# Would most women be willing to try sexual tease and denial on a man? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 27, 2015, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-most-women-be-willing-to-try-sexual-tease-and-denial-on-a-man/732736 "2015-09-27T18:46:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-most-women-be-willing-to-try-sexual-tease-and-denial-on-a-man/732736/1 "2015-09-27T18:46:59Z")
I am into sexual tease and denial. I want a woman to edge me and turn me on, but not let me cum, while she expects me to make her cum as much as she wants. I want her to exercise control over when I cum and how often and I want her to make me desperate and beg for an orgasm, and still make it unclear whether I’ll get release in the near future. I am generally sexually submissive, so of course I am going to want to be on the teased and denied side of this. I want her to control me sexually in general and again, not let me cum unless she gives me permission while demanding I make her cum in anyway and at any time she pleases. Would most women be willing to try this? As a 17-year-old myself (almost 18), I asked this to a younger demographic (teens and early twenties mostly) on another forum, and now I want to queue older women and see if there any differences in the results so I can get an idea of how accepted this fetish of mine is. I also didn’t get that many votes there, so that’s another reason I am asking this here. ---
**Author:** ![bobkitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bobkitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobkitty)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-most-women-be-willing-to-try-sexual-tease-and-denial-on-a-man/732736/2 "2015-09-27T19:53:18Z")
Awwww, look folks, our little boy is growing up!! Pop over to Fetlife. They’re a more appropriate audience for this question. ---
**Author:** ![Don\_t\_Panic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/don_t_panic/32/398_2.png) [@Don\_t\_Panic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Don_t_Panic)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-most-women-be-willing-to-try-sexual-tease-and-denial-on-a-man/732736/3 "2015-09-27T20:01:19Z")
> [@R3d\_Anonymous](#): > > I also didn’t get that many votes there No kidding? ---
**Author:** ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 8:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-most-women-be-willing-to-try-sexual-tease-and-denial-on-a-man/732736/4 "2015-09-27T20:18:08Z")
> [@Martian Bigfoot](#): > > No kidding? I meant compared to the average amount of votes a poll receives here. Polls just don’t get that many votes there in general and according to there, I got about an average amount of votes. ---
**Author:** ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-most-women-be-willing-to-try-sexual-tease-and-denial-on-a-man/732736/5 "2015-09-27T20:19:59Z")
> [@Martian Bigfoot](#): > > No kidding? I meant compared to the average amount of votes a poll receives here. Polls just don’t get that many votes there in general and according to there, I got about an average amount of votes. Also, **bobkitty** , the point of posting this here is to see how willing or open-minded the average person is. Of course, most people at Fetlife will say “yes”. ---
**Author:** ![Don\_t\_Panic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/don_t_panic/32/398_2.png) [@Don\_t\_Panic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Don_t_Panic)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 8:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-most-women-be-willing-to-try-sexual-tease-and-denial-on-a-man/732736/6 "2015-09-27T20:26:50Z")
> [@R3d\_Anonymous](#): > > Of course, most people at Fetlife will say “yes”. Huh. Maybe I’m hanging out at the wrong message board… What did you say the name of that place was? _googles_ OK. No, I’m already hanging out at the right message board. Good to know. ---
**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-most-women-be-willing-to-try-sexual-tease-and-denial-on-a-man/732736/7 "2015-09-27T21:04:22Z")
I think this thread strays too far into inappropriate territory based on [the board’s guidelines for posting](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=7696990&postcount=5) related to topics on sex. I’m going to close it.