# Would you let your 9 year old daughter wear this?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [October 27, 2009, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348 "2009-10-27T21:14:02Z")\
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**Author:** ![Philster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/13edae/32.png) [@Philster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Philster)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2009, 1:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/101 "2009-10-30T13:23:29Z")

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No

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**Author:** ![mswas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e99b99/32.png) [@mswas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mswas)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2009, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/102 "2009-10-30T13:28:15Z")

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> [@The\_Man\_In\_Black](#):
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> You can make fun of the kids dress, but to call a little kid ugly is just mean. I bet you feel “big” for calling her that, don’t you.

Not only that but to call the Cyrus children ugly is simply incorrect. They are very pretty kids.

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**Author:** ![FriarTed](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/friarted/32/1052_2.png) [@FriarTed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FriarTed)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2009, 5:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/103 "2009-10-30T17:23:31Z")

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> [@mswas](#):
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> What’s funny about it is that it’s not just wrong in the sense that she’s too young for it, but that it just doesn’t look good on her. It’s wrong from a fashion perspective too. It’s just wrong on every level. that’s not the right shade of lipstick, her knees are too knobby for those boots and her tummy sticks out more than her tits. (all things that are appropriate for a 9 year old)

This. I have no problem with bare legs. If she were out playing in shorts, just as much could be showing. But the dress just doesn’t look good on her.

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**Author:** ![anu-la1979](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/47e85d/32.png) [@anu-la1979](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anu-la1979)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2009, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/104 "2009-10-30T21:21:46Z")

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I think it’s ugly and awful on a 9 year old but uhh, I was kind of goth as a teenager and my parents “let” me wear all sorts of stupid slutty sh\*t, including a highly suspect pirate costume sometime around when I was 14. But I think as mid-90s goth lite, I probably would have worn those black and white striped tights and most likely some sort of hat with that type of dress as I generally wore insane colours of pantyhose with everything.

In fact, I remember one of my favourite outfits from back then perfectly-a purple velvet cloche, chunky doc martens or Fluevogs, black and white striped tights, black mini-mini skirt, white tshirt and sweater. Along with my assortment of piercings.

My parents had their revenge in the end, though. I look back and I can’t BELIEVE the stuff I wore.

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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2009, 9:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/105 "2009-10-30T21:56:09Z")

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My daughter? No.

My son? I would try to be understanding.

Regards,  
Shodan

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**Author:** ![Mighty\_Girl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Mighty\_Girl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mighty_Girl)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2009, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/106 "2009-10-31T02:29:57Z")

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No way.

Well, let me amend that: no fucking way!

That poor kid looks like she’s turning tricks in the corner of a seedy neighborhood somewhere. I am not a prude, and I find kid’s nudity beautiful, but I don’t like girls who look slutty, there’s a time for everything. And I don’t think she’s going for anything vampire or goth or similar, because the makeup and clothes don’t match. The closest thing I can think of is “Bondage” or “hooker”.

And apparently is [not the first time](http://mamamia.com.au/weblog/2009/06/this-is-miley-cyruss-sister-she-is-9-and-im-trying-to-breathe.html) she does something like this. Somebody in that household needs to have some sense bitch-slapped into them.

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**Author:** ![luv2draw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/46a35a/32.png) [@luv2draw](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/luv2draw)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2009, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/107 "2009-10-31T03:18:13Z")

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I don’t care about what she’s wearing. I DO care that she has got to be the ugliest little girl I’ve seen in a long time.

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**Author:** ![JR\_Brown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d6d6ee/32.png) [@JR\_Brown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JR_Brown)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2009, 3:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/108 "2009-10-31T03:22:05Z")

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It would be OK as the basis for a “fashionable witch” costume if it had opaque tights, maybe different boots, and either much less makeup or much more makeup (that is, either “tasteful” or “deliberately over the top”). As it is, it looks like someone’s trying to make her look sexy… which is way too disturbing a thought.

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**Author:** ![whiterabbit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/cab0a1/32.png) [@whiterabbit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/whiterabbit)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2009, 5:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/would-you-let-your-9-year-old-daughter-wear-this/515348/109 "2009-10-31T05:00:48Z")

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With some tights and losing the fuck-me boots, for Halloween, probably. Though I still think it’s god-awful. The rest of the time? No way. **Mighty\_Girl** , I think the pics in your links are bathing suits. I definitely hope they are, anyway.

This is if I had a nine-year-old daughter.

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