# Would you date the man who is a Peeping Tom / Sexual Predator? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 12, 2014, 11:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435 "2014-11-12T11:14:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 11:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/1 "2014-11-12T11:14:39Z")
He’s thin enough for you and has other personality flaws, but dude blows his load by peeping into other people’s windows. Sometimes in person, sometimes through webcams on sites on Darknet, but always of men, women, and children who don’t know it. He even tries to get you into it. “Look, there’s Tommy going to the Bathroom! Heh!” Dealbreaker? ---
**Author:** ![carlotta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/898d66/32.png) [@carlotta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carlotta)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 11:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/2 "2014-11-12T11:47:55Z")
yes, it’s a dealbreaker. No wouldn’t date such a person. ---
**Author:** ![Mighty\_Girl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Mighty\_Girl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mighty_Girl)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 11:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/3 "2014-11-12T11:50:30Z")
Huh? ---
**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 3:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/4 "2014-11-12T15:47:31Z")
You have a thing about surveillance, don’t you? ---
**Author:** ![Not\_Carlson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/bc79bd/32.png) [@Not\_Carlson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Not_Carlson)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/5 "2014-11-12T16:16:35Z")
Well, since you didn’t start out by saying “Ladies . . .?” I’ll just weigh in by saying no, no I wouldn’t. Nor would I permit any of my children or grandchildren-to-be or any of my offspring to date with him, unto the third and fourth generation. ---
**Author:** ![jtur88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e9c0ed/32.png) [@jtur88](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jtur88)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/6 "2014-11-12T16:18:50Z")
Only if he is a really good and convincing female impersonator. ---
**Author:** ![Not\_Carlson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/bc79bd/32.png) [@Not\_Carlson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Not_Carlson)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 5:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/7 "2014-11-12T17:06:23Z")
So, Peeping Tom/sexual predator is out, but cross-dressing Peeping Tom/sexual predator is OK? M’kayyy . . . ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 6:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/8 "2014-11-12T18:04:46Z")
> [@Spice\_Weasel](#): > > You have a thing about surveillance, don’t you? Oh, I dunno. I hear you meet the nicest people that way. :rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![Kent\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kent_clark/32/105_2.png) [@Kent\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kent_Clark)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 11:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/9 "2014-11-12T23:32:31Z")
Is he a premature ejaculator? ---
**Author:** ![jtur88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e9c0ed/32.png) [@jtur88](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jtur88)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2014, 11:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-date-the-man-who-is-a-peeping-tom-sexual-predator/704435/10 "2014-11-12T23:53:28Z")
> [@Not\_Carlson](#): > > So, Peeping Tom/sexual predator is out, but cross-dressing Peeping Tom/sexual predator is OK? > M’kayyy . . . The question asks if I would date a man who was one – whatever that implies. I have my own ideas about what “date” means, and I answered accordingy.