# Your GF/Wife passes out during mid coitus: D you finish? **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [May 22, 2015, 4:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601 "2015-05-22T16:52:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 7:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/21 "2015-05-22T19:19:18Z")
> [@Shakes](#): > > Thanks for the thread shit. And please just report a post if you have a problem with it. ---
**Author:** ![GrumpyBunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bc8723/32.png) [@GrumpyBunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrumpyBunny)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/22 "2015-05-22T19:25:42Z")
> [@Shakes](#): > > No actually, I think there is a worth while conversation to be had here. > > Right now the poll reads that an overwhelming majority of men would stop. Yet the few women who have participated in this thread are split 50/50. > > That indicates to me that there is a gap of communication between men and women. So, ya’ know, maybe this conversation is worth having. And a conversation would be necessary to know what to do, IRL. At bedtime, I take an opiate and a muscle relaxant. If I know that I’ll be canoodling that night, I don’t take the meds until after said canoodling. If I do take it and start canoodling, well, I’m not accountable for falling asleep. Said sleep has absolutely no relationship to the guy’s performance. I just can’t fight the drug combo. I tell anyone I’m sleeping with about that, and not to worry if I do fall asleep in that situation. (I’ve also fallen asleep while reading, playing Scrabble on the Kindle, and mid-sentence.) And so I’m fine with him finishing. Doesn’t seem fair for me to get mine and him not get his. ---
**Author:** ![cmyk](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmyk/32/3353_2.png) [@cmyk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmyk)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/23 "2015-05-22T19:25:57Z")
**Asimovian,** As for myself, I’m being dead serious. Not to mention his previous thread about waking up to find a 15 yo girl down your pants fondling your junk, “what would you do?” I mean c’mon. Common sense tells you all you need to know if you’re in those situations, even hypothetically. That is, unless you might be a bit sociopathic, in the clinical sense. ---
**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 7:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/24 "2015-05-22T19:35:26Z")
What the everlasting fuck? How is this even a question? Edit: and you see how the women responders have a 50/50 chance? So yeah, you’d have a 50/50 chance of continuing sex with someone who doesn’t want you to. How do you like them odds? Just my humble opinion, of course, but this question is appalling. ---
**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 7:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/25 "2015-05-22T19:36:27Z")
The OP can defend himself as he will. When I saw the thread I assumed it was loosely prompted by this recent thread [Is this rape? (\*Don't Need Answer Fast\*) - In My Humble Opinion - Straight Dope Message Board](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=757150) which amounts to “Drunk people have sex. Rape or not?” Which got a lot of different and changing opinions as the OPer slowly added more and conflicting info about his FOAF but probably real story. ---
**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/26 "2015-05-22T19:39:18Z")
Moving to The Pit. ---
**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 7:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/27 "2015-05-22T19:55:20Z")
Thank you. What a fuckin’ disaster of a thread. “Guys, you get the chance to rape your wife. Whaddya say, do you go ahead and rape her? She’s consented lots of times before!” Jesus Christ. ---
**Author:** ![cmyk](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmyk/32/3353_2.png) [@cmyk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmyk)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/28 "2015-05-22T19:59:31Z")
> [@Asimovian](#): > > Moving to The Pit. Good call. ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/29 "2015-05-22T20:02:02Z")
> [@GrandWino](#): > > A bit early in the day to be fishing for wank material isn’t it? I guess it is the Friday of a long weekend. This hypothetical is a hair better than your[last fishing expedition](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=757194) at least. Ooh,\* snap\*! ---
**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/30 "2015-05-22T20:21:20Z")
Of course you stop and make sure she’s okay. If she can’t answer, you call 911. Is there really a question here? ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/31 "2015-05-22T20:27:45Z")
> [@Morgenstern](#): > > Of course you stop and make sure she’s okay. If she can’t answer, you call 911. Is there really a question here? As much of a question as one can type one handed while wanking with the other, I suppose. ---
**Author:** ![Knorf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/58956e/32.png) [@Knorf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Knorf)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/32 "2015-05-22T20:31:08Z")
Ah, yes, now that this is in the Pit, we can tell **Shakes** what we really think of him. What the fuck is wrong with you, you pervy imbecile? Got any more jackass polls to try to jimmy up your reprobate morality? ---
**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/33 "2015-05-22T20:32:12Z")
About the only thing associate with Shakes is that he’s creepy about women. But he seems to be getting creepier and creepier. ---
**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/34 "2015-05-22T20:34:59Z")
> [@Morgenstern](#): > > Of course you stop and make sure she’s okay. If she can’t answer, you call 911. Is there really a question here? Yeah. How long will the ambulance take? ---
**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/35 "2015-05-22T20:36:44Z")
> [@Shakes](#): > > \*Before anyone starts in on me: The word coitus is quite fitting for this particular hypothetical. I find it fascinating that you thought your _word choice_ was going to be the most controversial aspect of this particular thread. ---
**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/36 "2015-05-22T20:41:35Z")
> [@running\_coach](#): > > Yeah. How long will the ambulance take? Now I know why they discourage husbands from riding in the ambulance. :smack: ---
**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/37 "2015-05-22T20:42:48Z")
You keep complaining ATMB about threadshitters. Dude, threadshitting implies that this thread didn’t start as a festering cesspool. Your question is asking people if under particular circumstances they’d rape their wives. How horrible of a human being do you have to be to think this is a legitimate question? ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/38 "2015-05-22T20:42:51Z")
> [@Giraffe](#): > > I find it fascinating that you thought your _word choice_ was going to be the most controversial aspect of this particular thread. No I knew I was pushing boundaries, that’s why I started the thread. I expected there to be some civil back and forth on the issue. I only pointed out the “coitus” part because people like to blame Sheldon Cooper for making this word a thing. I wasn’t particularly interested in that conversation. ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/39 "2015-05-22T20:44:38Z")
> [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](#): > > You keep complaining ATMB about threadshitters. Dude, threadshitting implies that this thread didn’t start as a festering cesspool. Your question is asking people if under particular circumstances they’d rape their wives. How horrible of a human being do you have to be to think this is a legitimate question? Says you. Let’s ask the women who answered “Go ahead” if they think their husbands or BFs are raping them. ---
**Author:** ![cmyk](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmyk/32/3353_2.png) [@cmyk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmyk)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2015, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-gf-wife-passes-out-during-mid-coitus-d-you-finish/720601/40 "2015-05-22T20:46:38Z")
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