# Your "old lady/man" celebrity crush

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [July 24, 2017, 1:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995 "2017-07-24T01:32:47Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 12:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/21 "2017-07-24T12:33:28Z")

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Thanks to _Ghostbusters_, Bill Murray was my first crush ever. I think I was five or six when that developed. I’m not sure I’m crushing as hard now that I’m grown.

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**Author:** ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 12:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/22 "2017-07-24T12:47:23Z")

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**Charlotte Rampling** is a damn handsome woman still today.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 2:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/23 "2017-07-24T14:12:41Z")

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I’m already 71, so: Dick Van Dyke.

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**Author:** ![Icarus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/icarus/32/72_2.png) [@Icarus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Icarus)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/24 "2017-07-24T14:21:02Z")

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> [@installLSC](#):
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> anything over five years older than you counts as “considerably older”.)

What is this, highschool? Once you get into real adulthood, 10 years is but a number.

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**Author:** ![Chronos](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chronos/32/134_2.png) [@Chronos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chronos)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/25 "2017-07-24T14:21:09Z")

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And speaking of _Ghostbusters_, Sigourney Weaver [still looks damn fine at 67](https://www.bleedingcool.com/2017/07/23/sigourney-weaver-alexandra-not-villain/).

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**Author:** ![installLSC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/54ee81/32.png) [@installLSC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/installLSC)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 2:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/26 "2017-07-24T14:49:15Z")

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> [@Icarus](#):
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> What is this, highschool? Once you get into real adulthood, 10 years is but a number.

Well in the OP “age appropriate” is defined as within 5 years of your age. So if you want to complain, complain in that thread.

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**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/27 "2017-07-24T15:11:13Z")

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Helen Mirren, Jane Seymour and Sigourney Weaver are all a good bit older than me and would get my vote.

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**Author:** ![Poysyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Poysyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Poysyn)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 4:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/28 "2017-07-24T16:19:26Z")

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Sam Elliott  
Viggo Mortensen  
Anthony Varrecchia (I realize he is gay, but it’s not like I have a shot in any possible scenario)

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**Author:** ![bibliophage](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bibliophage/32/7615_2.png) [@bibliophage](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bibliophage)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/29 "2017-07-24T16:37:55Z")

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Elle Mapherson is 5.5 years older than I am  
Laura Linney, also 5.5 years older  
Gates McFadden, 20 years older  
Diane Sawyer, 24 years older

And then there’s Jodie Foster, who is 7 years older. But she’s gay, so unlike the others I have no chance with her.

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**Author:** ![Maggie\_the\_Ocelot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/df705f/32.png) [@Maggie\_the\_Ocelot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maggie_the_Ocelot)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/30 "2017-07-24T16:46:26Z")

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Those who have passed, but were still doable at the time they passed: David Bowie, Elisabeth Sladen (Sarah Jane Smith).

Those still alive: Colin. Firth. Also, Peter Capaldi.

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**Author:** ![Intergalactic\_Gladiator](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/intergalactic_gladiator/32/112_2.png) [@Intergalactic\_Gladiator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Intergalactic_Gladiator)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/31 "2017-07-24T19:11:17Z")

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Amy Sedaris is 10 years older than me.

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**Author:** ![xizor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/xizor/32/102_2.png) [@xizor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xizor)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 9:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/32 "2017-07-24T21:02:19Z")

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Stevie Nicks is 69 and still drop dead gorgeous.

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**Author:** ![Weisshund](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba8739/32.png) [@Weisshund](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weisshund)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 9:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/33 "2017-07-24T21:29:53Z")

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Stevie Nicks  
Debbie Harry  
Nancy Wilson  
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**Author:** ![EinsteinsHund](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/einsteinshund/32/8400_2.png) [@EinsteinsHund](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EinsteinsHund)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/34 "2017-07-24T21:37:14Z")

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I’m 49, but I’ve always had and still have a thing for [Emmylou Harris](https://www.google.de/search?q=emmylou+harris&rlz=1C1AVFC_enDE743DE743&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjAj6347aLVAhXHnBoKHSU6AjYQ_AUICigB&biw=1366&bih=589). She’s seventy and still one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. Of course her wonderful music and angelic voice add to her attractiveness. I also like that she doesn’t dye her hair, the grey suits her very fine.

Another crush of mine, a beautiful, sophisticated and intelligent woman: [Senta Berger](https://i0.web.de/image/170/31508170,pd=2/senta-berger.jpg), 76. She looks her age, no doubt, but naturally matured, beautiful and wise.

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 10:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/35 "2017-07-24T22:43:08Z")

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I have always loved Richard Gere and still love him with silver hair. He’s still got the beautiful eyes and that distinctive walk. 🙂

Andy Garcia is right up there too.

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**Author:** ![Rhiannon8404](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rhiannon8404/32/17929_2.png) [@Rhiannon8404](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rhiannon8404)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2017, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/36 "2017-07-25T01:18:25Z")

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For oh so many years (pretty much since Die Hard) it was Alan Rickman. Meeting him in 2012 just solidified it for me. He was pretty much my one and only celebrity crush for the longest time.

Now I’m thinking, Timothy B. Schmidt. Saw him in concert last year at a very small venue and boy is he a beautiful man.

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**Author:** ![burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/burpo_the_wonder_mutt/32/365_2.png) [@burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/burpo_the_wonder_mutt)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2017, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/37 "2017-07-25T02:09:16Z")

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> [@Rhiannon8404](#):
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> For oh so many years (pretty much since Die Hard) it was Alan Rickman. Meeting him in 2012 just solidified it for me. He was pretty much my one and only celebrity crush for the longest time.
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> Now I’m thinking, Timothy B. Schmidt. Saw him in concert last year at a very small venue and boy is he a beautiful man.

…with a beautiful voice.

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**Author:** ![RivkahChaya](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rivkahchaya/32/8919_2.png) [@RivkahChaya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RivkahChaya)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2017, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/38 "2017-07-25T03:34:10Z")

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I’m 50

I really like **Deborah Harry** at any age, even the 72 she is this year and also **Denzel Washington** , who is 63, although I’m not sure that at my age, a 13 year difference is that big a deal.

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**Author:** ![TRC4941](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/trc4941/32/6792_2.png) [@TRC4941](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TRC4941)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2017, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/39 "2017-07-25T15:15:32Z")

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I have to agree with another poster. At the age of 56, a 61-year-old would seem practically the same age as me! But here are my choices (going by looks only!):

Pierce Brosnan  
Richard Gere  
Denzel Washington  
Kevin Costner  
Mark Harmon  
Jeff Bridges

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**Author:** ![caligulathegod](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/caligulathegod/32/9685_2.png) [@caligulathegod](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/caligulathegod)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2017, 12:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-old-lady-man-celebrity-crush/791995/40 "2017-07-26T00:14:52Z")

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Cassandra “Elvira” Peterson. Bernadette Peters.

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