# Your Favorite Poem

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [May 26, 2002, 3:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872 "2002-05-26T03:00:12Z")\
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**Author:** ![tetsusaru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f14d63/32.png) [@tetsusaru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tetsusaru)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2002, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/21 "2002-05-27T14:06:27Z")

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Oh, life is a glorious cycle of song  
A medley of extemporanea  
And love is a thing that can never go wrong  
And I am Marie of Roumania

Dorothy Parker

There`s a also a great poem by the scientist J B S Haldane, which he wrote as he was dying of cancer: too long to quote here, but the opening couplet is

I wish I had the voice of Homer  
To sing of rectal carcinoma

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**Author:** ![cleops](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/2acd7d/32.png) [@cleops](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cleops)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2002, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/22 "2002-05-27T14:46:51Z")

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I’m with pepperlandgirl and Ra Cha’ar on _Prufrock_. Two other favorites, in addition to some already mentioned, are Philip Larkin’s _Aubade_ and _Next, Please_.

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**Author:** ![Tretiak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a88e57/32.png) [@Tretiak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tretiak)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2002, 3:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/23 "2002-05-27T15:49:29Z")

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_If_ by Rudyard Kipling

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If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,  
Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch.  
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,  
If all men count with you, but none too much;  
If you can fill the unforgiving minute  
With sixty seconds worth of distance run,  
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,  
And which is more, you’ll be a Man, my son!

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**Author:** ![OfBlinkingThings](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ebca7d/32.png) [@OfBlinkingThings](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OfBlinkingThings)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2002, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/24 "2002-05-27T17:42:40Z")

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The Genuis of the crowd By Charles Bukowski

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**Author:** ![Dr.Rieux](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/aeb1de/32.png) [@Dr.Rieux](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Rieux)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2002, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/25 "2002-05-27T17:58:23Z")

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_Shakespeare’s 29th Sonnet:_

When in disgrace with Fortune and men’s eyes,  
I all alone beweep my outcast state,  
And trouble deaf heaven with my bootless cries,  
And look upon myself and curse my fate,  
Wishing me like to one more rich in hope,  
Featured like him, like him with friends possessed,  
Desiring this man’s art, and that man’s scope,  
With what I most enjoy contented least;  
Yet in these thoughts myself almost despising,  
Haply I think on thee, and then my state  
(Like to the lark at break of day arising  
From sullen earth) sings hymns at heaven’s gate,

For thy sweet love rememb’red such wealth brings  
That then I scorn to change my state with kings.

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**Author:** ![SpoilerVirgin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4491bb/32.png) [@SpoilerVirgin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SpoilerVirgin)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2002, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/26 "2002-05-27T21:12:48Z")

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**Dirge Without Music**  
I am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground.  
So it is, and so it will be, for so it has been, time out of mind:  
Into the darkness they go, the wise and the lovely. Crowned  
With lilies and with laurel they go; but I am not resigned.  
Lovers and thinkers, into the earth with you.  
Be one with the dull, the indiscriminate dust.  
A fragment of what you felt, of what you knew,  
A formula, a phrase remains,–but the best is lost.  
The answers quick and keen, the honest look, the laughter, the love, –  
They are gone. They are gone to feed the roses.  
Elegant and curled  
Is the blossom. Fragrant is the blossom. I know.  
But I do not approve.  
More precious was the light in your eyes than all the roses in the world.  
Down, down, down into the darkness of the grave  
Gently they go, the beautiful, the tender, the kind;  
Quietly they go, the intelligent, the witty, the brave.  
I know. But I do not approve. And I am not resigned.

- Edna St. Vincent Millay

I was going to add that I also love Shakespeare’s Sonnets, especially numbers 29 and 30, but I see **Dr. Rieux** has beaten me to it.

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**Author:** ![milquetoast](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/258eb7/32.png) [@milquetoast](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/milquetoast)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 12:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/27 "2002-05-28T12:10:10Z")

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_In the desert_

In the desert  
I saw a creature, naked, bestial,  
Who, squatting upon the ground,  
Held his heart in his hands,  
And ate of it.

I said, “Is it good, friend?”  
“It is bitter—bitter,” he answered;  
"But I like it  
"Because it is bitter,  
“And because it is my heart.”

— **Stephen Crane**

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**Author:** ![crazy4chaucer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b5e925/32.png) [@crazy4chaucer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crazy4chaucer)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 1:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/28 "2002-05-28T13:08:14Z")

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Two of my favorites have already been listed–_The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock_ and _Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night_ .

Here are my other two favorites:

_She Walks in Beauty_ by George Gordon, Lord Byron

She walks in beauty, like the night  
Of cloudless climes and starry skies;  
And all that’s best of dark and bright  
Meet in her aspect and her eyes:  
Thus mellow’d to that tender light  
Which heaven to gaudy day denies.

One shade the more, one ray the less,  
Had half impair’d the nameless grace  
Which waves in every raven tress,  
Or softly lightens o’er her face;  
Where thoughts serenely sweet express  
How pure, how dear their dwelling-place.

