# You psycho bitch!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [November 22, 2012, 2:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834 "2012-11-22T14:12:02Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
**Page:** 2

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [November 24, 2012, 3:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/21 "2012-11-24T15:43:14Z")

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No calls for 36 hours and no talk of self-harm, either.

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**Author:** ![The\_Flying\_Dutchman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9fc348/32.png) [@The\_Flying\_Dutchman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Flying_Dutchman)\
**Post date:** [November 24, 2012, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/22 "2012-11-24T16:28:21Z")

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> [@GythaOgg](#):
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> This. If she is abusing her access to her cell phones and landlines, the nursing home can and will do something about it. I’d suggest contacting whoever the head nurse/charge nurse is for the unit the neighbor lives on, and if that doesn’t work, contacting the director of nursing for the facility. They can’t exactly take her phone access completely away, but they can turn off the landline in the room and keep her cell phones locked up to be given to her to use only with supervision…there’s a huge risk of them being stolen/lost if she’s allowed to keep them in her room anyhow.

[Note to myself] Avoid moving into a nursing home if at all possible.

As someone who has recently had a loved one suffering the onset of a serious mental illness requiring involuntary commitment I feel for you and your wife. But seriously, and maybe its just me, but I feel for this woman as well. She sounds pretty sick and desperate with no one . Save yourself from the anger and do what you have to do to protect your wife. I’m hoping for the best.

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [November 24, 2012, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/23 "2012-11-24T16:43:16Z")

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> [@The\_Flying\_Dutchman](#):
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> She sounds pretty sick and desperate with no one.

Oh, she has family about an hour away and a daughter in foster care about two hours away. Guess who had to play chauffeur for the daughter whenever she wanted to come visit.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [November 24, 2012, 6:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/24 "2012-11-24T18:52:40Z")

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[Moderating]  
Moved to MPSIMS.  
[/Moderating]

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**Author:** ![gamerunknown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/6bbea6/32.png) [@gamerunknown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gamerunknown)\
**Post date:** [November 24, 2012, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/25 "2012-11-24T19:34:07Z")

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> [@The\_Flying\_Dutchman](#):
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> [Note to myself] Avoid moving into a nursing home if at all possible.

Yeah, no doubt. Hopefully I can stay strung out from retirement to heart failure.

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**Author:** ![LurkerInNJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ed655f/32.png) [@LurkerInNJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LurkerInNJ)\
**Post date:** [November 24, 2012, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/26 "2012-11-24T23:19:48Z")

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Changing your phone number works wonders for stopping unwanted calls.

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**Author:** ![Projammer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/projammer/32/559_2.png) [@Projammer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Projammer)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2012, 5:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/27 "2012-11-25T05:33:17Z")

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IIRC, most cell phones and land line services have options to set up black lists where selected callers simply don’t get through.

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 5:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/28 "2013-03-31T05:43:00Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> Agreed too. It sounds like your SO’s needs need to be addressed first.

I recently found out that part of this was a bad reaction to a new medication (Abilify). Things are much better now.

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**Author:** ![kittenblue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ba8739/32.png) [@kittenblue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kittenblue)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 10:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/29 "2013-03-31T22:44:13Z")

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Wow. It took them 4 months to figure that out? Hope everything is okay now. Did she at least change her phone number?

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/you-psycho-bitch/641834/30 "2013-03-31T23:12:05Z")

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No, I think they found out in December. I just wasn’t aware of it until now or maybe was aware of it earlier and forgot.

Phone number hasn’t changed but we haven’t heard from the psycho during that time, either.

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