# Your most painfully beautiful song **URL:** \ **Category:** Cafe Society\ **Created:** [January 31, 2008, 9:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698 "2008-01-31T09:11:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Dr.Rieux](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/aeb1de/32.png) [@Dr.Rieux](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Rieux)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 4:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/21 "2008-01-31T16:30:40Z")
“Vincent” by Don McLean. ---
**Author:** ![StuffLikeThatThere](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bc8723/32.png) [@StuffLikeThatThere](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StuffLikeThatThere)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/22 "2008-01-31T17:06:39Z")
Billy Joel’s “Lullaby” ---
**Author:** ![koeeoaddi](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/koeeoaddi/32/408_2.png) [@koeeoaddi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/koeeoaddi)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/23 "2008-01-31T17:17:10Z")
[QUOTE=chocolatefrog] _Waltz #2_, by Elliot Smith [/QUOTE] For me too. The _“XO, Mom. It’s okay, it’s alright, nothing’s wrong”_ part just kills me. …and **Liberal** , I’m so sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Jodi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7feea3/32.png) [@Jodi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jodi)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/24 "2008-01-31T17:20:28Z")
Joan Armatrading’s _The Weakness in Me_. You can find Melissa Etheridge and Keisha White performing it on YouTube, but neither version holds a candle to Armatrading’s for emotion. ---
**Author:** ![Caricci](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Caricci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Caricci)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/25 "2008-01-31T17:27:32Z")
Romeo and Juliet by Dire Straits. ---
**Author:** ![Liberal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/848f3c/32.png) [@Liberal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Liberal)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/26 "2008-01-31T17:28:57Z")
[QUOTE=koeeoaddi] …and **Liberal** , I’m so sorry. [/QUOTE] How very kind. Thank you. ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/27 "2008-01-31T17:39:40Z")
_Anachie Gordon_ as sung a capella by Sinéad O’Connor as an encore when I was at her concert in 1990. It’s beautiful no matter who sings it, but I’ve never heard it as heart-wrenching as her version that night. ---
**Author:** ![Dunawake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/85f322/32.png) [@Dunawake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunawake)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/28 "2008-01-31T17:40:10Z")
[QUOTE=SaharaTea] Jeff Buckley’s “Hallelujah.” [/QUOTE] I came in here to mention this song, but I see someone already beat me to it. So much emotion packed into this song… ---
**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/29 "2008-01-31T17:42:44Z")
Eva Cassidy covering Sting’s “Fields of Gold”. Sinead O’Connor covering Elton’s “Sacrifice”. ---
**Author:** ![Blaster\_Master](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/cab0a1/32.png) [@Blaster\_Master](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blaster_Master)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/30 "2008-01-31T17:50:09Z")
Easy, without a doubt, “One Last Goodbye” by Anathema. It’s even more powerful when in the context of the song that follows it on the album, “Parisienne Moonlight”. Every single time it has come up on shuffle at work, someone invariably asks about it. I can only imagine that people who aren’t moved by it have simply never had their heart broken. ---
**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/31 "2008-01-31T17:59:18Z")
_Who let the Dogs out?_ ---
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 6:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/32 "2008-01-31T18:00:11Z")
The Kurt Weill song, “September Song.” The version I know and love is by Lou Reed. ---
**Author:** ![Silver\_Tyger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/fbc32d/32.png) [@Silver\_Tyger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Tyger)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 6:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/33 "2008-01-31T18:10:52Z")
[QUOTE=olivesmarch4th] Okay, so I assume we’re to go for the most humiliating song that moves us to tears. For me, this would be the song ‘‘Now That I’m a Woman’’ from _The Last Unicorn._ Yes, this song is in fact about a unicorn’s reaction to being transformed into a woman. At least, that’s what it’s about when you see it as a little girl. The entire movie is a sort of epic metaphor for the risk and regret inherent in adulthood, along the same lines of _Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland._ So I watch it, I remember a time when I didn’t realize what it was about, and I cry. _Once, I can’t remember I was long ago someone strange I was innocent and wise and full of pain Now that I’m a woman Everything has changed…_ [There you go.](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KByKoAks8XM) _slinks away in shame_ [/QUOTE] Don’t be ashamed. The title song just kills me. “Leader of the Pack.” Just… just the opening breaks my heart. Laugh if you will. ---