And on that cheek, and o’er that brow,  
So soft, so calm, yet eloquent,  
The smiles that win, the tints that glow,  
But tell of days in goodness spent,  
A mind at peace with all below,  
A heart whose love is innocent!

AND

_Pied Beauty_ by Gerard Manley Hopkins

Glory be to God for dappled things–  
For skies of couple-colour as a brinded cow;  
For rose-moles all in stipple upon trout that swim;  
Fresh-firecoal chestnut-falls; finches’ wings;  
Landsacpe plotted and pieced–fold, fallow, and plough;  
And all trades, their gear and tackle and trim.

All things counter, original, spare, strange;  
Whatever is fickle, freckled (who knows how?)  
With swift, slow; sweet, sour; adazzle, dim;  
He fathers-forth whose beauty is past change:  
Praise him.

AND

_The Suicide_ by Edna St. Vincent Millay but since it’s quite long I won’t type it in here.

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**Author:** ![Labdad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/439d5e/32.png) [@Labdad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Labdad)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 1:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/29 "2002-05-28T13:26:12Z")

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It would be something by Coleridge; either **Kubla Khan** or **The Rime of the Ancient Mariner**.

The last lines of **Kubla Khan** give me shivers:

I would build that dome in air,  
That sunny dome! those caves of ice!  
And all who heard should see them there,  
And all should cry, Beware! Beware!  
His flashing eyes, his floating hair!  
Weave a circle round him thrice,  
And close your eyes with holy dread,  
For he on honey-dew hath fed,  
And drunk the milk of Paradise.

But then, so do these verses from **Ancient Mariner** :

_The ancient Mariner beholdeth a sign in the element afar off._

At first it seemed a little speck,  
And then it seemed a mist ;  
It moved and moved, and took at last  
A certain shape, I wist.  
A speck, a mist, a shape, I wist!  
And still it neared and neared :  
As if it dodged a water-sprite,  
It plunged and tacked and veered.

_At its nearer approach, it seemeth him to be a ship ; and at a dear ransom he freeth his speech from the bonds of thirst._

With throats unslaked, with black lips baked,  
We could nor laugh nor wail ;  
Through utter drought all dumb we stood!  
I bit my arm, I sucked the blood,  
And cried, A sail! a sail!

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**Author:** ![Humble\_Servant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/47e85d/32.png) [@Humble\_Servant](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Humble_Servant)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 2:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/30 "2002-05-28T14:34:48Z")

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I can’t resist a poem thread–I love the Eliot, the Lewis Carroll and the Keats. I was also particularly struck by the Donne and the Millay today–I’ve always thought that Donne sounds so modern–maybe he should have been born in this century.

Trying hard not to repost stuff I’ve posted before, I offer:

Western wind, when wilt thou blow,  
The small rain down can rain?  
Christ, if my love were in my arms,  
And I in my bed again!

–Anon.

Also [here’s Eugen Field’s _Wynken, Blynken and Nod_](http://www.amherst.edu/~rjyanco/literature/eugenefield/poems/poemsofchildhood/wynkenblynkenandnod.html) which I read to my kids last night. Last verse:

Wynken and Blynken are two little eyes,  
And Nod is a little head,  
And the wooden shoe that sailed the skies  
Is a wee one’s trundle-bed.  
So shut your eyes while mother sings  
Of wonderful sights that be,  
And you shall see the beautiful things  
As you rock in the misty sea,  
Where the old shoe rocked the fisherman three:  
Wynken, Blynken, and Nod.

I want to fish for the herring fish and see the beautiful things too.

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 2:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/31 "2002-05-28T14:49:33Z")

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Alone by Edgar Poe

FROM childhood’s hour I have not been  
As others were; I have not seen  
As others saw; I could not bring  
My passions from a common spring.  
From the same source I have not taken  
My sorrow; I could not awaken  
My heart to joy at the same tone;  
And all I loved, I loved alone.  
Then - in my childhood, in the dawn  
Of a most stormy life - was drawn  
From every depth of good and ill  
The mystery which binds me still:  
From the torrent, or the fountain,  
From the red cliff of the mountain,  
From the sun that round me rolled  
In its autumn tint of gold,  
From the lightning in the sky  
As it passed me flying by,  
From the thunder and the storm,  
And the cloud that took the form  
(When the rest of Heaven was blue)  
Of a demon in my view

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**Author:** ![RealityChuck](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/realitychuck/32/195_2.png) [@RealityChuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RealityChuck)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 3:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/32 "2002-05-28T15:31:42Z")

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Love the Crane, too.

I’m also a fan of Andrew Marvell’s [To His Coy Mistress](http://www.library.utoronto.ca/utel/rp/poems/marvell1.html), a poem of seduction (BTW, the footnote doesn’t correctly explain the bawdy pun Marvell was making when he used the phrase “Your quaint honor.”)

