# Writing that has made you cry

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**Created:** [September 19, 2001, 6:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646 "2001-09-19T18:55:34Z")\
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**Author:** ![evilhanz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ba8739/32.png) [@evilhanz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilhanz)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2001, 4:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/21 "2001-09-20T04:45:30Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Billy Baroo \*  
> \*\*His use of redemption and sacrifice just always works. Two examples spring right to mind: The doomed lovers in the most recent _Dark Tower_ installment - that one is an unapologetic tearjerker. \*\*

I had forgotten about this one. I had the same reaction. I was stunned when I read this one. For a long time I ignored King, believing his work was pulp, but I have become an ardent fan. The man is just full of surprises.

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**Author:** ![MonkeyMensch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@MonkeyMensch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MonkeyMensch)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2001, 5:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/22 "2001-09-20T05:29:30Z")

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For me it’s the end of F. Scott Fitzgerald’s _The Great Gatsby_, maybe the last four or five paragraphs. I can’t remember the number of times I have been in a bookstore and wandered over to the fiction section to read that last page and a half. It is such a beautiful sentiment about the _American Dream_ tempered with the inevitability of our failure to achieve our dreams in this world. It is perfect prose and it tears me right up…

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**Author:** ![delphica](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9a140/32.png) [@delphica](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/delphica)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2001, 5:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/23 "2001-09-20T05:44:40Z")

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Many of the things already mentioned, and:

The last paragraph of Joyce’s **The Dead** , where the snow falls over Ireland.

**Anne of Green Gables** , when Matthew dies. I would read this over and over again when I was a kid to torture myself. It’s a wonder I didn’t choke on my own snot.

Pretty much the entire way through every book of Elswyth Thane’s **Williamsburg** novels. High Romance writing. On the down side, many people do not get to be with their one true love, and many people die in wars. On the up side, there are many cases of mistaken identity that keep lovers apart, or they are presumed dead in war, or they get a hangnail or something. All produce copious amounts of tears.

**Game of Kings** – Christian’s deathbed scene. Sob! Sob! She was _blind_, you bastards! Also, the part later on in the series, when Lymond realizes/admits/the reader finally figures out who is the object of his heart’s desires.

Any of the “tragic dead animal genre,” including, but not limited to:  
**Black Beauty**  
**Weep No More My Lady**  
**Bambi** (also cry-able for the intense scene where the leaves die and drop off the tree)  
**Where the Red Fern Grows**  
**The Cat Who Went To Heaven**  
Anything by Paul Gallico

**Twenty Years After** – when the four Musketeers meet on the battlefield and have a love in.

**The Once And Future King** – Many parts, but mostly at the end when everything is going to hell in a handbasket, and Arthur gets a note from Gawain, and it turns out that Gawain has really nice handwriting. This just kills me.

**IT** – I will never forgive Stephen King for killing Eddie. The first time I read it, I read that paragraph over about six times, because I was convinced I missed the part where they only _thought_ Eddie was dead, but then were actually able to save him.

There’s tons more.

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**Post date:** [September 20, 2001, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/24 "2001-09-20T17:27:38Z")

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It looks I am going to be the first one to admit crying from **Flowers in the Attic** , specifically where they find out that their mother poisoned the doughnuts.  
Also in **David Copperfield** where Emily and Steerforth run off together and David is telling about how much he admired Steerforth.

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**Author:** ![Joe\_Cool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ecb155/32.png) [@Joe\_Cool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joe_Cool)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2001, 10:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/25 "2001-09-20T22:15:06Z")

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Another vote for Where the Red Fern Grows. Every time I read that book I always set out with “I’m not gonna cry this time”, and every time without fail, I make it until the part where the dogs attack the mountain lion to save their master, and then I fail again spectacularly at the part where (I forget which dog dies first…Old Dan or Little Ann?) dies, and yet again where the second one sits on the grave of the first one until it dies too. I normally have to stop reading for a while because my eyes are too full of tears to be able to see the words.

