# Your most painfully beautiful song

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [January 31, 2008, 9:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698 "2008-01-31T09:11:45Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Quint](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/76d3ee/32.png) [@Quint](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quint)\
**Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 7:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/121 "2008-02-05T07:50:42Z")

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I’m not a religious person, but every time I hear **Alison Krauss** sing “Down to the River to Pray” I wish I was.

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**Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/122 "2008-02-05T18:45:48Z")

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[QUOTE=ThirdCultureKid]  
I was about 13 and feeling particularly low, so my dad sat me down on the couch, put on **Bridge over Troubled Water** by **Simon and Garfunkel** , and hugged me all the way through.

And yes, I’m crying now, just thinking about it.  
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I started to cry when I read your post.

Also, a song I forgot to mention in my first post: “Con Te Partiro” by Andrea Bocelli. I know it was overplayed a few years back, but I still love it and find it moving.

Lastly, the Wednesday I returned to work after a couple of days of being sick at home, the local country music station played “Love, Me” and “Where Have You Been?” within an hour of each other. I mentioned them both in my earlier post. Perhaps the programming director at KKGO is a Doper as well?

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**Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 6:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/123 "2008-02-05T18:58:04Z")

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[QUOTE=ThirdCultureKid]  
I was about 13 and feeling particularily low, so my dad sat me down on the couch, put on **Bridge over Troubled Water** by **Simon and Garfunkel** , and hugged me all the way through.

And yes, I’m crying now, just thinking about it.  
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Dammit, I’m at work. You folks making me cry have to stop it! 😉

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**Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 7:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/124 "2008-02-05T19:50:57Z")

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Two that I don’t think have been mentioned:

**Famous Blue Raincoat** by Leonard Cohen and **Take It With Me** by Tom Waits.

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**Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 10:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/125 "2008-02-05T22:00:43Z")

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The oldies classic _Since I Fell For You_ can bring me right down.

Al Jarreau’s version (with David Sanborn) is by far the best.

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**Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 11:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/126 "2008-02-05T23:22:36Z")

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Dead Can Dance’s _Host of seraphim_.

Sarah McLachlan’s _Angel._

Melissa Etheridge’s _This War Is Over._

Pink Floyd’s _The Gunner’s Dream._

Just about any version of _Amazing Grace_ except the Dropkick Murphy’s. I like their version, but having it sped up and rocked out kind of takes away some of the emotional impact.

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**Author:** ![The\_King\_of\_Soup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a87d85/32.png) [@The\_King\_of\_Soup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_King_of_Soup)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 5:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/127 "2008-02-06T05:33:20Z")

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Richard Thompson, [“Bee’s-Wing.”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-K18xQgDS3U)

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**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/128 "2008-02-06T05:54:46Z")

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[QUOTE=ThirdCultureKid]  
I was about 13 and feeling particularily low, so my dad sat me down on the couch, put on **Bridge over Troubled Water** by **Simon and Garfunkel** , and hugged me all the way through.

And yes, I’m crying now, just thinking about it.  
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You inspired me to you tube the song…haven’t listened to it in years. It really is nice, isn’t it?

Thanks to\*\* King of Soup\*\* for introducing me to Richard Thompson. You Tube gave me lots on him.

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**Author:** ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 1:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/129 "2008-02-06T13:16:49Z")

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Regarding the song “Hurt”.

[QUOTE=PoorYorick]  
Johnny Cash’s interpretation of this song as seen by an old man looking back at his regrets . . . it gets me every time, and the video is just powerful.  
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Oh my god, yes.

There’s a song by Alison Kraus that I don’t know I’d call painfully beautiful, but I do refer to it as achingly lovely: “I Will”.

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**Author:** ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/130 "2008-02-06T13:17:53Z")

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[QUOTE=ThirdCultureKid]  
I was about 13 and feeling particularily low, so my dad sat me down on the couch, put on **Bridge over Troubled Water** by **Simon and Garfunkel** , and hugged me all the way through.

And yes, I’m crying now, just thinking about it.  
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And now I’m tearing up at reading this.

