When I grew up, there was a huge divide between me and people just slightly older – I didn’t remember where I was when I heard Kennedy had died, because I was too young to care.
What I do remember:
The first moon landing, and the garbled “one small step for man, one giant step for mankind, and being a little upset about the missing ‘a’”. My mother kept us up late to watch it, and fed us coca cola and chocolate to keep us from nodding off.
I remember the weekend Nixon resigned, but that’s more because of my father’s reaction to it than because it made an impression on me directly.
The death of pope Paul VI. I was in Denmark, and heard it on TV, in Danish. I didn’t speak any Danish, but I understood it because the words are so similar. He had ALWAYS been pope in my memory, and somehow, the idea that the pope had died was surprising and disconcerting. No, I am not a Catholic, but somehow it mattered to me anyway.
Anwar Sadat’s assassination. I was walking in the “dome” at the entrance to MIT at the time, and the news was on a large, overheard TV. I was shocked and appalled.
This is true for me, too. It was a big deal to me, of course. I even traveled to Berlin and took part in deconstructing the wall. (with a rented hammer and chisel) but it wasn’t a singular moment.
I don’t really remember when I learned that the Challenger exploded, either, although I remember at first I didn’t believe it. I guess I was older and it took more to make an impression on me.
I don’t remember when I learned Reagan was shot, but I have a vivid memory of Al Haig on TV saying he was in charge, and my room-mate screaming that he wasn’t, and citing the constitution at the TV.
And I remember 9/11 vividly. I learned the news at work. I had several friends who worked in the WTC, and I spent a lot of the day trying to track them down on-line. I watched the videos of the towers collapsing a few times, but shortly after I got home, I had to pick up my kids from elementary school, and I didn’t want them to watch it over and over, so I turned off the TV. So mostly I listened to the radio, instead. That was a good decision on my part, I think. For me. And probably for my kids, too.