# Your Wierdest Fantasy/Fetish **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [April 3, 2001, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640 "2001-04-03T14:28:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 7
**Author:** ![PolishSausage](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a9a28c/32.png) [@PolishSausage](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PolishSausage)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 1:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/121 "2001-04-05T13:23:38Z")
Going along with what Arden Ranger said in defense of the abduction/rape-thing. Ofcourse, I don’t want to harm anyone if it wasn’t something that was discussed before. Except for a slaps on the @ss durring $ex(and that was verbalized by the other person before I did it), I have never done anything close to what I was fantasizing about. I think we are all smart enough here to discuss these topics without the need for disclaimers. Thanks to the great post that have be put up; I have discovered new areas to expand my life experience. Biggest thanks going out to all the women who went out on a limb to actually talk about something that is apparently taboo. ~t ---
**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 1:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/122 "2001-04-05T13:23:56Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Anthracite \* > \*\*Am I the only one bothered by the women who say they have a fantasy of being abducted, kidnapped, bound, tortured, and/or raped? > > And I’m hoping that this is all a wishful thinking thing, where the person doing the abducting, kidnapping, binding, torturing, and/or raping is someone they know already, and have the hots for. Surely no one here is wanting to have a complete stranger do this to them, right? > > And if so, I’m willing to bet it’s really just whistling past the graveyard. Real life abduction and rape is extremely difficult to find excitement in. \*\* Go back and read the OP. We are talking about **fantasy** , not reality. We have all entered here to talk about fantasy. To inject reality or judgement is not participating in the thread properly. ---
**Author:** ![CalMeacham](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/calmeacham/32/35_2.png) [@CalMeacham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CalMeacham)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 1:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/123 "2001-04-05T13:52:20Z")
These entries cannot begin to describe truly WEIRD sexual fantasies. I am highly imaginative and creative, not to mention horny, and my fantasies are a great deal more interesting and twisted than anything I’ve read here. But wild horses couldn’t drag them out of me (not that that’s one of my fantasies). ---
**Author:** ![manhattan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/manhattan/32/7_2.png) [@manhattan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/manhattan)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 1:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/124 "2001-04-05T13:53:55Z")
Naw, it’s alright. **Anth** came in and expressed a concern, which I though was awful nice. And some folks agreed with the concern and reassured that everything was all in good fun and that the fantasies were really consensual and meant to be enjoyed, if at all, with someone known and trusted. It’s all good. Now back to the fantasies. Some of my favorite female dopers are still missing from this thread. ---
**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 3:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/125 "2001-04-05T15:29:21Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Eutychus55 \* > Okay, after _having_ to read what everybody else wrote, mine’s gonna look pretty stupid, but I just fantasize about loving, romantic, no-holds-barred, anything goes sex. > > Pretty boring, huh? “To dream the impossible dream…” 😃 . . . And 50 bonus points to anyone who gets the reference - by which I _don’t_ mean _Man of La Mancha_ directly. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jazzmine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5daacb/32.png) [@jazzmine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jazzmine)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/126 "2001-04-05T16:31:50Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Eutychus55 \* > \*\*Okay, after _having_ to read what everybody else wrote, mine’s gonna look pretty stupid, but I just fantasize about loving, romantic, no-holds-barred, anything goes sex. > > Pretty boring, huh? \*\* Not boring at all Euty. I would venture to guess this is a very typical fantasy. And it’s anything but mundane or pointless. I think any woman would be very lucky to have you in her life. trisha ---
**Author:** ![CalMeacham](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/calmeacham/32/35_2.png) [@CalMeacham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CalMeacham)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 4:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/127 "2001-04-05T16:41:03Z")
My point is that, while a lot of things posted here are interesting and sexy, most aren’t at all weird. Some people seem to go towards S&M, but you can easily get weirder than that. After all, this is a board where people discussed which cartoon character they’d like to have sex with. That’s already weirder than anything in this thread. Let your imagination run free! You can fantasize that: – You can increase or decrease the sensitivity of any