# Yeah she's ugly, yet he's with HER. Hmmm...

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [September 8, 2000, 4:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/yeah-shes-ugly-yet-hes-with-her-hmmm/32459 "2000-09-08T04:18:21Z")\
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**Author:** ![CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crankyasanoldman/32/11670_2.png) [@CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrankyAsAnOldMan)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2000, 5:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/yeah-shes-ugly-yet-hes-with-her-hmmm/32459/21 "2000-09-09T05:08:58Z")

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Well, the ex I had the hardest time getting over started a relationship soon after our split with someone who was probably prettier than me, but incredibly dimwitted. Since I missed him and our relationship, the whole thing bugged me. I can’t tell you how much it cheered me when I heard one of the ex’s buddies confide “I have no idea what she sees in her. Maybe she’s got a trick pelvis.”

Chalk it up to my weak little soul, but that gave me some satisfaction. And a good laugh.

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**Author:** ![Lizard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@Lizard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lizard)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2000, 5:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/yeah-shes-ugly-yet-hes-with-her-hmmm/32459/22 "2000-09-09T05:12:06Z")

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Hey **Cranky** , how would you have felt if she _did_ have a trick pelvis?

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**Author:** ![CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crankyasanoldman/32/11670_2.png) [@CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrankyAsAnOldMan)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2000, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/yeah-shes-ugly-yet-hes-with-her-hmmm/32459/23 "2000-09-09T05:32:30Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Lizard \*  
> \*\*Hey **Cranky** , how would you have felt if she _did_ have a trick pelvis? \*\*

Snort. I thought about that being a valid question. If I thought I’d sucked in bed it would have sent me into paroxysms of angst. But things with Mr. Ex were just fine. in that department.

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**Author:** ![Shadowfox](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c89c15/32.png) [@Shadowfox](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shadowfox)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2000, 2:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/yeah-shes-ugly-yet-hes-with-her-hmmm/32459/24 "2000-09-09T14:00:17Z")

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> \*Originally posted by kellibelli \*  
> \*\*Maybe being with you has made your ex a better person, and he looks past the shallow exterior to the wonderful person beneath. \*\*

Geez, thanks. That makes me feel much better :rolleyes:

If you want the god honest truth, I would be happy for him if she actually were a nice and decent person. Unfortunately, she is not. She has led an extremely difficult life and, as a result, is pretty fucked up in the head. She has suffered abuse at the hands of every male she has ever had a relationship with, and she is a pretty angry and bitter person because of it.

Which of course, makes me **really** wonder what is wrong with me. He dumped me for an ugly, psychotic bitch. I must be seriously defective.

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