patty\_O\_Furniture](#):
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> You and some others are talking about misusing (aka misutilizing) a word. I read the OP as asking about words that are used properly, but still disliked.

Oh, so I guess enormity is out.

I’ll nominate weiner dog then.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [February 3, 2012, 2:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/191 "2012-02-03T14:57:10Z")

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> [@Labrador\_Deceiver](#):
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> Really? You’ve never seen the word “dump” in a recipe?
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> “Dump X into Y.” As in, “Dump the beans into the pot.” Yuuummmmm.

I’ve never seen it either.

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**Author:** ![colonial](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/34f0e0/32.png) [@colonial](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/colonial)\
**Post date:** [February 3, 2012, 4:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/192 "2012-02-03T16:33:09Z")

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> [@colonial](#):
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> I used the word “employed” instead of the word “used” only to avoid repetition.

> [@Balthisar](#):
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> I wonder, though, why “employ” is a suitable tool for avoiding repetition and “utilize” is not?

They are too closely related in various ways for my taste.

According to the Online Etymology Dictionary they are descended  
from a common Latin ancestor. [(Link)](http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?allowed_in_frame=0&search=utilize&searchmode=none)

Also consider the relative infrequency of synonyms beginning with “u”  
with a few exceptions such as those beginning “un”.

Finally, “use” (as a verb) and “utilize” start and end with the same  
sounds (the “s” and the “z” both being pronounced “z”).

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**Author:** ![Labrador\_Deceiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@Labrador\_Deceiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Labrador_Deceiver)\
**Post date:** [February 3, 2012, 4:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/193 "2012-02-03T16:58:43Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> I’ve never seen it either.

I guess you don’t spend much time in Cafe Society recipe threads, then.

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**Post date:** [February 3, 2012, 11:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/194 "2012-02-03T23:44:28Z")

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> [@Joey\_P](#):
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> **Seen** - Do I even have to explain this one? You didn’t _seen_ anything.

I have seen the word ‘seen’ used correctly many times.

The word I hate hearing is ‘literally’ because it’s almost always used incorrectly.

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**Author:** ![Normal\_Phase](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Normal\_Phase](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Normal_Phase)\
**Post date:** [February 4, 2012, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/195 "2012-02-04T01:10:01Z")

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> [@GuanoLad](#):
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> “Instinctual”
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> It should be “instinctive” but too many people refuse to admit it.

I’d like to subscribe to your newsletter.

**Technology** , as used in commercials for cosmetics, shampoo, and vacuum cleaners. “Now with super volumizing technology.” Okay.

**Space** , as used by interior designers and wannabes on HGN shows. You’re talking about your living room. Call it a living room.

**Entertaining** , as used by the same people.

And one that’s been around for a very long time: **home** when referring to the physical edifice in which one lives. “You have a beautiful home.” It’s a house, dammit.

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**Post date:** [February 4, 2012, 2:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/196 "2012-02-04T02:54:17Z")

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Here’s a trendy one I don’t like- saying “process” after every word ending in -ing.  
The teaching process, the eating process, the cooking process- process is usually not needed and is being used just to sound fancy.

I think brevity is key in speech.

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**Author:** ![Soylent\_Juicy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/82dd89/32.png) [@Soylent\_Juicy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Soylent_Juicy)\
**Post date:** [February 4, 2012, 3:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/197 "2012-02-04T03:46:50Z")

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“Lovey-dovey.”

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**Author:** ![Becky2844](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@Becky2844](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Becky2844)\
**Post date:** [February 4, 2012, 7:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/198 "2012-02-04T07:22:43Z")

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> [@2ManyTacos](#):
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> I didn’t go through the whole thread so this one has probably already been mentioned, but I get slightly annoyed whenever somebody uses the word _since_ as a substitute for _because,_ as _since_ is supposed to denote time.
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> On the matter of irritating phrases, only one comes to mind: I absolutely HATE it whenever I hear a woman tell a guy to _“be a man.”_ I’ve never had anybody direct that phrase at me, thankfully, but every time I’ve ever heard it directed at somebody else I’ve always wanted to retort something along the lines of _“be a woman, bitch.”_ Funny, yes, but also true lol.

I don’t say “be a man.” I say, “Why don’t you grow some balls?” as I stride away with mine (figuritively) clanging. I know what it means, and I know why we say it.

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**Post date:** [February 4, 2012, 7:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/199 "2012-02-04T07:23:45Z")

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> [@Mister\_Rik](#):
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> What the…?! Darn whippersnappers! I remember when it was “_give_ a listen”! Selfishness, that’s what it is today. Take, take take. Harrumph!

_golf clap_

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**Post date:** [February 4, 2012, 7:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/words-you-hate-people-using/610990/200 "2012-02-04T07:27:53Z")

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I like catch phrases/words. I think they’re cute and I relate to them. Part of the always changing/evolving language. 😉

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