I’ve also been on the verge of tears at the point in Ender’s Game when he finds out it’s not just a game, and one or two spots in Speaker for the Dead, which I’m just finishing up now for the first time. Excellent books all.

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**Author:** ![Agrippina](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8797f3/32.png) [@Agrippina](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Agrippina)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 12:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/26 "2001-09-21T00:24:14Z")

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> \*Originally posted by JessEnigma \*  
> \*\*_There’s a Boy in the Girls’ Bathroom_ is another one. (I seem to be especially vulnerable to kids’ books now) Elementary school kids can be so mean to each other and I just feel so sorry for Bradley. The ending is so sad, but it’s so happy.  
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SPOILERS

Is that the one with the kid who has the little animal characters? I remember a rabbit, and a few others. And his bed was their “land”–he had a soda stain that was their pond or something. If it is the one I’m thinking of, I thought it was sad how, I think at one point, one of the animals drown in the pond. Eventually Bradley puts away his animals, which is also sad.

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**Author:** ![Nacho4Sara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Nacho4Sara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nacho4Sara)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 12:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/27 "2001-09-21T00:31:50Z")

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Several books make me sob hysterically:

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> Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood-The love of a girl’s life goes away to fly jets in WWII, because he wants to impress his father. His plane is shot down over France.

In particular, the scene where Vivi is getting a massage and she talks about how God gives you one piece of your life story at once, or else you crack wide open, and no one sees. Also, when she reminisces with Teensie about Jack, and says that she would give anything to smell him once more.

Similarly, in **Little Alters Everywhere** , also by Rebecca Wells, there’s a scene where the black farmhand married to Wiletta (who is Sidda Lee’s nanny) says that he would love to see Shep truly appreciate his children, and then talks about 'Letta and the kids, and how Letta “loves him til ever’thing that ever hurt him falls away like rain.”

**The English Patient** makes me sob. There’s so much poetry in Ondaajte’s prose (he’s also an incredible poet). The scene where the Count leaves Katherine in the cave is so sad. Also, when she “cannot bear the walls” he builds, and he says, “you built your walls too.” So sad, so tragic.

**The Poisenwood Bible** by Barbara Kingsolver always makes me so sad, especially when Ruth May dies. I love the end, when Ruth May tells her mother to think of the vine that grows from what was once her heart.

**These Granite Islands** by Sarah Stonich is an incredible first novel - the sex scene is the most beautiful of any I’ve ever read and makes me cry. Also, the ending is painstakingly beautiful and so well-written and full of clarity that I weep uncontrollably.

I agree with **The Dreamcatcher** , when Duddits dies (but saves the world first). Also, in **Insomnia** , the part where Ralph remembers his wife dying and “Danke Schoen” playing on the radio as he realizes he is now a widow…page 440 in the hardback version, IIRC. In **Hearts of Atlantis** , when the little boy has his first kiss with Carol and says “it will be the kiss that he will compare all others to” - very sad.

In the Dean Koontz book **Seize the Night** (I think it’s the second of that series) - when Christopher Snow’s best buddy dies, but than they save him - breaks my heart.

Both **She’s Come Undone** and **I Know This Much is True** , by Wally Lamb, are tearjerkers. The scene in the former when Mr. Pucci dies is so sad (“Accept what people offer. Drink their milkshakes. Take their love.”), and most of the latter is terribly sad.

The part of **Song of Solomon** by Toni Morrison where Guitar tells (I forget her name, she’s the cousin and spurned lover of the main character) that she can’t love him more than she loves herself - “You’re giving him your whole life, girl. Your whole life. And if you can just hand it over, give it to him, than how can it matter to him? You can’t own a human being. You can’t lose what you don’t own.” I love that part, but it’s so sad, especially since she dies.

Okay, that’s it for now but I know I can think of a hundred more.