**Author:** ![SaharaTea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@SaharaTea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SaharaTea)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 6:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/34 "2008-01-31T18:30:33Z")
[QUOTE=Lute Skywatcher] Sinead O’Connor covering Elton’s “Sacrifice”. [/QUOTE] Wow, thanks for posting this. It’s one of my favorite songs and I had no idea she did a [cover](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YRUK-vjKnw). It’s incredible. ---
**Author:** ![FriarTed](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/friarted/32/1052_2.png) [@FriarTed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FriarTed)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/35 "2008-01-31T18:47:29Z")
[QUOTE=Gatopescado] _Who let the Dogs out?_ [/QUOTE] And also the coolest! 😃 My responses- This Woman’s Work- Kate Bush By My Side from Godspell (the women know that Jesus is bummed but not quite why, and are promising total loyalty to him through whatever trials they face) and a song I heard when it first came out 30 years ago, had no idea where it came from, and rediscovered this week due to a mention on another thread here- Forever Autumn from the Jeff Wayne Musical WAR OF THE WORLDS sung by Justin Hayward. ---
**Author:** ![Purd\_Werfect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e47c2d/32.png) [@Purd\_Werfect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Purd_Werfect)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/36 "2008-01-31T18:57:37Z")
[QUOTE=WordMan] I do love this version, too. However, I must offer a different one for this category: [Tabula Rasa by Arvo Part](http://www.amazon.com/Tabula-Rasa-Arvo-Part/dp/B0000262K7/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=music&qid=1201794868&sr=1-1) (Amazon link). It is a modern classical piece for strings (cello’s mostly) that was featured in a New Yorker piece. They described how terminally patients tend to gravitate towards it because it has the complexity of sadness mingled with the optimism of arrival - they call it the music of the angels. It immediately came to mind as perfectly fitting the OP. [/QUOTE] What a good suggestion! Tabula Rasa is probably the most aching and beautiful album I’ve ever heard. As for my own contribution, I vote for “Some Grand Vision of Motives and Irony” by the criminally unknown Loud Family, off of their (great) album - “Plants and Birds and Rocks and Things”. ---
**Author:** ![Spoke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e57/32.png) [@Spoke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoke)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/37 "2008-01-31T19:07:44Z")
[Nightswimming](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4kinoIv0DpI) - R.E.M. or maybe [Goodbye](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjTSRJLn15k) by Steve Earle. ---
**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/38 "2008-01-31T19:30:57Z")
[QUOTE=SaharaTea] Wow, thanks for posting this. It’s one of my favorite songs and I had no idea she did a [cover](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YRUK-vjKnw). It’s incredible. [/QUOTE] You’re welcome. 🙂 Thank _you_ for the link, haven’t seen that before. ---
**Author:** ![MrSquishy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b9e5f3/32.png) [@MrSquishy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrSquishy)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 7:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/39 "2008-01-31T19:46:03Z")
[QUOTE=omgzebras] ‘Jezebel’ by Iron + Wine [![](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/ghBJhGIcneU/hqdefault.jpg "Iron & Wine - Jezebel") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghBJhGIcneU) It’s a bad quality fan video (though the music sounds ok) so it takes a second for them to start the song, but it’s worth a listen if you haven’t heard it. [/QUOTE] There’s a ton of Sam Beam songs I would describe as painfully beautiful. In fact, I think “painful beauty” should probably be the name of the section where Iron & Wine is located in the record store. I’d submit “Naked As We Came”, “Each Coming Night”, “Fever Dream” and “Passing Afternoon”, all from _Our Endless Numbered Days_, and “Faded From The Winter” and “Upward Over The Mountain” from _The Creek Drank the Cradle_. ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2008, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/40 "2008-01-31T19:52:32Z")
[QUOTE=OpalCat] _Anachie Gordon_ as sung a capella by Sinéad O’Connor as an encore when I was at her concert in 1990. It’s beautiful no matter who sings it, but I’ve never heard it as heart-wrenching as her version that night. [/QUOTE] (It’s almost impossible to find Sinéad’s version, but I’d recommend either Mary Black or Loreena McKennitt’s as the next best.) [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698.md?page=3)