# Workplace griping, anyone?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [November 12, 2010, 6:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401 "2010-11-12T06:39:59Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [March 16, 2013, 12:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5222 "2013-03-16T12:39:55Z")

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Those hadn’t been gyn visits, they’d been lunch breaks with friends. Two of them had lasted so long she hadn’t bothered come back in the afternoon.

And the bosses’ contracts listed the same hours as ours: as I said, they were in breach of contract and could actually get fired.

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**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\
**Post date:** [March 16, 2013, 12:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5223 "2013-03-16T12:44:38Z")

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So in both cases, they were just being jerks. Yeah, they deserve to be roasted then 🙂

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**Author:** ![MagicEyes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/5daacb/32.png) [@MagicEyes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MagicEyes)\
**Post date:** [March 16, 2013, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5224 "2013-03-16T16:27:08Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> SHUT UP! SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP! I can’t believe you still don’t shut up!

:eek: Are you me??! I have the can’t-stop-talking coworker and the cackler. Except my perpetually-talking coworker isn’t a very nice person, and she’s right next door to me. As close as you can get without sharing the same office. And somehow she manages to make everything all about her. They’re both gum smackers/crackers (along with several other people in my department). I hate staff meetings. It’s like sitting in the middle of a field full of cattle.

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**Author:** ![Dr.Girlfriend](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dr.girlfriend/32/193_2.png) [@Dr.Girlfriend](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Girlfriend)\
**Post date:** [March 16, 2013, 7:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5225 "2013-03-16T19:48:27Z")

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Are all employment agencies looney or just the ones I’ve come across?

I ranted the other day about Agency #1 not contacting me about a job because they didn’t think I would want to work in that (very nearby) town. Today I get an email from Agency #1 saying they have something for me. Yay! I continue to read the email, it’s overnight shift. Um… where in my file does it say I’ll work nights? 😕 Never mind that it was also minimum wage, which is nowhere near the salary range I said I’d take.

Agency #2 also emailed me today with a whole list of jobs I could choose from. Job 1, truck driver… Job 2, truck driver… Job 3, truck driver. You can see where this is going. I wonder what I told them that makes them think I want to drive a damn truck? :mad:

Sigh. Quit wasting my time, people.

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**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\
**Post date:** [March 17, 2013, 1:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5226 "2013-03-17T13:23:02Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> SHUT UP! SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP! I can’t believe you still don’t shut up!
> 
> The lady across the hall from me seems perfectly pleasant, but she doesn’t shut her fucking mouth from eight in the morning until I leave at 4:30 (I assume she’s still blabbering on the phone or to someone in her office after that as well, but I don’t have to listen any longer since I’m OTFD). And she’s a LOUD TALKER - I hear every syllable of every word.
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> And my boss in the office next to hers is a cackler - she sounds like a complete loon when she laughs, and she laughs all fricking day long. I was talking to my husband about this today; the environment in almost all jobs I’ve had has been of no one ever getting a moment’s peace and quiet to just _work_ - doesn’t that seem a bit counter-productive (literally)?

I didn’t know you had such a huge office at the Kwik-e-mart!

Seems most offices like ours aren’t meant for productive work, just a place for socialization and gossip, Bleah!

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2013, 1:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5227 "2013-03-18T13:27:29Z")

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No longer a problem at work (I have a job where I’m rarely in my office – YAY!)

But my mom does that “constant vocalization”, and I wish I could tune it out.

I’ve driven a lot of people who don’t do it in normal life, but somehow have to read signs (esp when they’re a passenger, it seems): “Oh, Fred’s Mortuary… Five Mile Road, I wonder what we’re five mi… Hey, a Two for One Sale, huh… Left turn only… Oh, Northfield Mall, I wonder if there’s a Southfiel… Shadow Valley Condo… if you lived here you’d be home by…” JUST SHUT UP!

Driving my mom, sometimes I ask “What did you say?” “What?” “You said something about Shadow Valley.” “Did I?” “Oh, weren’t you talking to me?” Then she realizes she’s been talking to… well, not herself (she doesn’t do it when she’s alone), but the Universe… for half an hour.

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**Author:** ![purplehorseshoe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/purplehorseshoe/32/2996_2.png) [@purplehorseshoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purplehorseshoe)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2013, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5228 "2013-03-18T14:16:05Z")

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Aw, man, I left my tea mug at home and my water bottle way out in my car. I’m thirsty, dammit, and I have a meeting in a few minutes.