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**Author:** ![JessEnigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cdc98d/32.png) [@JessEnigma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JessEnigma)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 2:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/28 "2001-09-21T02:15:21Z")

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> \*Originally posted by bean\_shadow \*  
> \*\*  
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> Is that the one with the kid who has the little animal characters? I remember a rabbit, and a few others. And his bed was their “land”–he had a soda stain that was their pond or something. If it is the one I’m thinking of, I thought it was sad how, I think at one point, one of the animals drown in the pond. Eventually Bradley puts away his animals, which is also sad. \*\*

Yeah, that’s the one. The animal that drowned did come back, but that part just made me cry harder. Sob, sob, sob. My brother laughed at me when I brought back his book, dabbing at my eyes. ☹  
jessica

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**Author:** ![robinh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b77776/32.png) [@robinh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/robinh)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/29 "2001-09-21T02:52:20Z")

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Well, I’m a big softy. I cry at anything. Books, movies, tv, the odd commercial…

But **Nacho4Sara** ’s list reminded me of the one time I remember breaking down into uncontrollable, hysterical sobbing. I made the unfortunate choice of reading Toni Morrison’s **Beloved** while pregnant with my first. Oh my.

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**Author:** ![tritone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8e7dd6/32.png) [@tritone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tritone)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 4:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/30 "2001-09-21T16:05:09Z")

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> \*Originally posted by delphica \*  
> **Game of Kings – Christian’s deathbed scene. Sob! Sob! She was _blind_, you bastards! Also, the part later on in the series, when Lymond realizes/admits/the reader finally figures out who is the object of his heart’s desires.**

**Possible Lymond Chronicles spoilers**  
delphica! You read Dorothy Dunnett too! Hooray! I agree with you that anyone who doesn’t cry at Christian’s death is heartless. The scene in **Ringed Castle** where Lymond realises he loves Philippa is just too beautiful - it always makes me bawl. Also Will Scott’s death in **Disorderly Knights** - I don’t see why she had to kill him off, he was one of my favourite characters!

Some other tear-jerkers: **Davita’s Harp** by Chaim Potok - various scenes where Davita is mourning her father, he communicates her sense of loss so well. And when I was a kid, **Goodnight Mr Tom** by Michelle Magorian (sp?), where Zach dies.

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**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 7:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/31 "2001-09-21T19:49:23Z")

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\*\* Lonesome Dove \*\* (twice)  
\*\* A Prayer For Owen Meany \*\* (for half an hour, wailing and keening. Both times I read it.)  
\*\* The Power of One \*\*  
\*\* Cold Mountain \*\* (what a fabulous book. Slow to hook up with, but incredibly written, really incredible.)

stoid

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**Author:** ![Satchmo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/satchmo/32/4223_2.png) [@Satchmo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Satchmo)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 10:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/32 "2001-09-21T22:09:03Z")

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Animal Farm - “Boxer has fallen, and he can’t get up!”

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**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 11:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/33 "2001-09-21T23:40:31Z")

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Arthur C. Clarke’s immortal classic _ **Childhood’s End** _, chapter 20. _sob_!

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**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/34 "2001-09-21T23:43:57Z")

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robinh wrote:

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> Well, I’m a big softy. I cry at anything. Books, movies, tv, the odd commercial…

Psssst, hey, robinh! Thought about Barber’s _ **Adagio for Strings** _ lately?

(Heh heh heh. I’m such a meanie!)

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**Post date:** [September 21, 2001, 11:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/35 "2001-09-21T23:48:01Z")

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Damn…it… I knew I shouldn’t have read this thread… I’m close to the end of Garp (I’m just past Jenny’s death), I didn’t know he died as well. _sigh_ Oh well, now that I’m here… the accident scene gets me - namely the part about Walt and the bathtub.

Lion, Witch and the Wardrobe gets me too…

Outlander - she almost leaves.

