# writing erotica for money - how to get started?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-erotica-for-money-how-to-get-started/382880>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [December 4, 2006, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-erotica-for-money-how-to-get-started/382880 "2006-12-04T23:04:03Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![Grumman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/43a26b/32.png) [@Grumman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grumman)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2014, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-erotica-for-money-how-to-get-started/382880/47 "2014-05-04T15:26:04Z")

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> [@Evil\_Captor](#):
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> …a strong-willed woman…

You have a very strange definition of “strong willed”. If Ana’s will was any weaker, she’d have “Welcome!” tattooed on her forehead. Just for starters, a truly strong willed woman would tell Christian to shove his NDA up his arse.

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**Author:** ![Musicat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/musicat/32/20189_2.png) [@Musicat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Musicat)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2014, 3:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-erotica-for-money-how-to-get-started/382880/48 "2014-05-04T15:29:39Z")

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> [@Dewey\_Finn](#):
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> This is not a court of law; the only proof needed is the judgment of the moderators and administrators of the board. They were apparently convinced.

Mods see all and hear all. Why don’t you (Evil Captor) PM a mod for more detail and avoid hijacking this thread?

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**Author:** ![Evil\_Captor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f17d59/32.png) [@Evil\_Captor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Evil_Captor)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2014, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-erotica-for-money-how-to-get-started/382880/49 "2014-05-04T15:34:47Z")

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> [@Grumman](#):
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> You have a very strange definition of “strong willed”. If Ana’s will was any weaker, she’d have “Welcome!” tattooed on her forehead. Just for starters, a truly strong willed woman would tell Christian to shove his NDA up his arse.

She DID refuse to sign the contract. She was attracted to Christian, she LIKED the kinky sex, but was unwilling to have a relationship with him on his terms, despite the fact that he was a billionaire and she a recent college graduate from a middle class background. Strong-willed.

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