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**Author:** ![erislover](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/71e660/32.png) [@erislover](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/erislover)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 7:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/33 "2002-05-28T19:26:34Z")

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Stephen Crane’s:

> [@](#):
>
> In the desert  
> I saw a creature, naked, bestial,  
> Who, squatting upon the ground,  
> Held his heart in his hands,  
> And ate of it.  
> I said, “Is it good, friend?”  
> “It is bitter - bitter,” he answered;  
> “But I like it  
> Because it is bitter,  
> And because it is my heart.”

> [@](#):
>
> A man said to the universe:  
> “Sir, I exist!”  
> “However,” replied the universe,  
> "The fact has not created in me  
> “A sense of obligation.”

My two favorite poems (listed, incidentally, in opposite order here) by any poet, and they are the by the same poet. What a guy.

Not my favorite poet, however. But I don’t read much poetry.

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**Author:** ![erislover](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/71e660/32.png) [@erislover](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/erislover)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/34 "2002-05-28T19:27:41Z")

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hmm, and yet it seems someone else likes the desert/heart poem, too. It is good stuff, IMO. 🙂

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 11:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/35 "2002-05-28T23:03:02Z")

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Here’s another we like, from the greatest writer ever “anon”

Anon.  
“Two Little Shadows”  
I saw a young mother  
With eyes full of laughter  
And two little shadows  
Came following after.  
Wherever she moved,  
They were always right there  
Holding onto her skirts,  
Hanging onto her chair.  
Before her, behind her -  
An adhesive pair.  
“Don’t you ever get weary  
As, day after day,  
your two little tagalongs  
Get in your way?”  
She smiled as she shook  
Her pretty young head,  
And I’ll always remember  
The words that she said.  
“It’s good to have shadows  
That run when you run,  
That laugh when you’re happy  
And hum when you hum -  
For you only have shadows  
When your life’s filled with sun.”

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/36 "2002-05-28T23:31:47Z")

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I’m a big fan of Wendy Cope. Here are some that are especially good:

[Wasteland Limericks](http://www.utdallas.edu/~jenelow/Cope.html#wasteland), for all you Eliot fans.

[Bloody Men](http://waves.loffredo.it/bilin/cope.html#3)- with a helpful Italian translation!

I also like “Another Unfortuante Choice” and “Faint Praise”, but I can’t find either online in convenient linkable form, and they’re so short I think any coherent quote would go beyond fair use.

(While I was looking for the others, I came across this: [A Poetic Way to Fight Some Ignorance](http://www.roundtower.com/Law_Of_Copyright/body_law_of_copyright.html))

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**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 11:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/37 "2002-05-28T23:34:07Z")

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**Dr. Rieux** already posted my favorite, Shakespeare’s Sonnet 29.

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**Author:** ![Big\_Kahuna\_Burger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Big\_Kahuna\_Burger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Big_Kahuna_Burger)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 11:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/38 "2002-05-28T23:40:25Z")

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**Labdad** beat me to the punch for Rime of the Ancient Mariner.

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**Post date:** [May 29, 2002, 12:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/39 "2002-05-29T00:24:53Z")

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Richard Brautigan’s **Your Catfish Friend**  
If I were to live my life  
in catfish forms  
in scaffolds of skin and whiskers  
at the bottom of a pond  
and you were to come by  
one evening  
when the moon was shining  
down into my dark home  
and stand there at the edge  
of my affection  
and think, “It’s beautiful  
here by this pond. I wish  
somebody loved me,”  
_I’d_ love you and be your catfish  
friend and drive such lonely  
thoughts from your mind  
and suddenly you would be  
at peace,  
and ask yourself, “I wonder  
if there are any catfish  
in this pond? It seems like  
a perfect place for them.”

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**Post date:** [May 29, 2002, 12:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-favorite-poem/110872/40 "2002-05-29T00:41:19Z")

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Pretty women wonder where my secret lies  
I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size  
But when I start to tell them  
They think I’m telling lies.  
I say  
It’s in the reach of my arms  
The span of my hips  
The stride of my steps  
The curl of my lips.  
I’m a woman  
Phenomenally  
Phenomenal woman  
That’s me.

I walk into a room  
Just as cool as you please  
And to a man  
The fellows stand or  
Fall down on their knees  
Then they swarm around me  
A hive of honey bees.

```
   I say

```

It’s the fire in my eyes  
And the flash of my teeth  
The swing of my waist  
And the joy in my feet.  
I’m a woman  
Phenomenally  
Phenomenal woman  
That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered  
What they see in me  
They try so much  
But they can’t touch  
My inner mystery.  
When I try to show them  
They say they still can’t see.

```
       I say

```

It’s in the arch of my back  
The sun of my smile  
The ride of my breasts  
The grace of my style.  
I’m a woman  
Phenomenally  
Phenomenal woman  
That’s me.

Now you understand  
Just why my head’s not bowed  
I don’t shout or jump about  
Or have to talk real loud  
When you see me passing  
It ought to make you proud…

```
   I say

```

It’s in the click of my heels  
The bend of my hair  
The palm of my hand  
The need for my care.  
'Cause I’m a woman  
Phenomenally  
Phenomenal woman  
That’s me.

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