Animals You Will Never Forget - a readers digest compilation, highly recommended…has parts from A Ring of Bright Water and a few other animal classics. I cry for darned near every story in that book. 'specially the Doc’s horse Charley.

Darned near any scene where the person loses a spouse, child or pet…

Matthew’s death in Green Gables was a shock… as was Walter’s… and the story about Leslie - augh.

Meg

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2001, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/36 "2001-09-22T01:10:43Z")

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I cried when Joyce died in _Anne’s House Of Dreams_.

At the end of Lloyd Alexander’s _The High King_ when Prydain gave up all its magic, my heart broke. Oh yes, and also when Adaon died in _The Black Cauldron_. I think my parents regretted giving me that series, I spent alot of time crying over them.

Strangely, I never cried at _Ender’s Game_, but when Ender talked to Valentine on the lake, I felt so empty inside. Does it make me naive to mourn a character’s loss of innocence?

Guy Gavriel Kay is such a mean b\*stard. I practically floated away reading _The Fionavar Tapestry_. Especially at the end, when everyone goes their seperate ways - I didn’t know whether to feel happy or sad. Bittersweetness is always more bitter to me than sweet.

I finished_Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone_today, and when Hagrid gave Harry the photo album full of pics of his family, I couldn’t stop tears from streaming down my face as I chuckled. I hope no one was watching me, I was sitting on a park bench at the time. I must have looked like I was crazy.

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**Author:** ![delphica](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9a140/32.png) [@delphica](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/delphica)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2001, 1:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/37 "2001-09-22T01:14:43Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Satchmo \*  
> \*\*Animal Farm - “Boxer has fallen, and he can’t get up!” \*\*

Gee, thanks **Satchmo** , until this very moment I had completely repressed the memory of my entire 7th grade class mocking me when I burst into loud heaving sobs when the teacher read this line out loud.

Anyone know a good therapist?

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2001, 1:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/38 "2001-09-22T01:22:32Z")

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> \*Originally posted by MonkeyMensch \*  
> \*\*For me it’s the end of F. Scott Fitzgerald’s _The Great Gatsby_, maybe the last four or five paragraphs. I can’t remember the number of times I have been in a bookstore and wandered over to the fiction section to read that last page and a half. It is such a beautiful sentiment about the _American Dream_ tempered with the inevitability of our failure to achieve our dreams in this world. It is perfect prose and it tears me right up… \*\*

Oh my god, I can’t believe I left that one out.  
“And so we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.”  
Perfection.

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**Post date:** [September 23, 2001, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/writing-that-has-made-you-cry/82646/39 "2001-09-23T17:07:24Z")

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Much of Edith Wharton’s work is incredibly depressing, but there is one novella of hers, _False Dawn_, which is guaranteed to make me cry every time I read it.

It’s the story of a young man in the 1840’s who has been sent on the Grand Tour and commissioned by his millionaire father to bring back some works of art to start a family collection. While traveling, the boy meets a young John Ruskin and, instead of buying some of the expected popular masterpieces of the day, brings home a collection of pre-Raphaelite paintings–Giotto, della Francesca, and the like–which his father dismisses as worthless rubbish. The boy is disinherited except for the paintings. He marries the girl he loves, who still believes in him, and they open a small art gallery in New York City, then slowly sink into poverty waiting for someone to recognize that the paintings have value. Eventually, the paintings wind up in a relative’s attic and are discovered years later, long after the boy has died and almost been completely forgotten.

I’m usually in tears by this point. The funny thing is that I am not certain why this story moves me the way it does, but it _does_, every time (I’m even a little misted-up now, after writing the above description).

The ending of _Middlemarch_ can also make me cry: “…there was always something more she might have done, if she had only been better and known better.”

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The whole book **Night** by Ellie Wiesel was one that really made me about lose it. It was his true story account of going through the WWII concentration camps as a boy and seeing what others did to others for survival.

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