of your or your partner’s parts –You can fly – you can swim like a fish and breathe underwater –You’re in zero gravity – You’re in low gravity – You and your partner are telepathic, communicating not just words, but concepts and emotions – You and your partner are your favorite superheros (Just how DID Mr. Fantastic and the Invisible Woman get it on?) – Come to that, you or your partner can become invisible, or selectively make parts invisible. – As one woman suggested in the “Breast” thread, detachable boobs. – Detachable penis and other parts. Maybe you can mix and match. Collect the entire set! – Change the setting – sex at any historical epoch. Sex at the top of the Empire State Building. Sex in the middle of Times Square. (Maybe you can “freeze” evetyone else in time) – You can change the perception of time. Orgasms last hours. – Sex as various animals – Sex as mythological creatures – You can change you or your partner’s size. – You can selectively change the size of body parts –You can duplicate yourself. Massage your partner while licking him/her while having sex. – Change bodies with your partner. THESE are weird sexual fantasies. I should point out that these are not necessarily mine. I can think of a great many others. The point is, the possibilities are boundless. ---
**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/128 "2001-04-05T16:57:36Z")
But, **CalMeacham** , I’ve already played all those fantasies out in my head. I’m a gamer afterall! ---
**Author:** ![Fiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e274bd/32.png) [@Fiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fiver)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/129 "2001-04-05T17:47:09Z")
I hadn’t posted to this thread yet because most of my fantasies involve things that aren’t possible with out magic or exotic technology, and everything up to now has focused on the possible, if improbable. Kidnappings and chains and so forth. **CalMeacham** has opened the door for anything we might imagine, so I’ll wade on in. I’ve imagined the kidnapping/domination scenario from both perspectives (hi **BunnyGirl**!). But on the dom side, I’ve got a wrinkle no one else has mentioned. Instead of ordinary restraints, I smear out a palmful of Super Glue into each hand and press them firmly against their corresponding buttcheeks. I have the solvent, young lady, but you’re going to have to earn it. Straying into the impossible, there’s the one where my partner and I are anthropomorphic cats. Or I’m human but have four adoring female slaves: One’s an anthropomorphic rabbit with tall ears, a cottontail, buck teeth and pink fingernails. Her name’s Bunny. Then there’s Fawn, with tiny doe-antlers on her forehead, short tufted turned-up tail, faintly ruddy complexion and triple rows of white spots down each side of her torso. Pussy, as we’d expect, is the feline, with slitted pupils, triangular ears on top of her head, black fingernails, slightly elongated canine teeth and a long, furred, exquisitely manipulable tail. Finally, we have Vixen, with her lithe, tanned figure (but black hands and feet) and foot-long curly tail that wags uncontrollably whenever I make eye contact with its owner. All stand at attention awaiting my merest notice, which to them is the greatest ecstacy. ---
**Author:** ![BunnyGirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/22d042/32.png) [@BunnyGirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BunnyGirl)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 6:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/130 "2001-04-05T18:10:17Z")
> [@](#): > > One’s an anthropomorphic rabbit with tall ears, a cottontail, buck teeth and pink fingernails. Her name’s Bunny. And boy, is my tail _soft_! You know what they say about bunnies… 😃 ---
**Author:** ![FallenAngel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@FallenAngel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FallenAngel)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2001, 6:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/131 "2001-04-05T18:32:10Z")
[QUOTE] \*Originally posted by Medea’s Child \* > [@](#): > > _Originally posted by Fallen Angel_ > \*\*For obvious reasons, being a tall, long and dark haired, techno-Goth and 2nd Amendment advocating anarchist, it’s not one I articulate that often. I get ENOUGH weird looks and “freak” comments in general conversation, thanks. I don’t need the hassle of someone suddenly assuming I’m interested in multiple felonies, but it definitely ranks in the top five ever. > > Being a moderately sexy writer (note the lower case) myself, maybe we should compare notes sometime, SW.\*\* > > Mmm…tall with long dark hair…techno goth… yea I need ice and to get home to my own dear beloved freak. And have a bitty talk with him. I think I need something fun soon… > > You have notes? May I see them? I’ll beg… > > \*\* But Medea’s Child, darling, of course I have notes. As a Byronist and one who firmly believes our grander inspirations are drawn from our prior experience, I tend to document extensively. Of course, should any event from RL find its way into a poem or story, details are shifted and names are changed to protect the very very guilty. Lastly, as one who believes using my mind, body and talents to satiate women’s desires (particularly fun are those desires where the woman seeks the contradiction of being fully empowered through her submission and / or helplessness) is among the highest forms of artistic expression, what would you like to see, notes-wise? ---
