# Your Favorite Depressing Songs

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [May 23, 2009, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421 "2009-05-23T21:11:34Z")\
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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/61 "2009-05-26T15:23:52Z")

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> [@Erdosain](#):
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> “I Know It’s Over” by the Smiths. Also, “There Is a Light That Never Goes Out” and “Sing Me to Sleep.”.

let’s not forget “Heaven Knows I’m Miserable Now” ([video](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PHQ5QdNj9U))

another gem is “I Got Id” by Pearl Jam ([video](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMyToPVWH9c&feature=related))

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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/62 "2009-05-26T16:32:09Z")

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_Spring_ by **The John Butler Trio**  
_The Persistence of Loss_, _Leaving Hope_ (both instrumental), and _Eraser_ by **Nine Inch Nails**  
_Guess I’m Doing Fine_ by **Beck**  
_Fade to Black_ by **Metallica**  
_Dream Song_ by **Ministry** Girl: “Do you believe in Angels?” Demon (or whatever): “No.”  
_Don’t Give Up_ by **Peter Gabriel**

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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 5:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/63 "2009-05-26T17:37:17Z")

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One of my favorites is **“My Youngest Son Came Home Today.”** A heart-wrenching anti-war song written by Eric Bogle, but best known as covered by **Billy Bragg**.

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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/64 "2009-05-26T17:44:30Z")

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Dark On You Now by The Peanut Butter Conspiracy is the #1 most played song on my itunes/last.fm due to me listening to it OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER a couple months ago when my last relationship was deteriorating. It really fits the “wallowing in your misery” description perfectly. Ironically it was she who introduced me to the band.

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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/65 "2009-05-26T17:47:08Z")

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Court & Spark - Joni Mitchell

Lather - Jefferson Airplane

Verdi Cries - 10,000 Maniacs

the Night They Drove Old Dixie Down - the Band

Castles Made of Sand - the Jimi Hendrix Experience

I Don’t Want to Wait In Vain - Bob Marley (later covered by Annie Lennox)

Wharf Rat - the Grateful Dead

the Needle & the Damage Done - Neil Young

Untouchable Face - Ani Difranco

Silent All These Years / Tear In Your Hand - Tori Amos

Birdland - Patti Smith

Edit: Almost forgot - White Bird - It’s a Beautiful Day

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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/66 "2009-05-26T18:20:03Z")

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_When Somebody Loved Me_, from Toy Story 2. It just breaks your heart. I always think of pets being left at the pound when I hear that song.

StG

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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 6:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/67 "2009-05-26T18:50:04Z")

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Pictures of You - the Cure

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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/68 "2009-05-26T20:38:16Z")

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> [@StGermain](#):
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> _When Somebody Loved Me_, from Toy Story 2. It just breaks your heart.

Oh fuck!

Ya know, something always starts to irritate my contact lenses when I watch that scene. Never fails. Maybe I should dust more often. 😛

I even hate Jessie, but watching that scene still just irritates my contacts somehow… damn it. ☹

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**Post date:** [May 26, 2009, 11:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/69 "2009-05-26T23:22:06Z")

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I have two:

“Southern Soldier Boy”. I learned that when I was 13.

[![](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/TFFHMNBiYvM/hqdefault.jpg "The Southern Soldier Boy") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFFHMNBiYvM)

“Aura Lee”. My dad taught me that. I sang it at a church youth show when I was 10.

[![]( " - YouTube") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrLSADgIQpk)

Yeah, for my family the War never really ended. ☹ I blame it on my dad.

Okay, now I need to think of happy stuff.

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**Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/70 "2009-05-27T02:27:17Z")

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“Heartworms” — **Coil**

“There’s too much blood in my alcohol…”

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**Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/71 "2009-05-27T04:22:46Z")

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[**Goodbye**](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_pyZPDI54fI), Elton John and Bernie Taupin

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**Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 6:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/72 "2009-05-27T06:05:32Z")

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The Final Cut, the whole album, by Pink Floyd.

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**Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 10:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/73 "2009-05-27T10:12:34Z")

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The Business of Things, The Beauty of the Rain and After All - Dar Williams  
Next Time, This Time and Lover’s Cross - Jim Croce  
Jokerman - Bob Dylan  
Famous Blue Raincoat - Leonard Cohen  
I Don’t Want to be Your Friend - Cyndi Lauper  
Never Saw Blue Like That - Shawn Colvin  
Margo’s Waltz and What He Doesn’t Know - Lloyd Cole  
Dorothy - Alison Moyet

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 1:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/74 "2009-05-28T01:09:14Z")

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Another song I managed to forget is “[Fallin On](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1FJA2RgpVg)” by Finger Eleven. It’s about unrequited (spelling?) love, as far as I can tell. Making it perfect for wallowing in misery as we all probably have a certain someone that “got away” or isn’t going to be ours and all we can do is pity ourselves.

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 1:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/75 "2009-05-28T01:42:06Z")

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_Nothing Else Matters_ is actually a happy song. It just sounds morose.

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 1:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/76 "2009-05-28T01:46:22Z")

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Which still qualifies it for this thread. Especially as it’s been mentioned at least three times. 😛

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/77 "2009-05-28T01:58:49Z")

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Piece of my heat - Janis Joplin. I played it after every brokenhearted teenage break up  
Tracks of My Tears - was that Smoky Robinson?  
Bellbottom blues - Eric Clapton but the Cher version is sadder.  
Boy with the sad hands Jay Clarkson

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/78 "2009-05-28T02:18:43Z")

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Ricki Don’t Lose That Number - Steely Dan  
Sara - Fleetwood Mac  
Still - Lionel Richie  
Bridge Over Troubled Water- Simon and Garfunkle

After all these years, these songs still make me tear up

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/79 "2009-05-28T02:37:19Z")

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How about the really old songs, like Joan Baez used to sing: The Trees they do Grow High, I Never Will Marry, The Silkie, Little Matty Groves, all full of untimely death and other unpleasantries. Just the thing for a rainy afternoon.

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 1:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-depressing-songs/497421/80 "2009-05-28T13:34:16Z")

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[Don’t Follow - Alice in Chains](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3EsQXaMqcpo)

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