If that’s the worst thing that happens to me today, I’ll thank my lucky stars!

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**Author:** ![Mama\_Zappa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/71e660/32.png) [@Mama\_Zappa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mama_Zappa)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2013, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5229 "2013-03-18T14:16:38Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> SHUT UP! SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP! I can’t believe you still don’t shut up!
> 
> The lady across the hall from me seems perfectly pleasant, …

Oh yeah.

Not in the office… but there’s a colleague who lives relatively near me (on my way to work), and who **hates** to drive, and really really wanted to carpool.

She’s a lovely, lovely person. We even get together outside of work sometimes.

But she chats constantly… and has a kind of aphasia (due to some medical issues)… so it’s very very hard to follow sometimes.

Most days this is cool. But there are days where I’m in a bad mood / not feeling well, and I just really really want to have some quiet on the drive. And it does… not… happen…

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**Author:** ![KSO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f07891/32.png) [@KSO](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KSO)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2013, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5230 "2013-03-18T14:25:52Z")

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HR. . . . No need to say more. Just… HR. :mad:

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**Author:** ![overlyverbose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/9dc877/32.png) [@overlyverbose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/overlyverbose)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2013, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5231 "2013-03-18T17:48:14Z")

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My work is great about letting people work from home if they need to do so. I love that. But their servers are so fucking unreliable. I checked my connection - it’s really, really good. But my work laptop keeps booting me off the network. I’ve spent more time booting up today than I have on meetings or work combined. (Then again, I’m home with my daughter, so didn’t expect to get a whole lot done anyway.)

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [March 19, 2013, 2:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5232 "2013-03-19T02:15:20Z")

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> [@Donna\_Lange](#):
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> I didn’t know you had such a huge office at the Kwik-e-mart!
> 
> Seems most offices like ours aren’t meant for productive work, just a place for socialization and gossip, Bleah!

Yup, it does seem like that some days. And not nearly enough squishies. 😃

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**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\
**Post date:** [March 19, 2013, 12:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5233 "2013-03-19T12:23:05Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> Yup, it does seem like that some days. And not nearly enough squishies. 😃

Squishes at work sounds great o.o _drools_

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [March 19, 2013, 1:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5234 "2013-03-19T13:01:02Z")

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> [@Dr.Girlfriend](#):
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> Are all employment agencies looney or just the ones I’ve come across? \<snip\>
> 
> Sigh. Quit wasting my time, people.

They’re all looney, each in their own particular way. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Cheez\_Whia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d26b3c/32.png) [@Cheez\_Whia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheez_Whia)\
**Post date:** [March 19, 2013, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5235 "2013-03-19T21:32:51Z")

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Good news! I got the job! After the 4 week training period, it’s on an as-needed/call-in basis, so we will have to see how it goes. I just REALLY don’t want to go back into straight retail at this point in my life. I want my nights and weekends all to myself.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2013, 1:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5236 "2013-03-20T01:59:06Z")

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Yay! Congratulations, **Cheez\_Whia**.

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2013, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5237 "2013-03-20T04:43:50Z")

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I don’t even really know you, and I’m tearing up because you got a job…

And I’m feeling proud, like “I KNEW she could do it!”

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2013, 6:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5238 "2013-03-20T06:12:11Z")

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Yay for **C\_W** and new jobs!

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**Author:** ![Cheez\_Whia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d26b3c/32.png) [@Cheez\_Whia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheez_Whia)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2013, 2:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5239 "2013-03-20T14:42:53Z")

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Thanks youse guys! 🙂

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**Author:** ![Dr.Girlfriend](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dr.girlfriend/32/193_2.png) [@Dr.Girlfriend](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Girlfriend)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2013, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5240 "2013-03-20T16:55:04Z")

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Yay **Cheez\_Whia**!

I just got a call not ten minutes ago asking me to come in for an interview! It’s not a close drive, but if the pay’s ok…

_crosses fingers_

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**Author:** ![kayT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayt/32/3633_2.png) [@kayT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayT)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2013, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/workplace-griping-anyone/560401/5241 "2013-03-20T17:07:01Z")

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Good luck. Maybe it’s doper lucky week or something.

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