**Author:** ![Una\_Persson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/una_persson/32/346_2.png) [@Una\_Persson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Una_Persson)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/132 "2001-04-06T03:34:58Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Zebra \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > \*Originally posted by Anthracite \* > > \*\*Am I the only one bothered by the women who say they have a fantasy of being abducted, kidnapped, bound, tortured, and/or raped? > > > > And I’m hoping that this is all a wishful thinking thing, where the person doing the abducting, kidnapping, binding, torturing, and/or raping is someone they know already, and have the hots for. Surely no one here is wanting to have a complete stranger do this to them, right? > > > > And if so, I’m willing to bet it’s really just whistling past the graveyard. Real life abduction and rape is extremely difficult to find excitement in. \*\* > > Go back and read the OP. We are talking about **fantasy** , not reality. We have all entered here to talk about fantasy. To inject reality or judgement is not participating in the thread properly.\*\* Go back and read my post. I mention the word _fantasy_ in the first sentence. I’m also not “judging” anyone here either. And as for injecting reality, let me ask you a question: If your next door neighbor tells you his fantasy is to rape sodomize children, do you then choose him to be your babysitter because it’s all just fantasy? Don’t tell me that fantasy is 100% completely disconnected from IRL behavior. Which misses the whole point anyhow. Manny got it right. I essentially did not understand why so many women here and elsewhere seem to be so pleasurably excited by abduction, kidnapping, helplessness, and/or rape. Especially when the Left continues to crow that the “rape fantasy” is a myth, and that no sane woman would ever fantasize about it. I didn’t come in to spoil everyone’s fun. I was raped - twice. I just honestly don’t understand how the abduction/forced-helpless sex thing can be pleasurable in any way. And I don’t associate **non-helpless** bondage with this either, or give it any negative connotation. Quite the contrary, there is a difference. The act of bondage can be used to give yourself freely to someone you trust - and someone you know will stop and take care of you as soon as you say “no”. To submit to being bound and pleasured means that you trust that person with your very soul, and it can be an incredibly intimate and personal joining experience - or at least I think so. So long as the binder **never** violates the trust of the bindee - no second chances. But Hell - no one really understands what I’m saying anyhow. ---
**Author:** ![Mnementh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/898d66/32.png) [@Mnementh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mnementh)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 4:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/133 "2001-04-06T04:02:36Z")
Well, in the impossible category, I’ve always wanted to have the ability to become invisible and intangible. Also, to transfer this ability, and make my partner the same. So we can do anything we want, anywhere, anytime, with any audience, and noone knows about it. 😃 That, and I want to fly. Oh, how I want to be able to fly. Going on with that, weightless sex would be unimaginable, I think… ohbaby… Hey, is there even any ice _left_ after all this?! ---
**Author:** ![SINsApple](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@SINsApple](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SINsApple)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/134 "2001-04-06T04:41:43Z")
Eutychus, you pretty much summed up my most common/standard sexual fantasy. Hot passionate sex with a wonderful, loving partner. I just wouldn’t mind watching him drive first. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Badtz\_Maru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e36b37/32.png) [@Badtz\_Maru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badtz_Maru)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 11:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/135 "2001-04-06T11:39:10Z")
I’ll admit I have had fantasies involving a non-consenting partner, but I doubt I would ever make those fantasies real. My wife has let me know that a lot of times when I’m wanting to and she says no she wants me to take her anyway, but even knowing this I find it almost impossible to be rough with her like that. ---
**Author:** ![ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c77e96/32.png) [@ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 12:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/136 "2001-04-06T12:13:54Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Anthracite \* > **Especially when the Left continues to crow that the “rape fantasy” is a myth, and that no sane woman would ever fantasize about it.