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**Author:** ![Rasa](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rasa/32/3578_2.png) [@Rasa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rasa)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 8:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/131 "2008-02-06T20:13:30Z")

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[Do You Realize?](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tRXO9Q8LkY) by the Flaming Lips

[This God Damned House](http://www.myspace.com/lowanthem) by The Low Anthem

[Perfect Circle](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmEfjfnjCBg) by R.E.M.

How could I forget [Angel Flying Too Close to the Ground](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jfBxfltYD0) by Willie Nelson? (I’m so not a Willie Nelson fan otherwise.)

And [I Have Always Been Here Before](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Hns-UAPGdI) by Roky Erickson

Old standards: Bridge Over Troubled Waters by Simon and Garfunkel, Amazing Grace on bagpipes, Mr. Tanner by Harry Chapin

I could go on forever.

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**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/132 "2008-02-06T20:41:07Z")

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[QUOTE=Quint]  
I’m not a religious person, but every time I hear **Alison Krauss** sing “Down to the River to Pray” I wish I was.  
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I am in a Gospel mixed quartet, and we started working this one up but we could never get it to quite gel, so we have left it alone for a while. I still hope we can pull it off.

And, to whoever it was who mentioned Richard Thompson, right back atcha with _Dimmin’ of the Day_.  
RR

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**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 9:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/133 "2008-02-06T21:53:42Z")

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If It Be Your Will written by Leonard Cohen, performed by Antony  
I did cry the first and several subsequent times I heard this.  
[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MDlMdu2gjw](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MDlMdu2gjw) link to Antony performance  
[http://www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/Leonard-Cohen/If-It-Be-Your-Will.html](http://www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/Leonard-Cohen/If-It-Be-Your-Will.html)

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**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 10:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/134 "2008-02-06T22:18:45Z")

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Return to Innocence by Enigma

Nightswimming by R.E.M.

Who Wants to Live Forever by Queen

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**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 10:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/135 "2008-02-06T22:52:17Z")

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paula cole’s, ‘where have all the cowboys gone?’  
i don’t know why, since i’ve been lucky in relationships, but that one gets the tear ducts busy.

another nod for mclachlan’s ‘angel.’  
what a song. it results in my utter destruction each and every time i hear it.

sting’s ‘fields of gold.’

played badly or played well: ‘taps.’

‘amazing grace.’ nuff said.

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**Post date:** [February 9, 2008, 9:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/136 "2008-02-09T09:44:57Z")

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I’m too gutless to read the whole thread right now, so I know this may already have been mentioned:  
“Forever Autumn”, by the Moody Blues.

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**Post date:** [February 9, 2008, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/137 "2008-02-09T18:38:49Z")

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**Sweet Jane** , as sung by Cowboy Junkies. The entire Trinity Sessions CD would qualify, however.

[Lost Cause](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ej8S0r6Jz8o) by Beck

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**Post date:** [February 9, 2008, 6:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/138 "2008-02-09T18:52:43Z")

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[QUOTE=Kizarvexius]  
_The Drinking Song_ by Moxy Früvous

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I used to be a much bigger Moxy Fruvous fan than I am now, but I still love that one. It might be the best use of their four-part vocal harmonizing skills, and it’s just so sad and wistful, and a little bit happy all at the same time. I especially like the little quote from “Goodnight, Irene” they weave into it. They get a little bit too “NPR-gimmick-goofball-folksy” for me, but “The Drinking Song” is really really nice.

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**Post date:** [February 9, 2008, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/139 "2008-02-09T19:30:29Z")

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[QUOTE=GingerOfTheNorth]

There’s a song by Alison Kraus that I don’t know I’d call painfully beautiful, but I do refer to it as achingly lovely: “I Will”.  
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Have you heard the original Beatles version? On the White Album. Nice - a little faster than Krauss.  
MiM

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**Post date:** [February 10, 2008, 12:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-most-painfully-beautiful-song/435698/140 "2008-02-10T00:11:48Z")

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[QUOTE=Grammanaut]  
Dire Straits - \*Brothers in Arms \*. I’m really supposed to be too cool to like those guys, but I cry like a baby every time I hear that song. It can be embarrassing in public.  
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Did I miss a memo? When did it become uncool to like Dire Straits? When I was younger Dire Straits were the height of cool. Maybe one step below Pink Floyd in the cool hierarchy.

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