** Who said anything about sanity? [shudder] \*\* [/QUOTE] I don’t associate **non-helpless** bondage with this either, or give it any negative connotation. \*\* [/QUOTE] Well, we’re glad you understand and condone SOME of our fantasies. Nice to have your approval for those. -L ---
**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 2:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/137 "2001-04-06T14:01:21Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Anthracite \* > \*\* > Go back and read my post. I mention the word _fantasy_ in the first sentence. > > I’m also not “judging” anyone here either. \*\* I certainly read a judgemental quailty in your post. I may have been wrong but that is how I read it. > [@](#): > > \*\* > And as for injecting reality, let me ask you a question: If your next door neighbor tells you his fantasy is to rape sodomize children, do you then choose him to be your babysitter because it’s all just fantasy? Don’t tell me that fantasy is 100% completely disconnected from IRL behavior. \*\* A moot point as I have no children but I can tell you that it is possible to have a complete seperation of your fantasy life and your real life. I have fantasies that are not posted here that I would never act on IRL. How many people have a fantasy about killing thier boss? How many people actually kill their boss? > [@](#): > > \*\* > Which misses the whole point anyhow. Manny got it right. I essentially did not understand why so many women here and elsewhere seem to be so pleasurably excited by abduction, kidnapping, helplessness, and/or rape. Especially when the Left continues to crow that the “rape fantasy” is a myth, and that no sane woman would ever fantasize about it. \*\* Manny wanted to stop the hijack and get back to the good stuff. So you don’t get it. So what. You could post saying ‘I don’t get that.’ but you didn’t. As far as your claim that ‘the left’ says about womens fantasies, I’m not sure what you mean by ‘left’. Maybe ‘extreme left feminists’ would be more appropriate. > [@](#): > > \*\* > I didn’t come in to spoil everyone’s fun. I was raped - twice. \*\* I find this sentence to be confusing. You say you don’t want to spoil the fun but then you bring up a subject that is a complete turn off. > [@](#): > > \*\* > I just honestly don’t understand how the abduction/forced-helpless sex thing can be pleasurable in any way. \*\* This is what you could have posted in the first place. > [@](#): > > \*\* > And I don’t associate **non-helpless** bondage with this either, or give it any negative connotation. Quite the contrary, there is a difference. The act of bondage can be used to give yourself freely to someone you trust - and someone you know will stop and take care of you as soon as you say “no”. To submit to being bound and pleasured means that you trust that person with your very soul, and it can be an incredibly intimate and personal joining experience - or at least I think so. So long as the binder **never** violates the trust of the bindee - no second chances. \*\* Thank you for sharing this with us and joing the thread. > [@](#): > > \*\* > But Hell - no one really understands what I’m saying anyhow. \*\* Well we have all been there and done that so I’m not mad at you. FTR I don’t want to violently abduct and rape a woman in reality or fantasy. But I’ll let anyone have that fantasy and admire their courage to write about it. ---
**Author:** ![eirroc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f1d935/32.png) [@eirroc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eirroc)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/138 "2001-04-06T14:06:41Z")
> [@](#): > > _originally posted by Anthracite_ > But Hell - no one really understands what I’m saying anyhow. I understand what your saying **Anthracite** and I’m sure I talk for all the women here with the submissive “rape” fantasies, when I say that what you said in this part: > [@](#): > > The act of bondage can be used to give yourself freely to someone you trust - and someone you know will stop and take care of you as soon as you say “no”. To submit to being bound and pleasured means that you trust that person with your very soul, and it can be an incredibly intimate and personal joining experience - or at least I think so. So long as the binder never violates the trust of the bindee - no second chances. Is exactly what would take place in reality. I’m _positive_ I can say that _no_ woman on this earth would want to be raped in the proper sense of the word. ---
**Author:** ![London\_Calling](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/49beb7/32.png) [@London\_Calling](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/London_Calling)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/139 "2001-04-06T14:25:25Z")
I grew up with a guy called Kevin who developed a whole range of unusual fetishes as the hormones took hold. For example: Whenever there was a wedding reception anywhere near where we were, he’d go to the bathroom, strip off and then race onto the stage with his clothes under his arm, grabbing the mike for a sing-a-long. People were too dazed to take any action before he left. This happened very often for a couple of years. Had a terrible voice. One of his curious predilections was to have his girlfriends wear Wellington Boots that he’d filled with warm custard – he only ever got one to do this before I moved away but he and the girl definitely had a child together, not sure if they married (or what happened at the reception). Yep, it’s true. ---
**Author:** ![eirroc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f1d935/32.png) [@eirroc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eirroc)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2001, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640/140 "2001-04-06T14:27:55Z")
oops **Zebra** we posted a few minutes apart and I didnt see yours. Actually yours is better than mine and says what I wanted to say. (Having a bad posting day I think _sigh_) [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640.md?page=6) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/your-wierdest-fantasy-fetish/60640.md?page=8)